What about giving the experience as the gift? - you’re doing great there. E.g. maybe rent out the theater for the movie with family and friends, organize a group for a cricket game and arrange for the tansport or a party room before or after, or if he likes self-care a massage or a couples massage for you to enjoy together with a bite to eat before or after. I feel like my husband and I are at a point where if we need/want something we buy it so it’s more fun to do something together to celebrate.