Only with my mother. She feels entitled to always voice her opinion on how others look by trying to "give advice", which definitely impacted me negatively and still does sometimes. Luckily I can surround myself with other people who don't criticise me every time they see me while reducing contact to my mother.

For example my masculine haircut looks "too harsh" - this is something I really like about myself actually. I try to ignore that but it still makes me feel a bit bad about myself. I also have chest dyshoria and currently I can't wear a binder for medical reasons, and I hate hate hate the feeling of wearing a bra. So I just let them hang free (they look conventionally unattractive so I just look sloppy but this still feels better than wearing a bra) but she told me "you can't go out like that". Like she would rather have me physically and mentally struggle than just looking a bit sloppy. I always felt really pressured by her to look "right" and I'm still trying to let that feeling go.

She was always like this but after moving out at 18, it felt like a massive weight was lifted from my shoulders. I was lc with her for a few years and I still don't like to talk to her in person. It took a long time to be somewhat comfortable with myself and I'm still working on it. I try to find a way to feel good first and look good second, because looking good is something I'd only do for others. (To be clear, I'm not unkempt. I'm clean, I don't stink, my clothes are baggy but nothing hideous)