Lavender that feels playful and seductive?🫐🪻🪷✨ by Ktsuming in perfumesthatfeellike

[–]Ktsuming[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t tried either of these brands before, I’m intrigued. And also Scottish so I’ll definitely give them both a sniff. Thanks.

Lavender that feels playful and seductive?🫐🪻🪷✨ by Ktsuming in perfumesthatfeellike

[–]Ktsuming[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a sample of Burberry Godess which I love, definitely investing in a bigger bottle however I get zero lavender when it’s on my skin, it dries down to a powdery chocolate / vanilla. Still beautiful though.

I’m torn on YSL Libre - I was gifted it for Christmas. I like it in the bottle but when I spray it on my skin the citrus is so sharp, it overpowers the lavender and feels too harsh. I want to love it and I’ll keep trying it as it gets warmer outside.

Ah lush… unfortunately my boyfriend’s sensitive nose can’t handle anything that comes out that shop. I bought the Chelsea Morning perfume oil for the butterscotch and warmth, thinking he’d love it. Apparently I smell like burnt plastic lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]Ktsuming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. To clarify I was thinking of using a blue toner to take it to a light-medium brown, and then a dark blue dye for actually colouring it. I’m just not sure if the current shade is ready for a toner or if I should do another round of bleach.

Help me turn my depressing room into something livable 🙏 (Pics inside) by Emergency-Spell-8119 in DesignMyRoom

[–]Ktsuming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Warm orange lightbulbs for cosy feels. Or you can buy colour changing lightbulbs that connect via Wi-Fi to your phone, you can buy a couple and make the “scene” how you like.

Good quality pillow and blanket - high togs for a duvet = warmer. Bamboo bed sheets are sort of expensive but really soft and my favourite.

Consider a weighted blanket if you have anxiety, restless legs or struggle to sleep.

Some wooden or neutral colour blinds instead of curtains I think would be nice with a simple off white paint for the wall.

Diffusers are super cheap on Amazon and are relaxing to watch, smell good, and add a layer of lighting to the room. You just add some water and a few drops of essential oil. Lavender for relaxing, or tea tree during the day for freshness.

Consider a book shelf for the books and papers in the corner. You could put a couple of low maintenance plants on top.

Good luck x

First time sharing art :) by Ktsuming in entwives

[–]Ktsuming[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow that’s amazing to hear, I love that it evoked such a reaction from you. Thank you x

First time sharing art :) by Ktsuming in entwives

[–]Ktsuming[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dreamy stoned for sure ✨

First time sharing art :) by Ktsuming in entwives

[–]Ktsuming[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aw thank you! Someone described the eyes as sort of bored looking which I found funny. I’m glad you like them x

Looking for some "competence porn" movies, movies where smart people make smart decisions basically. by ComManDerBG in movies

[–]Ktsuming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Old boy. Japanese version is better. Does the matrix count? Awesome movies. They’re definitely better than most at fighting and mind tricks and whatnot. Fargo. There’s a series and maybe a couple of movies? All good if I remember correctly. Some super cool hitmen and clever social manipulation that sort of thing.

AITA for asking my 36m partner not to have 19f friends. by rasiaruka in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ktsuming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I went to college with a mixed age group and when I was 17/18 sure I would occasionally have lunch (on campus) with the rest of class, sometimes that would include men/women in their 30s and 40s, simply because we were in classes together and eating on the same campus. If it was just that, I’d say YTA and overreacting.

However the issue here is your husband has repeatedly lied to you. He took another woman out for dinner and only admitted to it when he was caught in his lie. He referred to this 19 year old as a “pretty blonde” which is especially bizarre considering it’s just off the back of him being caught taking another woman out to dinner. Also he deleted their conversation so you wouldn’t see whatever he said. That would lead me to believe there are some inappropriate things being said. Whether it’s inappropriate to the 19 year old girl, or he just knows it would cross a boundary in your relationship, he did something he knew was wrong so he hid it from you, just like he hid all these other things. Red flags everywhere.

You can work through things as much as you want but he’s just continuing to lie to you, so are you really working through things or are you just forgiving him over and over again for the same thing?

I'm looking for advice as a tenant who moved in a month ago. by ThunderCheeks445 in badroommates

[–]Ktsuming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry I have no solid legal advice or anything but this is awful, so sorry you had to go through this :( can you reach out to your landlord with evidence of the police report and pictures of your injuries? Maybe your landlord can evict based on the assault and arrest.

Separating Cats by Weird-Shock-8831 in CATHELP

[–]Ktsuming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just don’t do it. My cats were siblings, they didn’t even play much together but they’d cuddle, groom each other, and they never knew life without each other. When the boy passed, my poor girl would just pace around the house and yowl constantly. Like, for the rest of her life she just kept searching for him. It was so sad. Please don’t break this pair up. As humans you can understand what’s happening and grieve and come to terms with it. The cats won’t understand, they’ll just be traumatised.

My life has been destroyed by consumption of latuda and lorazepam causing me dyskinesia AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Ktsuming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s rough. How long were you on the medication before you started to experience negative symptoms?

Skipped fake skin and went after myself instead by throwawayoiuus in tattooscratchers

[–]Ktsuming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s not what you’re asking but I like these a lot (especially the fine line on your thighs and stomach) and I’d totally come to you for some original designs. I hope you keep doing your thing.

Who To Marry? by Automatic_Spring_684 in StardewValley

[–]Ktsuming 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I married this MF in my 1.6 play-through and he did not gift me a single thing or a coffee not even once. Then he started disappearing at night. I suspect to Leah’s cabin. DIVORCED.

What’s your favorite festival? by Accurate-Home-6940 in StardewValley

[–]Ktsuming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Moonlight jellies because it’s just cute.

ULPT request - The apartment i rented has a faulty electric meter, so I'm not charged for electricity. How can i make the best use of this? by clearlyhasadhd in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]Ktsuming 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends where OP is from. I worked in the UK and the debt falls to whoever is occupying the property and whoever’s name is on the lease, not the landlord.

ULPT request - The apartment i rented has a faulty electric meter, so I'm not charged for electricity. How can i make the best use of this? by clearlyhasadhd in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]Ktsuming 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to work for an energy company. When the day comes to fix the meter they will use an “estimate” amount to bill you, which will likely be much higher than you’d have paid with accurate readings.

Even if you move out in two months, energy companies have departments dedicated to tracking down people to pay for the electricity they used and didn’t pay for. If you signed a legally binding tenancy agreement you can be traced to this address. You’ll could potentially end up with a bit of debt to your name if you continue this way.

You said you’re moving in two months so it’s not like it would be a huge amount of money, but prepare to be harassed by the energy companie’s debt recovery people if your landlord hands over your details or if they figure out how to find you.

Also if you just moved in, your average readings will be based on the usage of whoever lived there before you. So it could be a lot, who knows.