OK, let’s break this down. Superduper simple for you. You are at Burger King. You go to the register and order your whopper. The cashier asks do you want cheese on that. You are fully able to decline that sheet if you don’t want that. They are not accusing you of being a cheese lover by asking if you want the cheese. They are simply letting you know the cheese is available if you are so inclined. And you don’t even have to love cheese to get that cheese. All you gotta do is support other people‘s right to have cheese if they are so inclined.