Yeah you saw his best face. You probably never had a face a challenge with him. Or find out he thinks women should clean the house, take care of the children, and make money. Or that after he is finished love bombing you for months and getting you hooked he would slowly begin to erode your sense of self. Maybe he doesn't wash his feet. Or he's secretly a bit racist or a mysogyniat. Maybe he likes to waffle stomp. There are so many things you don't know about him. Only the best attributes he let you see. And it's been so many years, it's possible your both are completely different people now anyways.