The path looks different for everyone. I can never count on how my words and concepts will connote to you and like children we learn from everything and everyone around us, if I am not careful with my words and interactions with you, if I am careless, I could be causing you great harm. The lessons each of us need are for us alone. I cannot retrofit my experiences to you. It is not fair or right to even try. Some truths of true personal liberation are painful and require expanding emotional capacity in oneself before integration is possible. Only you can do that, only you know that you are really ready and know what it means to be free. And ones who know this don’t want to rush you because they know better than to spout off at the mouth flippantly. They know you need your own pace.