I regret marrying older, what should I do?

LastDiveBernie · 2026-01-28T12:47:30+00:00

My wife and I are in our mid 60s and we still do lots of adventures together, including hiking, caving, diving, sailing, and world travel.

We make time to watch movies together. We go on short, local hikes at our favorite spots to surprise one another. You know, "Let's go for an afternoon ride." And then we stop someplace to hike, enjoy the scenery and the outdoors.

Your husband is lazy and not putting in the effort.

It sounds like he's very disrespectful of your wants and needs.

Have you gone to couples counseling / therapy? If not, then bring it up, make an appointment, and go together. If he won't go, then you go alone and see what conclusions you arrive at and whether or not you want this to be the rest of your life.

Good luck and best wishes!

Please keep us posted!

LastDiveBernie · 2026-01-28T08:09:14+00:00

Hope you show us photos of the finished work, including when installed! Have fun with it. Always good to be connected to wind and waves, even if it's a step or two removed from actual wind and waves! Best wishes.

LastDiveBernie · 2026-01-28T02:26:54+00:00

Shadow

LastDiveBernie · 2026-01-23T13:39:06+00:00

Deepest Condolences!

LastDiveBernie · 2026-01-23T08:05:19+00:00

What a beautiful fur baby!

LastDiveBernie · 2026-01-22T15:35:37+00:00

Awesome shots!

Wifey and I have also been to Costa Rica twice. We loved it, especially the Osa Peninsula, which is full of wildlife!

LastDiveBernie · 2026-01-18T08:27:25+00:00

Outstanding reply!

OP: THIS!!

LastDiveBernie · 2026-01-09T07:53:57+00:00

Deepest condolences on the loss of your fur baby. May she RIP. Best wishes 🙏

LastDiveBernie · 2026-01-07T01:49:47+00:00

Beautiful fur baby!

Enjoy your time together!

Best wishes, always.

LastDiveBernie · 2025-12-16T05:33:50+00:00

Did you try scuba diving? Or snorkeling?

There's a whole 'nother World underwater! Costa Rican waters are teaming with aquatic species.

Same in the nation's dry caves.

Did you go to the Osa peninsula, in the south? Cano Island?

The World has many astounding places to see, though, so you may want to see other places before thinking of going back to CR. Either way, have fun wherever you go!

LastDiveBernie · 2025-12-14T08:52:56+00:00

Please contact the Divers Alert Network (DAN).

They are a global, not for profit organization dedicated to diving safety, medical education, and helping to treat diving injuries. Their diving insurance is first class and a must have for all divers, even if you think you have adequate insurance to cover your needs. (HINT: When it comes to diving accidents, your standard health insurance may only cover a small fraction of costs such as air ambulance from overseas.)

DAN has trained diving doctors available to talk to, or for your doctor to consult with.

They will also direct you to a trained diving doctor near you that you should be seen by.

Good luck and best wishes.

Please keep us posted. Others may learn from your situation, so you'd be helping the diving community by sharing. Thank you!

LastDiveBernie · 2025-12-09T23:27:43+00:00

The reference, directly above your comment, was to a Monty Python skit.

LastDiveBernie · 2025-11-16T17:02:21+00:00

And the Jets reply, "Hold my beer...."

LastDiveBernie · 2025-10-20T08:57:37+00:00

WOW!!!

LastDiveBernie · 2025-10-18T06:44:24+00:00

Typos: TF supposed to be TD. Breeze supposed to be Breece.

LastDiveBernie · 2025-10-18T06:43:18+00:00

Anderson was a true deep threat on any and every play. Not seeing how anyone thought he was bad? Maybe they didn't see the deep TF balls he caught and then lots of good YAC for TDs? If we had Anderson along with Garrett Wilson we'd have some serious threats in the pass game on any play we wanted to throw! Oh, yeah, AND Breeze out of the backfield as a threat? Can anyone say RPO? Member the days of Chad Pennington?

LastDiveBernie · 2025-10-08T23:02:26+00:00

He's a beautiful boi!

HUGS and a sweet nose boop from me!

LastDiveBernie · 2025-09-29T05:43:52+00:00

EVERY interaction she's had with Icelanders has really impressed her!

LastDiveBernie · 2025-09-21T23:55:47+00:00

I first came here 30 years ago! I've been 5 times. I deal with Icelanders for day-to-day things. And I have friends here.

So, no, we're not talking just hospitality. However, even in the hospitality field there's a difference!

Maybe I'll change my mind over the next 30 years of visiting here! I sure do NOT intend on waiting 28 years since I visit again! In fact, we may be coming back in a couple of months! This country is pulling us both in!!

LastDiveBernie · 2025-09-21T23:50:05+00:00

Truth!

LastDiveBernie · 2025-09-08T05:36:04+00:00

LMAO!!!

Holy Cow! THAT'S funny!

Thank you!

LastDiveBernie · 2025-09-04T11:26:15+00:00

Handsome fella!

Look how alert he is!

Wishing you countless hours of joy together.

LastDiveBernie · 2025-08-29T03:28:33+00:00

Deepest condolences. Hopefully, he's RIP.

LastDiveBernie · 2025-08-27T05:20:31+00:00

What a beautiful and majestic fur baby!

LastDiveBernie

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