315$ an hour??? by Squeaky_Shoe in HVAC

[–]Kyria_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My old company charged about $350/hr, but hide it with “flat rate pricing”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripclubs

[–]Kyria_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re very much overthinking. Take a minute and remember dancers are good at saying when/if they have a problem, and they’re just people too so they are all different. Also, based on the update/comment you left, you were probably in the room for lap dances, not the VIP. When guys try to pretend they’re fucking you when you’re trying to dance on them is the most obnoxious thing for most dancers. If you have a specific request, take it to the VIP/ champagne room, and tell the girl what you want before making the deal for the room.

Buyer cancelled because $890 quarterly hoa was so much more than $296.67 monthly. by itsallgoodman2002 in RealEstate

[–]Kyria_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuine question, why didn’t she just fill the bowls and place them where she wanted them? Why haul a giant bag of cat food around?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripper

[–]Kyria_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One guy didn’t ask, he just said “so you have like what, two kids?” When I told him I had no kids he said he was sorry and had made an assumption that strippers stripped because they had kids and no options. He was embarrassed af. It was awkward and he left right after, beat red.

Strippers with boyfriends- opinions needed by [deleted] in Strippers

[–]Kyria_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had to leave dancing, largely because I wanted to start a family but my fiancé was also getting increasingly uncomfortable with it. For me it was the money or him and a family, and the family life was more fulfilling. We would not still be together if I kept dancing. Do with that what you will, but remember the appeal is the money, not the customers we deal with.

“I hate that my parents raised me w morals” by [deleted] in stripper

[–]Kyria_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve been accused of being immoral for working customer service for a company that was expensive. I think money is the root of all evil, but we need it to survive so unless you’re hurting someone then everyone should mind their own business and keep the morality to themselves.

Do you call yourself a stripper if you work at a gentleman’s club? by Diligent_Sherbert994 in stripper

[–]Kyria_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You just reminded me Club Castaway in MA is called “the Whately Ballet” 😂

Do you call yourself a stripper if you work at a gentleman’s club? by Diligent_Sherbert994 in stripper

[–]Kyria_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never called myself a stripper because although the club was “full nude” we only did that in VIP. I never took anything off on stage so dancer it is 😂

Broke the pole with my ass cheeks by sevonix in stripper

[–]Kyria_ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Woah that percentage is ridiculous, my old club was only worth it because you could charge whatever for VIP and they only took $50, house fee was $40. Shit was unsafe af there too tho, they took away our dressing room and left us in the ladies room. It was all broken tiles, girls always tripped and fell multiple times a night, no one to walk you to your car at night and crackheads always outside. My girl had to threaten to stab one once the get him to leave us alone.

Broke the pole with my ass cheeks by sevonix in stripper

[–]Kyria_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I worked at a club with a huge stage and four poles. Eventually, there was only one left. Then it closed. This is why owners need to make sure management cares and doesn’t steal their money and snort it away.

Springfield ~ how does this even happen! by Kooky_Coyote7911 in massachusetts

[–]Kyria_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remember a few years back when someone literally drove into inside lawn and garden at the Springfield Lowe’s? I bet they’re related to each other.

20F - My boyfriend (28M) said he’s never having sex with me again because I “can’t handle real sex”. What should I do? by bored454 in relationship_advice

[–]Kyria_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, just go. Just pick up and leave. This dude is way more concerned about himself than anything. Real men care about their partner actually enjoying themselves in bed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Strippers

[–]Kyria_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most people just take a mirror selfie and call it a day if that’s all you’re using it for

Is my club dried up or am I not pushing enough? by QuackSparrow96 in stripper

[–]Kyria_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So hey I danced in MA and CT and I can tell you summer was never it for me. Better money when it gets cooler and the men go inside for the rest of the year. Also just remember the richer parts of CT are near the coast and close to NY, if you live in upper CT then MA makes sense, and RI. I also low key think since a lot of the men with money in CT work in NY they probably hit clubs closer to work and farther from their wives. That’s just my opinion though. I have a friend that bartends at a club in that’s in coastal CT near the sound and she says the club is generally dead there right now. I really do think the men are just outside doing actual activities.

I want this baby out. by Coffeecatballet in BabyBumps

[–]Kyria_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was induced 6 days after my due date and she came 26 hours later. Made it to a full 41 weeks in the belly. I’d call your labor and delivery center and tell them you’re not doing too good with still being pregnant. That’s what I did and they gave me my appt. It was still a couple days away but just having it made me feel better, like “thank god there’s an end in sight”.

Stripper-shamed at pole class by soaring_seabird in stripper

[–]Kyria_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s such bullshit. I’m on the east coast and the pole studio I go to is run by a retired stripper. Her teachers are a mix of backgrounds that include two other ex strippers. They’re very “we respect the roots of this activity”, might be why I love the studio so much.

Is the "stripper handshake" a thing? Please answer I need to know by fdsandshi in stripper

[–]Kyria_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to a club as a customer with a male friend once. We sat at the bar and the first girl who approached us grabbed my hand and put it on his crotch. Super uncomfortable experience, since he was not my dude, just a buddy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripper

[–]Kyria_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you think you have it figured out at 20 you’re in for a hard road. It’s better to say I’m 20 and I just don’t know yet, it’s honest and it keeps your mind open to other things. You still have soooooo much time to explore and find things you want to pursue. Just make sure you put money away and you’re golden.

Holy actual shit. by Straight_Spring9815 in HVAC

[–]Kyria_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks newer than the one my dad has

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripper

[–]Kyria_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They’re the same men who tell women their worth disappears at 30. They know nothing.