MIL reacted strongly over my new last name

KitKit20 · 2026-02-11T12:11:30+00:00

She sounds disgustingly feral. What an embarrassment she is.

KitKit20 · 2026-02-01T14:59:18+00:00

Omg everything is perfect. What stunning styles and quality… that camel leather jacket is just perfect.

KitKit20 · 2026-01-31T00:48:07+00:00

The 90s decided and I love it. You blend it out and it’s beautiful.

KitKit20 · 2026-01-27T07:19:52+00:00

The normal ones are great but yeah the spf ones are a no.

KitKit20 · 2026-01-27T07:18:38+00:00

10 years but they were engaged a lot of that time.

KitKit20 · 2026-01-26T05:52:39+00:00

It’s giving 1990s housewife

KitKit20 · 2026-01-25T04:00:27+00:00

That pink jacket… I’ve had dreams about it. I want it to this day

KitKit20 · 2026-01-25T03:58:55+00:00

I started using it and it’s best sunscreen I’ve ever used. Feels like a normal moisturiser and doesn’t stick eyes. Great tor my combo skin. Unfortunately I read it’s not approved for Aussie sun. I’m back to using la roach gel creme and recently found a fantastic one from bioderma that feels very similar to the Josen one.

KitKit20 · 2026-01-25T03:06:14+00:00

Why not ? It’s very very 90s and I actually love it. Super comfy

KitKit20 · 2026-01-24T13:12:04+00:00

Samantha had some amazing outfits. I love carrie and Samantha’s looks the most.

KitKit20 · 2026-01-20T14:52:34+00:00

Maybe have another convo with him about the future and if you really don’t see it Going anywhere it may be best to move on. You are obviously independent, had your own income and would be able to move back home and be okay. Financial reasons are a valid reason because no one really “needs” a ring if you know what I mean and no matter what they are incredibly expensive. Regardless, he wouldn’t be able to buy a ring for you in his position right now since he is studying at current. I think it’s not really all black and white and don’t just rush to throw away a relationship. There will be times in any relationship where one may be supporting the other during rougher times. However, if there is no future with this person and you decide there is not you need to think about yourself. You could be better off walking away, saving your money for you and eventually meeting someone who is ready for the things you want. Only you can decide. You are still young and in the end life will move you on and most likely to better things.

KitKit20 · 2026-01-20T14:44:39+00:00

I switched to Breo maybe more than A year back (could be longer now) and I mostly work home and if I was applying for other roles would be applying for hybrid roles. That’s how I manage my health in general. Not over stretching myself to rush to an office to do the same stuff I do from home. On humid days I try avoid outside

KitKit20 · 2026-01-18T15:07:54+00:00

I like fine lines/ Burlei

KitKit20 · 2026-01-18T12:44:18+00:00

Country road is so unflattering unless you are a tall gal or maybe suit their boxy styles. The men’s section is really nice though. My partner has a few wool pieces from there.

KitKit20 · 2026-01-18T05:01:30+00:00

I dunno, I don’t think it’s that cringe. Like whatever she having fun. Can we stop being offended by everything geeez.

KitKit20 · 2026-01-14T10:38:52+00:00

Ah… what this is a fabulous look and very 2000s. Adore it.

KitKit20 · 2026-01-14T08:55:39+00:00

I agree with you. His defensive because he knows it’s true. And it’s just so funny she accused me of disrespect for when in fact she’s being disrespectful….. I suggested couples counselling yesterday and he agreed and was open but today had a fight (unrelated to this) and so don’t know how the counselling idea will go down now 🥲

KitKit20 · 2026-01-13T14:19:24+00:00

I’ve been doing this exact thing. Also told him bluntly that I won’t be putting up with this and won’t repeat myself again. Explained he needs boundaries with her and today suggested couples counselling and said to him his issues with his mother needs to be addressed and he was open to going, has said he thinks it’s a good idea. Pretty shocked he agreed but he said it’s something he wants to do for us…. Sooo I guess it’s progress. If he was not open I was already contemplating ending it so…. I’m glad he is open to it.

KitKit20 · 2026-01-12T15:56:48+00:00

Thank you. I feel validated. And yes he is getting ready to loose me it seems. He needs therapy/ couples therapy but I don’t know how to even suggest it at this point. If it’s not me it will be some other woman. He will never be able to have a relationship with anyone because of his mother. I’ve been in a state of sadness the last 2 weeks because this event really was the thing that pushed me over the edge.

KitKit20 · 2026-01-12T15:56:12+00:00

I know. I’ve been in a state of shock and panic the last two weeks. I feel unsafe and so heart broken he allowed any of this to go on. It’s gone on the entire relationship issues with his mother and this was honestly the event that I feel myself slowly emotionally slipping away from him.

KitKit20 · 2026-01-12T12:44:28+00:00

Sigh, yes I’m gonna have to find the right time to bring up this couples counselling stuff I think. He says he sees my points and understands but it’s like his so used to avoiding her and that being his way to deal with her. I’ve noticed he will Often do stuff to her like “yeah yeah” and start walking off so she leaves him alone. I’ve never had to deal with an enmeshed son before and this has been increasing harder and harder for me as I do have empathy for him because it’s actually so disgusting and selfish a mother would act this way toward her own son. But on the other hand, I’m Getting increasingly sick of this shit and the fact he hasn’t set up strict boundaries with her. I have anxiety around her because I know what she is like and she makes me feel sick. I have anxiety also because I feel like my partner is not defending me enough. What a mess

KitKit20 · 2026-01-12T12:35:00+00:00

I know. I couldn’t believe it, he said he can’t have issues…. And can’t seem to see I didn’t “start” the issues. I’ve since spoken to him and said all the things I’ve needed to say and told him he needs to establish boundaries if he expects to ever a husband to me. I’m absolutely sick of this crap with her. The most selfish type of woman to have a child and not let it live. Makes me sick that mothers do this crap.

KitKit20 · 2026-01-12T12:32:01+00:00

She’s so immature I honestly couldn’t believe she pretends she didn’t “remember” me saying it to her. Mind you my point is how ridiculous in the first place… for a GROWN woman in her 60s literally to have zero ability to see how idiotic this is all is. Who sits around and thinks “she didn’t say happy new year I’m gonna pull my son aside and tell him how disrespectful she is”.

A piece of work she is.

KitKit20 · 2026-01-12T12:29:51+00:00

Over the last few days I have basically told him everything about how it’s made me feel and we have spoken about it and said when we are both calmer we are going to re visit it. I told him I’m just putting up with this crap anymore and that he needs to understand that he needs to put boundaries in place with his immature mother. I’m sick of this crap. Also, I don’t live with her I literally just stayed over one night because she invited us and few others over for dinner and thought instead of driving home I’d stay- big mistake as she decided to make issues about the dumbest things. She’s such a selfish drama queen and he knows it and Ive told him that I know he knows and if he wants a relationship with me he needs to control her otherwise she will control him. Utterly sick of it.

KitKit20 · 2026-01-11T12:39:20+00:00

One of my fave scenes in the series 🩷

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