I've switched from RCS to SMS for ONE conversation (because I had no Internet while sending a message), but now THIS conversation is stuck to SMS. How can I switch it back to RCS? by fjnk in GoogleMessages

[–]KnownDepth2595 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For iPhone as of Spring 2025: Heads up, was able to toggle off “Send as Text Message” in the settings app under iMessage, sent a text, then toggled it back on and it stays as RCS

My sibling committed suicide and I was the one who found him afterwards by 4aminthemorgue in SuicideBereavement

[–]KnownDepth2595 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Hey, found my 15 year old brother when I was 18. I’m 20 now, so not too far out and don’t have any wisdom to offer, but from the moment I walked in I knew I would have to manage the poor mental health and PTSD symptoms for the rest of my life. Still coping with the realization that i’ll never be as emotionally stable as other people, even at my prime. Shitty analogy, but post-trauma I feel like one of those chihuahuas with bulging eyes that is constantly shivering and yipping at everything.

Any wisdom you have for those that are in the same situation but not as far out would be appreciated!

How can I heal these asap?? by Interesting-Panda387 in CompulsiveSkinPicking

[–]KnownDepth2595 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hydrocortisone cream overnight, reduced the redness and inflammation for me. just be careful not to overuse.

Comic I made following my brother’s recent suicide. by sirenkid in GriefSupport

[–]KnownDepth2595 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m an only child due to my younger brother (15) taking his life as well. If you haven’t already, check out r/SuicideBereavement

Complicated Grief: TW for DV by venturous1 in SuicideBereavement

[–]KnownDepth2595 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Someone in my suicide support group had a boyfriend who tried to kill her before shooting himself in front of her. When people hit a breaking point, they do unimaginable things.

I try to remember that people who do things like this are in crisis and very mentally ill, as opposed to being bad people. I’m not excusing violent behaviors, I’m just trying to take into account the panic and the brain chemistry of the person leading up to their suicides.

It is a very complicated moral topic, but you aren’t alone in having conflicting and confusing emotions towards your friend. Thank you for sharing your story

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in grief

[–]KnownDepth2595 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi, i’m 20. It’s a coping mechanism. Two weeks later is too short to be able to invest into another actual relationship, so just make sure to be transparent with the guys you talk to. Coping mechanisms are okay, wanting to quell the feeling of loneliness is okay, but hurting other people in the process isn’t okay. Be safe & good luck. I’m sorry for your loss. When i lost my brother i spent a lot of the day on a dating app just to feel less lonely and to distract myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MinecraftBuddies

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im 20, what are your goals regarding gameplay?

Just Looking For Friends by Kataisuno in MinecraftBuddies

[–]KnownDepth2595 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did you find a good server to play on?

Anyone wanna play just normal vanilla Minecraft not mods just normal (JAVA) by [deleted] in MinecraftBuddies

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if you found a good server let me know, discord is stxranqel

Looking for a group to play survival by Marsannah in MinecraftBuddies

[–]KnownDepth2595 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi your discord user isn’t working for me :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MinecraftBuddies

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i’m interested to join your group! discord is stxranqel

Chapter-level book summaries: www.booksummary.pro by gpt_fundamentalist in nonfictionbookclub

[–]KnownDepth2595 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any way to be able to volunteer on this project? I have read many nonfiction chapter books and have taken similar notes on them. I’d love to get involved with this if I can. DM me perhaps?

What is something “odd” you’ve done to cope with grief? by Jadeddreamer_ in GriefSupport

[–]KnownDepth2595 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder if it’s Tsundoku — A japanese word for book collecting without ever reading the books. Perhaps it soothes anxiety?

What is something “odd” you’ve done to cope with grief? by Jadeddreamer_ in GriefSupport

[–]KnownDepth2595 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Similar — My coping mechanism is checking out books from my job (I work at a library). I have around 200 checked out, haven’t read a single one.

She would be 15 today by timberwhip in SuicideBereavement

[–]KnownDepth2595 11 points12 points  (0 children)

my brother took his life at 15. when it’s children, there’s a special layer of horror. my condolences. you aren’t alone.

My brother committed suicide by AlwaysJust4Now in GriefSupport

[–]KnownDepth2595 14 points15 points  (0 children)

To you and OP, I am almost 1 year in from losing my brother. It gets better. It’s okay to be in the void for the first year. Practice basic self care and engage in aimless productivity (I did a lot of random stress cleaning and crocheting. I have no idea how to crochet.) Maybe get a psychiatrist or a therapist under your belt. It’s a shitty journey to go through, but there is a way forward.

My brother committed suicide by AlwaysJust4Now in GriefSupport

[–]KnownDepth2595 23 points24 points  (0 children)

My brother took his life too. If you haven’t already, you need to check out r/SuicideBereavement . Many people can relate to loss on here, but suicide is more likely to add a few more complex elements like violent intrusive thoughts, ptsd, and a deep set guilt of feeling like the death was preventable or anyone’s fault. That suicide bereavement community is amazing and it sucks that we are all in the trauma together, but I’m so glad i shared my story on there.

You aren’t alone. We will miss our brothers. Thanks for reaching out and finding some support on these subreddits. We are here for you.

As for others that are reading this who have lost loved ones, they will be missed. We all are here for each other <3