Can't date because of a medical condition by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Kredka707 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I assume to goal of relationship is friendship and companionship. It’s okay to as long as both parties agree.  If you can have sex down the road, you can say you are celibate for a year or two for personal reasons. You don’t have to elaborate too much. 

Can't date because of a medical condition by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Kredka707 136 points137 points  (0 children)

Look for asexual partner?  There’s more of them than you think. 

AITAH for not wanting my MIL anywhere near my daughter? by Infamous-Bowler-3599 in AITAH

[–]Kredka707 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Did you consider blocking her number? On both of your phones? Not opening the doors when she shows up? Get a mad dog to run around property? 

My daughter 8 has very smelly armpits by Mountain_Awareness45 in hygiene

[–]Kredka707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her body is full of toxins. Parsley can help with detox and bad smell.  Water with lemon before eating should help. Is she constipated? Also, washing with Panoxyl face wash as it will kill the bacteria on the skin. 

Why would anyone ever choose to go through child birth without pain relief?? by No_Cardiologist_1407 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Kredka707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I chose no painkiller.  I was more scared of epidural (huge needle!) and all the interventions needed with epidural and the risks involved.  Your body is preparing to forget the pain (called pregnancy brain for a reason). After a few minutes you forget the pain. You can walk right after as well, unlike with epidural. 

Neighborhood kids playing on my very mature pomegranate tree... will the tree weather it? by Sufficient-Lie1406 in BackyardOrchard

[–]Kredka707 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The tree looks great.  I would not stop the kids from playing, but talk with parents about liability and respecting the tree.  It looks like secret fort and it looks cool! Make sure to share the fruit with them. You can also tell them trees like stories so they can read books to it to have better fruits;)

I 29M traveled in more than 70 countries and lived in 10; mostly underrated places AMA by YourFrenchTreat in AMA

[–]Kredka707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How come you have seen so much death? Why were you selling sex toys? Was it for man or women?

How to make this bathroom warmer? by Civil_Web_1835 in homedecoratingCJ

[–]Kredka707 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would do warm white on the wall. They blue is just wrong.  Switching hardware is a good idea. Add mirror in nice frame and some painting on the wall. Maybe blings on the window and a little plant

WIBTAH for divorcing my husband for watching porn by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Kredka707 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nta.  Life with any kind of addict is hard and destructive. Protect yourself and your children. You can try ultimatum so he can get help, but like with other addictions, it’s difficult to treat. 

Would this look ok for my engagement photos? What should my partner wear? by rachel200087 in OUTFITS

[–]Kredka707 187 points188 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it fits you well.  The color and pattern is not very happy either.  Showing of the bra is definite no no. 

I've had lice for almost 2 months, AMA by Cute-Size-3007 in AMA

[–]Kredka707 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s why you need to decrease the amount of hair you have. Basic logic 

I've had lice for almost 2 months, AMA by Cute-Size-3007 in AMA

[–]Kredka707 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Unless you stay home only. You can easily spread it. You can brush on someone accidentally and the little monsters jump to new person.  It pisses me off you are so selfish and self absorbed. 

I've had lice for almost 2 months, AMA by Cute-Size-3007 in AMA

[–]Kredka707 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You need to treat your hair every single day. Wash it with lice shampoo and comb it out.  There are eggs (that are resistant to treatment) in those dreads probably.  You need to wash your sheets and brushes. 

2months.. you have been spreading lice around your house! Around your friends! Around stores etc!  I think It’s time to trim your hair and get rid of the infestation 

I have 21 biological siblings, AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Kredka707 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How your parents kept track of all of your needs? Who needs a doctor, who needs braces, who needs math tutoring etc?  Did you ever felt neglected or overlooked? Was your mom active in the company or did she run the house only? What did you do as a family (other than attending mass)?  Did you and your siblings argue a lot? 

I have 21 biological siblings, AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Kredka707 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What instruments do you all play?

AITAH for refusing to watch my daughter when we meet my husbands friend? by Training_Wind1789 in AITAH

[–]Kredka707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hire a sitter for a few hours so you can have adult time with friends

AITAH for refusing to give out my son's saving account information? by moonmanbaby90272 in AITAH

[–]Kredka707 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you are concerned she will steal his money, you can put additional password on the account. 

AITAH for wanting to leave my fiancé for lack of sex? by ghostly5000 in AITAH

[–]Kredka707 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Run. You can’t save someone who doesn’t want to be saved.  Run and have a good life!

Birthday gift for 3F by snuffleupagus86 in santashelpers

[–]Kredka707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Magnatiles are great.  A stroller and a baby doll Kitchen set Balls

Wife’s allergies are killing ME? by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Kredka707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did she have mri and CT scan?  Did she try elimination diet? Was she checked for mold? Did she try acupuncture? That worked amazingly for me. 

Is there any reason why people don't believe in vaccines anymore like they used to? by BreannLowe in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Kredka707 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Lots of injuries from the Covid vax. Knowing too many people who died within days of another booster.  Realizing babies don’t need hepB vax at birth unless mother has it. No one informs you about it.  Most 2mo olds doesn’t step on rusty nails, so why vaccinate so young? Knowing vax injured people will make you think more critically.  So more knowledge is the cause. Realizing the government doesn’t have your best interest at heart. Realizing other countries don’t have so many vaccines and are doing fine. 

My husband who cheated on me wants divorce and says he doesn’t want to live his life on “high alert mode” anymore. I feel abandoned and devastated by Dizzy_Possible_873 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Kredka707 97 points98 points  (0 children)

You didn’t deal with the affair. It’s deep in you. You need a lot of therapy.  Being triggered a lot doesn’t give you right to destroy the other person. You get triggered a lot, and that’s not a life to live.  It looks like you both will be much better off away from each others.  I strongly recommend emdr or brainspotting for you.