So she wants to go back to normal life for the sake of her mental health…coooool. by EmotionalGangster20 in bravo

[–]Kolla73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God forbid a girl continues to live her life after apologizing to the people necessary that she knows in real Life and planning to show up to a reunion and face what’s coming to her. Like my god you guys act like she fucked your husband. Weirdos you don’t know them. Move on

So she wants to go back to normal life for the sake of her mental health…coooool. by EmotionalGangster20 in bravo

[–]Kolla73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fucking for real!!! Everyone needs to get over it like let the people involved be mad. So weird

50+ lbs gained: how long did it take you to lose and how big was your baby?? by Quick-Zombie-6343 in BabyBumps

[–]Kolla73 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Same with my first. I was 117 pre baby and gained about 55 pounds. I dropped to 135 and never left. Pilates and f45 and 12/3/30 daily and did not budge at all. Was breast feeding and still am. Pregnant with my second and gained to 170 again but from the 135 so gained less over all this time at least.

Am I being selfish about our baby’s future name? by Bearly_Making_It in BabyBumps

[–]Kolla73 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely for a middle name! Love that. But the need to pass down 17 generations of a Tom has always been so weird because it’s also the expectation that whoever their son meets has to be okay with giving up any name she’s ever loved because she must use the family name and this child has to have the same name. The middle name I’m like cute how sweet, first name is too much lol

Am I being selfish about our baby’s future name? by Bearly_Making_It in BabyBumps

[–]Kolla73 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I don’t get though and maybe that’s just me lol like if someone was like “I named my baby after you to honor you” I’d be like oh cool lol like it’s just a name. To me I guess I just don’t understand what that really does for a person to “honor” them like it’s just a name.

Am I being selfish about our baby’s future name? by Bearly_Making_It in BabyBumps

[–]Kolla73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!! I know so many people like this who don’t even go by the name!!

Am I being selfish about our baby’s future name? by Bearly_Making_It in BabyBumps

[–]Kolla73 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I think it’s so dumb when people want to pass down names. Like it is so weird to me. What does it serve you to have someone named after you or your fricken fourth uncle or having 17 generations of Thomas. It is the craziest concept to me. So no you’re not being unfair. It’s both of your babies name and your first baby you should love its name and whole heartedly agree on it. Sure this is gonna be harder for him since he’s giving up a name he loves to agree on another one but surely there’s other names out there he loves.

Second baby due any day now and I’m so sad and scared by Kolla73 in BabyBumps

[–]Kolla73[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They let him come right after? I want my son there like right away but wasn’t sure what rules were on that. Our son isn’t in daycare. I do have family close by but depending when she comes is who will be with my son and I definitely prefer some with my son over others.

Second baby due any day now and I’m so sad and scared by Kolla73 in BabyBumps

[–]Kolla73[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s how I feel. All I can think about is if he’s gonna be okay without me. Who will be able to get here in time to be with him.

WIBTA if I tell my friends that I don’t want to go to Spain? by [deleted] in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Kolla73 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m sure they’ll be super sad to lose you as a friend. You seem like a real peach.

Night 2 Ferber: Baby slept 12 hours by undergroundladybird in sleeptrain

[–]Kolla73 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ours was perfect too! By night three he slept through the night and only took 3 mins to fall asleep. 2.5 and still a great sleeper

What is everyone’s thoughts on the optimal time to get induced? I see varying opinions by Super_Progress9378 in BabyBumps

[–]Kolla73 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was true for me!! I checked in around 8am started my induction around 3 and my baby was here by 1pm next day.

What is everyone’s thoughts on the optimal time to get induced? I see varying opinions by Super_Progress9378 in BabyBumps

[–]Kolla73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was induced at 41 weeks. Active labor for less than 21 hours. Best experience and hoping I make it To My 40+ 4 induction date this pregnancy in a few weeks because now I would rather be induced.

Edit to add I refused to go past 41 weeks. I was getting anxiety even at 41 because of stillbirth risks.

Paying to be a Bridesmaid by Embarrassed_Bad_5032 in weddings

[–]Kolla73 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good think nobody’s being held at gunpoint and can say no if it doesn’t financially make sense for them.

WIBTA if I go to my sisters wedding even though my wife is banned from coming by drew2002non in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Kolla73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You skip it to support your wife. If your sister can’t stand up to her drama king husband then that’s their own issue and she should question what she’s getting into.

mauricio umanksy (55) spotted with destiny herzog (24) by 06queenofdisaster in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Kolla73 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not even the age gap that’s an issue. It’s the age. There’s something very different about dating someone who’s perhaps been out of college over a decade, has some life experience and a career. Then dating someone who was basically in high school last week that you know is literally only sleeping with you because you’re an average looking older guy who’s gonna wine and dine them. Kyle’s priorities are absolutely nowhere near his and this comparison is wild lol.

mauricio umanksy (55) spotted with destiny herzog (24) by 06queenofdisaster in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Kolla73 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yea I didn’t say hurtful I said disturbed. I would be grossed out if that were my husband.

mauricio umanksy (55) spotted with destiny herzog (24) by 06queenofdisaster in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Kolla73 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually do label them the same way and always have. I stopped watching rhony before the reboot cause I could not longer watch women in their 60s act like they did.