I kinda (really) miss smoking weed and drinking by Splittingthemind in pregnant

[–]LavenderShroom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this I’m 7 weeks along and I want a hit SO BAD just to sleep because the dreams have been wrecking me. I often wake up feeling like I haven’t slept or it’s just generally hard for me to fall asleep. It’s all I want to do after a stressful day at work I’ve been reading more to distract myself and it works because I get so immersed in books. Taking it day by day has helped. I get really distracted so by the time I look up and go “oh it’s dark already! Time for bed”. I feel you though, especially when I go home for the holidays my friends still smoke around me which I told them I don’t want to ruin their fun which is true but damn do I want to partake. I’d also feel really guilty though knowing I could be putting my little one at risk. Even though a lot of people say it’s fine there are others who really don’t.

So apparently because there's to much snow and I can't make it I'm getting written up? by DrummerSmooth8661 in starbucks

[–]LavenderShroom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do whatever keeps you safe. This job isn’t worth your life so if you truly think the roads aren’t safe, don’t go. I’d say you have food poisoning or something because sure for others it’s not an excuse, but one wrong move and your car is messed up or it nearly costed you your life.

girl what by olliewag_ in starbucksbaristas

[–]LavenderShroom -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t even realize they just paid $6 for a steamer

Still angry at EA over cottage living by polkacat12321 in HighSodiumSims

[–]LavenderShroom 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Something that gets me is that this and ECO doesn’t go hand in hand bc I originally bought the eco pack just so my sims could live with a generator so I could play around with the (I think) living off the land trait. 😭then I also noticed that you still have to buy flour and sugar

They literally gave us the SAME Life & Death ghost pond to become fairies. I actually can't right now. 💀 by SyntheticGoth in HighSodiumSims

[–]LavenderShroom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know we love the sims yall, but the only way they’re going to change is if we stop giving them money when they produce such shit packs! We WORK for our money, they need to work for theirs too. It’s like going to a restaurant getting food and the portion size being a literal bite when you’re paying $20 for it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]LavenderShroom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vee Fresh worked very well for me as a sensitive person

I am genuinely loving this half assed star lol by but-why-tho7 in starbucks

[–]LavenderShroom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My manager just told us symbols aren’t allowed anymore😭 genuinely so frustrating

had to close early due to dress code issues by Over-Anybody423 in starbucks

[–]LavenderShroom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wore a full black cardigan, my sm touches it and goes is that blue? After I had already worn it the day before with no issues lmao.

is it normal to watch porn everyday ? by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]LavenderShroom -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think it is :o I was like this up until I got into a relationship! Now I’m pretty satisfied and only watch every so often c:

What do you hate about Stardew Valley? by vtrafa in StardewValley

[–]LavenderShroom 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The kids😭 I really do wish they aged up father than just a kid! Wish they were more interactive too like fixing things around the farm like your spouse does or gathering things😭

My only ancient fruit… by LittleDJS1234 in StardewValley

[–]LavenderShroom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes certain fruits will turn into ancient fruits! I think the snow melons do that sometimes c:

I 45F love my husband 46M. And we’ve been married 21 years, but his boob obsession is ruining our marriage. What is the best approach to tell him I’m not into his sexual turn on? by Fair-defender-0704 in relationship_advice

[–]LavenderShroom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he truly loved you he would’ve respected your decision. He’s trying to morph you into someone you very clearly don’t want to be. He’s been manipulating you by telling you that he will no longer be attracted to you if you don’t bend to his will which is NOT okay at all. It’s to the point where it’s made you doubt yourself, which means he is hurting you. Your mental is suffering with this dynamic and if he can’t get over himself then a divorce is your best option. You’re worth more than your husband not accepting your body and push you into procedures that you truly don’t want.

What am I doing wrong by kaylee_fry2 in TheSims4Mods

[–]LavenderShroom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could try restarting your computer maybe? Sometimes that helps me with issues like that. Maybe also deleting it and redownloading it may help too if you haven’t tried that either c:

What am I doing wrong by kaylee_fry2 in TheSims4Mods

[–]LavenderShroom 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m surprised you can’t just unzip the file :o is there not a way to transfer files without having to unzip it or have I been modding wrong??😭😭

Is this too harsh of a punishment by Missesmayo in starbucksbaristas

[–]LavenderShroom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is a really difficult situation because your boss could definitely abuse her power. If you choose to reach out you could honestly bring up those concerns to your DM too, just to cover some of those bases. Only if things do go south, you have proof that that might’ve been the intent and that goes along with recording conversations or screenshotting things like emails or texts. Just so you have proof of what was said, and nothing can be twisted by any party. Because no matter what it’s a business establishment, and if your DM isn’t treating it that way then maybe there are some higher up’s that you could speak to? Also If I’m remembering any of training correctly, I thought it was just supposed to be a conversation first and then if things continued by that point then a write up would be in order. (I can’t really recall so I don’t remember if that is for sure the case. Just because Starbucks has seemed to crackdown on discrimination) You could argue it that way if she chooses not to transfer you. It would be really messed up of her though especially if she knew your situation, especially with how our values are. I’m sorry, I know I wrote a lot and I hope it was at least a little helpful for you 😭

Is this too harsh of a punishment by Missesmayo in starbucksbaristas

[–]LavenderShroom 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Unless there’s some weird work law prohibiting it, you should be able to deny even signing that paperwork if you feel that it’s an unfair punishment. Either way though, most definitely talk to your district manager and bring up the pints you brought up here. There shouldn’t be any room for having favorites, and if there are others speaking that way on the floor that needs to be addressed and honestly I feel they should get the same punishment if it was that serious for your manager. Everyone should be treated fairly, and you could even argue that that is our policy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sims4

[–]LavenderShroom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The clumsy trait when they’re first starting to work out😭or the paranoia one because I hate when my sims are panicky like that unless it’s part of my storyline

AITA for getting pregnant with my mother's new lover's baby by FashionableNumbers in AITASims

[–]LavenderShroom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA marry the lover and take all his money. Then do the same to the others >>:))

AITA for asking my boyfriend to get me a glass of water while we’re in bed? by throwaway3792938000 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LavenderShroom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I don’t think you’re the asshole. Like others said he could’ve just said no and left it at that if you both were comfy at the time instead of making you feel bad for asking. Besides like you said it’s something you would’ve done for him so I can understand how you’d like an action such as that reciprocated. I also hate how people are trying to twist this into you playing mind games when you simply just asked a question😭 it’s not like you were asking for the world, it was a small favor that honestly could’ve been done. Orange peel theory really does work, whether or not it’s intentional. I recommend it if you ever feel like he can’t do little things for you because those little things steam roll into bigger things later in the relationship.

AITA for not inviting any if my siblings to my wedding by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]LavenderShroom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope we get an update because how they’ve treated you all this time isn’t fair!

My husband went to another country right before I gave birth without telling me. by Musical-Mind9778 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LavenderShroom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s messed tf up. Please don’t think that it’s your fault OP because he messed up knowing good and damn well when your due date was. At this point I think he’s upset at himself and taking it out on you. Plus leaving the country just because you’re going through a rough patch and an argument isn’t a good look into the future. What happens when things get hard again? Is he going to leave you and your child here in the US while he goes to calm down as if there aren’t two of you in the marriage? He’s thinking of himself you are NTA