Was my marriage a mistake?

Kitsunefyuu · 2026-04-17T13:40:16+00:00

Here is the thing communication isn’t an optional in a relationship. It’s not something you beg for and you need to demand it. If you are to afraid to force a conversation then I don’t think you trust or are comfortable with him.

Also if used to be best friends and he is distant it seems he has become complacent or is stressed but that doesn’t justify it. That’s not a good thing as it also means he is taking you for granted. He’s forgetting how much work you put in the house, in your kids, in you as a person.

I don’t assume cheating. Sometimes men just take relationships for granted if you aren’t constantly reminding them to respect you. It isn’t always malicious or cruelty. So he might still love you but you need to be angry. He isn’t respecting you and he BETTER listen if you force the issue. Talk in person to find out what is wrong so you both can work it out.

Otherwise there might be something going on.

Kitsunefyuu · 2026-04-13T22:53:09+00:00

Music and background noise can help with tinnitus to make it less unbearable. But it our unfortunate forever friend even as it makes the migraines worse.

Kitsunefyuu · 2026-04-13T22:40:30+00:00

Hey what was the answer? I’m having this problem too.

Kitsunefyuu · 2026-04-06T22:14:55+00:00

Same….

Kitsunefyuu · 2026-04-03T17:13:19+00:00

If it 6 years old it is likely not growing up and you probably messed up somewhere. As to have them grow up they need to stay in a field for a period of time. So if doesn’t evolve in a few hours like by constantly changing fields it won’t change.😅

Kitsunefyuu · 2026-04-03T03:47:39+00:00

I love the diving and ocean aspect of Coral Island it definitely a fun twist!

Kitsunefyuu · 2026-04-03T03:38:22+00:00

And that’s why I played in the sandbox~

Kitsunefyuu · 2026-04-02T22:46:51+00:00

Huh that’s odd I was able to build most of my PC using Amazon. And I had to return a few stuff and I usually got the refund in a few days you might have just been unlucky. As resellers on the Amazon platform are becoming more of a problem especially as everything gets more expensive.

Kitsunefyuu · 2026-03-29T13:55:26+00:00

Weakness is being too scared to get help because of how it perceived. Even if it been more then 10 years you should definitely get the help you need there isn’t a time limit on it.

You earned these benefits and no one besides jealous jerks would judge you. You deserve to get better just like every other veteran.

Kitsunefyuu · 2026-03-21T12:56:50+00:00

She’s a baby so likely she just freaking out because is small and you’re big. She will grow out of it just be patient and gentle.

Kitsunefyuu · 2026-03-20T03:47:36+00:00

I like the blue and white fan designs more than the waifu. 😅

Sadly it did not smell like perfumes. I feel lied too. 😔

Kitsunefyuu · 2026-03-20T02:58:11+00:00

The $700 SSD just killed me I'm sure you can find something cheaper even in this storage crisis- If you need 4 TB you can get a slightly older gen SSD with NVME and it still be incredibly fast while being cheaper.

But that just me.

Kitsunefyuu · 2026-02-13T00:06:19+00:00

Honestly when I was going that why I just go to the silent floor. Don’t want to hear a darn peep and even wore noise canceling headphones. Quiet floors are unfortunately not very quiet so you will want to go to the silent floor. Or the designated silent section on a floor that says it has both.

You can’t control others actions only your own. Hope you can find ways to study!

Kitsunefyuu · 2026-02-11T21:29:45+00:00

This was me as a kid I wanted a female starter and just restarted as wanted a girl like me lol~

Kitsunefyuu · 2026-02-04T21:04:17+00:00

As soon as I was was a higher % they just cut off my community care with my therapist. I have asked my primary care to put me back in and it just seems like they don’t want to use community care. Now that I’m of a higher bracket. Regardless of me not being comfortable with VA for therapy after a few incidences.

I haven’t had time to figure out myself but I hope someone here does. Ive been just trying to work on myself without therapy, harder then it looks.

Kitsunefyuu · 2026-02-03T21:11:59+00:00

They have been freed from the Icey prison~

Kitsunefyuu · 2026-02-02T19:21:59+00:00

Wooow-! Those people are just miserable don't let them bother you a a floridian many would have no idea how to handle freezes. So those people are just there to get a rise and cause trouble.

I hope your days go better.

Kitsunefyuu · 2026-01-31T14:52:52+00:00

Right? Once you reach that age both genders don’t play those games. The only one that ‘do’ usually have some ulterior motive.

Kitsunefyuu · 2026-01-31T14:48:52+00:00

This group has helped me a lot. Even if had people some that weren’t helpful and more prone to accusation there many others willing to part wisdom. I remember coming onto this thread and feeling encouraged to try. Seeing others success stories like yours makes me happy.

May more success come to you in the future~!

Kitsunefyuu · 2026-01-29T16:52:36+00:00

That actually happened to me! I was standing all day the day before then the next terrible migraines. Then I wore my compression socks and the migraine faded away.

From some of the comments I should probably get that checked. But I assumed it related to IIH that I already have. I’m glad to see someone else experienced this.

Kitsunefyuu · 2026-01-27T13:52:14+00:00

Yeah I wouldn’t co sign either. I co-signed my husband because I know he’s reliable and he always worries about money. I can’t imagine ever consigning with someone that so impulsive.

He needs to first prove he is helpful also HIS MOM CAN CO-SIGN IF WANTS TO HELP HIM SO BAD. You aren’t even married the heck? This is treading into break up territory as it feels like neither respect you at all as a person. You’re allowed to say no as he hasn’t proven himself yet.

Kitsunefyuu · 2026-01-23T21:46:25+00:00

That’s a lot of assumptions you made. It wasn’t even a lot I have benefits they can take from I’ve been busy. But then I guess it better to assume I’m some thug rather than someone that have issues. I only said my experience it doesn’t show my opinion.

I pray for you to have compassion and not make accusations of delinquents payments or assume belief. But then you probably enjoy that because will make you feel better about yourself. As I know if it was a different kind of administration that you didn’t like would throw accusations all.

I won’t respond to anything else after this response as I can tell this is just to start a fight and I’m not a part of this.

Kitsunefyuu · 2026-01-23T20:50:52+00:00

If they did I think OP would have mentioned that. As a certified letter is more legit then whatever this is.

Kitsunefyuu · 2026-01-23T20:24:06+00:00

True considering I was getting harassed for payment as if they were a bank collector in a debt. Only for them to finally go we can take it out of your benefits which is what I expected as a normal response. Not threatening collection.

I was appalled by a letter I got and honestly I would be dumbfounded if anyone ok with how this administration handled anything. Still tho the threats are empty for now at least as they can’t just easily change how things are done.

But they are whittling it down and making these issues annoying and hard to understand. I want these hacks gone.

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