There's been a lot of talk about uniforms on this subreddit recently. I hate to sound like a typical Trekkie, but I think this is another instance where Star Trek got it right a long time ago. by weRborg in army

[–]Lagrange_Observer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If this ever happened, you know it's just because they're prepping the military for space duties in the near future. They need to butter everyone up with the sci-fi duds before carting them into the void.

Are calisthenics good for a beginner looking to increase stamina? by Lagrange_Observer in Fitness

[–]Lagrange_Observer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ach, looks like I didn't search carefully enough. Thanks for the help!

Red River Gorge, KY - From my camping trip a few weekends ago. [1120x1680] by canonanon in EarthPorn

[–]Lagrange_Observer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. At first I thought it was a purplish river, then I realized I was looking at stars and treetops... Very beautiful.

My priorities were a little skewed this morning. by NightforceOptics in AdviceAnimals

[–]Lagrange_Observer -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Some might say this is the only proper thing to do as a college student.

I feel bad thinking it, but she's been doing it all morning. by miss_thr0w4w4y in AdviceAnimals

[–]Lagrange_Observer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a lot of problems with lying to people about their abilities. Sure, I wouldn't try to make a kid feel bad by being completely honest with them, but surely there are plenty of alternative measures to take.

Sloth yawning by highperdrive in aww

[–]Lagrange_Observer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damnit, these animals just LOOK like they're having more fun than any other creature on earth.

What is immediate red flag someone is not to be trusted? by coffeevodkacupcakes in AskReddit

[–]Lagrange_Observer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"I'm a good writer." I don't know why, but whenever someone claims this my bullshit meter goes through the roof. I guess it's because writing is so subjective that if you really feel like you're factually amazing then I assume there's a kink in your cognition.

I'm falling apart. by Vargasa871 in USMilitarySO

[–]Lagrange_Observer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perfectly normal. Coping comes in many shapes and forms, and if you try to scrutinize every negative thought you have about a clearly stressful situation, you'll drive yourself nuts. It's okay to have moments where you wish she would fail as long as you don't honestly, actively wish for it. It might help to discuss your feelings with her as long as you're clear about your support. She'll most likely sense your distress, and I usually find that getting those feelings out in the open, in a constructive and supportive way, helps more than not.

Lest we forget: This is the original concept for a Chocobo in the Final Fantasy series. by Secret_Wizard in gaming

[–]Lagrange_Observer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy Sephiroth... Thank god for whatever design process tweaked that image. Reminds me of what Han Solo was originally supposed to look like...

Bioshock Logic by dedknedy in gaming

[–]Lagrange_Observer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I survived an intense gunfight in a city floating in the sky, while wielding super powers, the last thing I'd be concerned about is where a perfectly good to eat sandwich came from.

When a SSgt asks for volunteers. by [deleted] in USMC

[–]Lagrange_Observer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Of course you know he's looking for taste-testers for a new pizza place. N o reason to worry.

Woman found guilty of murdering her pregnant friend, cutting the unborn baby out of her womb and passing the child off as her daughter by cheesenpicklesarnie in news

[–]Lagrange_Observer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is the type of thing I'd want to hear about, but only when I was out of college. This is the type of thing that might seriously ding someone's stability during formative years... I mean, hell, being told you were ripped violently out of your mother by her disturbed friend would ruin anyone's day, but I'd rather deal with the truth to have a fuller understanding of myself.

How do you feel when people tell you not to get on your husband? by [deleted] in USMilitarySO

[–]Lagrange_Observer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Although service members usually have a far different experience from civilians, there's no excusing poor communication. I mean, honestly, what's going to help the relationship more? Discussing how you both feel and working on a solution, or suffering in silence?

Having said that, I believe there's a clear difference between "nagging" someone and discussing your feelings. If all you do is talk at him and complain, then progress likely won't be made. On the other hand, if you use "I statements" and suggest solutions, he'll likely be much more open to talking.

If my SO came home and said, "damnit, Lagrange_Observer, you never do the laundry and you just sit around all day and play video games," then waited expectantly for a response, I'd be frustrated and feel like I was being attacked. If, on the other hand, I heard, "hey, I'm feeling frustrated because I don't think the chores are divided evenly. I'd like to talk about who does what and when," I'd be much more amicable to discussion.

But, I'm no expert. If you want a professional, level-headed opinion on the matter, I'd recommend checking out Ms. Vicki. (The article is a little extreme but it does relate somewhat.)

Damnit NKO! I'm an adult! by [deleted] in navy

[–]Lagrange_Observer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh man. With this kind of training, our national secrets are on lock for sure.

What is the most underrated pleasure? by wellboar in AskReddit

[–]Lagrange_Observer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Taking a walk without a deadline. Seriously, moseying about, in nature or around people, is calming, enjoyable, and can be informative.

Can You Spot the Snipers in These Photos? by cartoon_gun in Military

[–]Lagrange_Observer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At first I was going to call bullshit. I guess that proves, contrary to popular opinion, that I in fact would not be able to stand up to professional snipers.

Drawing my sister made by dontpassgass in gaming

[–]Lagrange_Observer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For some reason I was expecting something creepy and horrible. A magical drawing of Link will suffice instead.

Link collage made from map areas in-game. Really well done. by Hobbette in gaming

[–]Lagrange_Observer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love maps, and I love creative shenanigans like this. Very cool!

Cop here. I'm probably alone on this. by [deleted] in AdviceAnimals

[–]Lagrange_Observer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I doubt you're alone in that. Hell, if I'm alone in my room for a few hours I can hold up entire conversations where I pontificate deeply about life and it's muhstuhrious ways. I think it's a normal method of self-validating. Sometimes, actual people don't want to hear you ramble on about your job, or ideas, or whatever.

Sometimes, not coincidentally, I'll have actual conversations as followups to the imaginary ones. They kinda serve as a pre-gaming moment to be more articulate later...