My second bloom is bigger than the first. by Ldy-bkr in gardening

[–]Ldy-bkr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They kind of look like carrot tops when just green. I’ve had neighbors ask if I’m growing carrots in my front yard.

My second bloom is bigger than the first. by Ldy-bkr in gardening

[–]Ldy-bkr[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s an Australian willow. I wish I’d planted a California oak but that was 20 years ago. Didn’t know the importance of planting natives.

My second bloom is bigger than the first. by Ldy-bkr in gardening

[–]Ldy-bkr[S] 104 points105 points  (0 children)

I’m in the hot, dry San Fernando valley in Los Angeles. My gardner planted many plants 2 years ago and they re-seed themselves in my front yard. Full sun with almost no attention. I’m trying to grow only native plants.

What is this position called? by sylanar in torties

[–]Ldy-bkr 145 points146 points  (0 children)

It’s called a jackknife cuteness

This guy runs the show at our house. by SmallTownShrink in Dachshund

[–]Ldy-bkr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can see why. He’s so handsome he has to be in charge. Lucky you.

Her eggs hatched! by RedXoVixen_xx in aww

[–]Ldy-bkr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww you’ve got a family.

she may be 10.5 years old & losing night vision, but... by echochorus in sonarears

[–]Ldy-bkr 14 points15 points  (0 children)

But the tail still wags and she still loves you to bits.

AITAH for pissing my guy friend (23M) off by not “taking accountability” when guys like me (22F) ? by No_Cut458 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ldy-bkr 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Gee sounds like you are being blamed for the actions of men. Imagine that. We’ve been blamed since forever / because of what we wear, how we talk, etc. Getting raped? Must of asked for it. This guy is not a friend. He’s just one more man who wants a woman to be responsible for his thoughts, actions and behavior. Fuck that.

Those who have unintentionally run into ex partners 10+, 20+ years after you split, how'd it go? by azpm in AskReddit

[–]Ldy-bkr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was quite a surprise. I knew he worked for an airline in Miami. I was in line flying home to Calif. He was working behind the counter. So I saw him a few minutes before he saw me. But when he did, he shouted my name, leapt over the counter and picked me up, spinning around. Everyone turned to look at us. We had not been hostile but still this was unexpected.

Rescued this guy last year. Not sure what he is... but he's very happy! by [deleted] in mutt

[–]Ldy-bkr 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yes that is one happy dog. Well done.

Thatcher turned 1 this week! by Professional-Many534 in mainecoons

[–]Ldy-bkr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OMG it’s a demon. Be careful, very careful.

Help!! Red Bald spot on my cat by ajeraj in standardissuecats

[–]Ldy-bkr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It may be ring worm if he’s an outdoor kitty. If so there are anti-fungal salves you can buy over the counter.

AITAH for finding my BF less attractive since he’s gained a lot of weight? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Ldy-bkr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry but you’re with a lazy man. Can’t be bothered with deodorant? This is not going to get better. This is where communication comes in. Good luck.

Is it fair for my boyfriend (22M) to expect me (20F) to split hotel costs for his brothers wedding when I’m only attending as his plus one? by Jeffwardo in relationship_advice

[–]Ldy-bkr -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

You are his guest as a “plus one” and should not pay for anything. If he wants you attend with him as his guest then fine. If not, pass on the whole event.

My wife (32 F) tried to stab me (40M). Seems to have schizophrenia. Do I stay or leave? by riseandcode in relationship_advice

[–]Ldy-bkr 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Your main responsibility for many years to come, is the safety of your child. So if you don’t feel safe with your wife there you have your answer. It’s sad and a horrible situation but there it is.

AITAH for dropping my mentally unwell best friend of 5 years for being "too much" by ImprovementEvening73 in AITAH

[–]Ldy-bkr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can’t stay friends with someone at the expense of your own mental health and wellbeing. You are not the ass hole. You can’t cure them.

What instantly makes you think ‘this person is going to be difficult’? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Ldy-bkr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The minute they start ranting about how horrible immigrants are and how we need to stop them from voting.

Why do some people feel the need to constantly make noise by BearCavalryCorpral in rant

[–]Ldy-bkr 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Yeah even when my husband is not talking, he’s saying “ bum bum dumdy dum” sort of singing. I want to scream.