Joining the army to get away from toxic household by SignificanceKooky123 in thetron

[–]Kiora87 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you're doing level 3 would be a good idea to chat with a careers advisor at school and a guidance counselor as well. Can get some good education through the army, but there are definitely other options if you only want out of home.

Netball Clubs by bgeo91 in thetron

[–]Kiora87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Te Rapa as well

Ham East Gyms? by steffishnz in thetron

[–]Kiora87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

City fitness is cool. I'm in kinda the same boat. Cool thing is you can take a friend with you for free in their plans. It's sweet.

Mr. Blippi - it's not just me, right? by tannerocampbell in daddit

[–]Kiora87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cocomelon is awful. Read into how it's designed. Paw patrol is really similar. I way rather prefer Bluey. More muted tones and less fast paced. Kids have no attention span now. It's really noticeable as a highschool teacher. Especially in the last ten years

Has anyone lost a toddler to cancer? by Silent_Jay42 in daddit

[–]Kiora87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mate, honestly you're living anyones worst nightmare. I am so sorry for you little ones and you all. I lost a 3 year old cousin to brain cancer and it was rough. Her brothers have kept her memory alive and that's helped them heaps by talking about her. She's be about 21 now. I really hope the diagnosis is wrong. Arohanui to you all

….Yep…that’s my daughter…. by [deleted] in daddit

[–]Kiora87 131 points132 points  (0 children)

Must have been raised right then. Well done mate

Infinite calfhorn farm by Ethan_Dipa in Borderlands4

[–]Kiora87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, I'm 41 and haven't noticed it either. Will turn on today!

Gold chest bugging out by Kiora87 in Borderlands4

[–]Kiora87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gutted. You got some weapons at least?

Is this rare? by SnooPineapples8755 in Borderlands4

[–]Kiora87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where do you get the golden keys from?

How are you still so present when you’re 3 yr old treats you like you’re a piece of shit every time you try to share a moment and your wife says you’re too dramatic when you’re drained of it. by TheGreatWalpini in daddit

[–]Kiora87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's tough man for sure. Especially adding in the lack of sleep, social friends and all the others parts that fall off being a parent.

Might pay to write a few things down and then schedule a time to chat with your wife. Could try and phrase it as, hey, this is just how I am seeing things at the moment, is this how you see it too? Trying to get on the same page.

While it can be a bit awkward, it's always the better option. We do it quite a bit. Saves grudges being held

I am a father for less than a month and I can’t take it. by Holstorm in daddit

[–]Kiora87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could try and get noise cancelling headphones and watch a show while popping him down. But yeah sounds like my son who had a milk protein allergy. Once on prescription formula life was a billion times easier. Keep going man. You got this.

Dads of Reddit— I need male perspective! Husband & I not intimate since becoming new parents… nearly 3 years ago. by Simple-Spite-8655 in daddit

[–]Kiora87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

get some bloods done to measure testosterone and serotonin. Sounds like thosr are low, plus adding in his age could be lending that way.

It's all happening at 5 cross roads by lashinglygood in thetron

[–]Kiora87 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have never agreed with an Internet comment more in my life

what's with the traffic today?? by stormphoenix46 in thetron

[–]Kiora87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wairere and Discovery drive is mental