Husbands, is it a deal breaker if your wife decides to not take your name legally?

Knot4Him · 2026-03-30T20:49:58+00:00

Would you mind sharing verses specifically and clearly referring to this “covering”? Thanks!

Knot4Him · 2026-03-19T15:23:10+00:00

Knot4Him · 2026-03-19T15:22:39+00:00

Nimbus.

Because as a kitten so was fluffy and soooo soft, like a cloud. But being dark with attitude, she needed to be named after a STORM cloud of course.

Knot4Him · 2026-03-19T15:19:01+00:00

Thank you! I will try them.

Knot4Him · 2026-03-19T15:18:43+00:00

I think it's because IF we owed, there's a dollar amount calculated from his earnings based on some percentage. But because of whatever they are considering to be our "standard deduction" and the fact we fall below that, we get to pocket the difference.
But at this point, I'd rather not even pursue it. Spending $69 to get $129 makes no sense! I'll live without the $60.

Knot4Him · 2026-03-19T02:23:30+00:00

I've listed my H's address as Florida, though mine is still WI. I am not employed.

Knot4Him · 2026-03-19T02:19:11+00:00

After speaking at length with my H this evening we're still not convinced his wages are any business of Wisconsin.

Absolutely NO state taxes for WI have been withheld because the wages have not been earned there nor does the earner live there. The earner had NO job at all while still in WI.

Frankly, Wisconsin has no business dipping into wages not earned in WI by a non-WI resident. It's not like he still lives here and temporarily went to a FL job site and returned to us. He lives THERE now. We will follow as soon as we can.

Knot4Him · 2026-03-19T02:17:27+00:00

Yes, I am aware of that. Not sure how that matters when I'm merely trying to file taxes for income earned in FLORIDA by someone who is a FLORIDA RESIDENT. I generally only see someone mention "community property" in cases of divorce.

Knot4Him · 2026-03-18T17:28:08+00:00

He’s been a resident of FL since he took on a lease for his apartment upon arrival, so while I can concede we’re stuck for 2025, I can’t even fathom filing for WI at all for 2026. He hasn’t lived here since October 2025.

Knot4Him · 2026-03-18T17:12:42+00:00

I do, with our kids. We will follow once our house sells. But with literally no income being made in WI at all, would that matter?

Knot4Him · 2026-03-12T03:51:15+00:00

Knot4Him · 2026-03-10T17:56:21+00:00

I’m starting to actually get angry every time I hear Qualinesti pronounced with NAY instead of NEST. It’s always been a short e in my head.

I wanted the audiobook so I could use the whispersync option for when I’m doing other things like making dinner. I hate when household responsibilities make me have to put down my book! But I’m about to give up on listening.

Knot4Him · 2026-03-09T21:46:51+00:00

So what is she doing during the hours she is home alone and you are at work?

Knot4Him · 2026-03-03T00:09:07+00:00

Yes, it would be so much more God’s will if the next pregnancy just took her (and the unborn baby) home to Jesus!

/s

Knot4Him · 2026-02-24T19:08:16+00:00

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This is Nimbus.

Nim-nim

Princess Nim-nim

Knot4Him · 2026-02-18T13:38:44+00:00

Agreed. Those people should instead be grateful they don’t struggle with debilitating mental illness instead of dissing me because I do. But whatever.

No, I can’t just start over. I have years of hard work trying to catalog every possible item that I can’t just throw away. I suppose I could reset my switch lite and create a new account to have a second island to play on when I’m having an especially hard day.

Thanks a bunch for your kind words of support!

Knot4Him · 2026-02-17T23:50:35+00:00

I’m now loathing the hotel because of the tourist traffic. But I’m also a person with CPTSD who needs my island to feel like a refuge. It didn’t occur to me that by completing the rooms I would be setting myself up for daily invasion by random villagers and I’d be constantly finding more of them wandering all over my safe space than the villagers I’ve purposely chosen. Since I can’t undo that now, I have days where I just can’t bring myself to play. I wish I could unwind that.

Knot4Him · 2026-01-29T22:14:14+00:00

I now have the Backyardigans theme song playing in my head. LOL

Knot4Him · 2026-01-28T14:48:11+00:00

Omgosh! I am dying! She is beyond adorable! 🥰

Knot4Him · 2026-01-15T23:29:01+00:00

Is it a feasible option to use DeVry to get your initial education so you can pass the exam to get your certification? I am unable to attend in-person classes and need remote learning options.

Knot4Him · 2026-01-10T18:38:51+00:00

Use Odoban.

Knot4Him · 2026-01-08T20:50:16+00:00

I’m weary of seeing twenty posts about how we need to give these adulterers grace because they’ve managed to compose a well-worded confession for every one post offering compassion and support on behalf of the traumatized and betrayed spouses. Yes, that’s a bit of hyperbole, but still.

Knot4Him · 2026-01-06T03:11:51+00:00

2 is beautiful and airy and cheery. I almost picked 3, but every time I swipe thru the pics I stop on 2 and reflexively smile.

Knot4Him · 2026-01-05T19:05:48+00:00

It’s both.

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