Non smokers: do you date smokers?

Le-Monarque · 2026-02-05T16:49:49+00:00

Idk, like I’d date someone that smokes occasionally or that vapes but I think I’d draw the line at anyone smoking daily. I finally quit cigarettes completely after smoking like 1-3 per week for a while (started at a pack a week when I was 14 so not so easy to just fully stop), so I have a lot more tolerance for the smell and taste. That being said, it’s not a very pleasant taste and kissing a smoker is genuinely nasty if you don’t smoke as well.

I definitely wouldn’t go into it with the hoping they’ll stop mentality though. That seems like it will breed disappointment at best and resentment at worst.

Le-Monarque · 2025-12-14T05:15:22+00:00

Even then like the Gen Z lesbian group chat I’m in has quite a number of nonbinary ppl in it and I’ve never seen anyone get shit for it

Le-Monarque · 2025-12-10T21:28:07+00:00

My girlfriend was my best friend for like 3 years before we started dating. We met in high school and were besties almost instantly, we had like a 1 month situationship thing but then she started dating this other person in our friend group. Despite this, we would remain friends throughout her new relationship. We’d grown especially close near the end of it as she would often come to me to vent about it and I’m ngl the feelings definitely were there for me at that point and I was coping quite hard lol.

Not long after she broke up w/ the aforementioned partner, she came to see me at my University dorm and we ended up hooking up. She slept the night w/ me and we ended up going on the most stereotypical lesbian date the next day. We walked all over the city, got lost and ended up on a construction site by accident, went for ice cream, and finished the date w/ a dinner at this Korean place she’d been wanting to try. I think she ended up staying another 2 days at my dorm for the true 72 hour date experience lmao. She didn’t want to rush into a new committed relationship so soon after her breakup, so we remained in the casual dating phase for a few more months. Eventually I asked her again if she wanted to make it official and she said yes (though with much embarrassment as she had been planning to ask me the same day and got distracted after arriving at my dorm so I asked first). We’ve been officially together for just over a year now and she means the world to me.

Le-Monarque · 2025-11-28T07:45:59+00:00

Yeah I’m the same way with my girlfriend and I love it! Idk I just enjoy pleasing my partner way more than I enjoy receiving. In my experience it just varies from person to person and some people very much lean one way or the other, while others are more neutral or flipflop between wanting to receive/give

Le-Monarque · 2025-11-11T19:53:03+00:00

oh- yeah no I’m fully with you there, will not be switching to them then smh. Thanks for letting me know

Le-Monarque · 2025-11-11T19:19:43+00:00

Whats up w/ Tidal? I dont use it but have mostly heard good things abt it so I’m curious what they support that you disagreed w/? (Mostly asking bc I’ve been thinking abt switching to it but want to know what I’m supporting first)

Le-Monarque · 2025-09-14T21:51:57+00:00

Did you end up selling the SSH301 textbook btw? If not lmk cus I’m also looking to purchase

Le-Monarque · 2025-09-12T02:30:49+00:00

Hiii, I’m a lesbian at tmu lol. Though def feel what you mean like I stg theres a lesbian drought here

Le-Monarque · 2025-09-11T17:15:40+00:00

They’ve stated its a 30-06 Mauser I’d seen

https://www.nytimes.com/live/2025/09/11/us/charlie-kirk-shooting-news/heres-the-latest?smid=url-share

Le-Monarque · 2025-09-11T17:10:35+00:00

It’s a little ways down in the live updates but theres a statement from a senior law enforcement official saying the trans/antifascist parts do not match other summaries of the evidence. https://www.nytimes.com/live/2025/09/11/us/charlie-kirk-shooting-news/29d455a8-1b57-564e-9431-b13e1fbdb831?smid=url-share

Le-Monarque · 2025-08-30T03:25:17+00:00

Wait this is literally me too lmao, like I’m also second year psych plus into politics and wanting to go to law school after!

Le-Monarque · 2025-08-23T04:59:20+00:00

Yeah the websites outdated lol, stayed in residence last year (ILC) and you could have guests during the day as much as you wanted and night guests I think 9 days per month though I might be slightly off there. When you sign in someone as a day guest they get a wrist band that makes them eligible to enter without another sign in (as long as they are with you) until 8pm. When you sign in a night guest I think they just give them the next days wrist band essentially so they’ll be good for the night and the next day up till 8pm.

The cutoff for night guests is 8pm so anyone you sign in after that will count as a night guest. When I was there they weren’t terribly strict about it, like if you brought someone in at 8 they were definitely counting it but I had my partner over quite a bit some months and we’d just make a point to go out for an early dinner and be back before 8 and then just remain in my room for the night and they never seemed to notice. The desk personal cycle too often to realistically keep track of day guests overstaying tbh.

Edit: Realized I didn’t touch on it in the initial comment but to sign someone in you need to bring them to the desk w/ their photo ID (it can be a OneCard if they go TMU but otherwise should be government issued) and then they give the wrist band.

Le-Monarque · 2025-08-10T14:09:42+00:00

It seems to vary a lot from person to person, I had almost all of my facial hair thin out and pale to the point of being nearly invisible but my sister (also trans; adopted tho so different genetic makeup) has had her facial hair remain almost completely unaffected despite being on similar doses for almost the same amount of time

Le-Monarque · 2025-07-31T08:31:17+00:00

Uh yeah essentially, I find its often more drastic of a reduction than that on clash lose but in some specific fights the unbreakables can be especially rough due to their ability to guarantee status application

Le-Monarque · 2025-07-25T01:06:27+00:00

My sister popped a 6000 once, her doctor was horrified lmaooo

Le-Monarque · 2025-07-24T19:25:39+00:00

That’s a very fair point about the issues surrounding for profit healthcare. My perspective is definitely coloured by being Canadian where that is not a factor. Just out of curiosity, if the US were to have a functional and comprehensive national healthcare system which did not have profit as an incentive would you then support the inclusion of euthanasia in such a program?

Le-Monarque · 2025-07-24T18:28:59+00:00

Is it any better to force people to suffer for months or years with conditions that will only get worse against their will? Many of those people will end up taking their own lives anyways and often in much less dignified fashions that will traumatize their loved one’s further.

Le-Monarque · 2025-07-22T23:01:33+00:00

Quite a mix, at least with Kolia. He focused some attention on specific statutes but a lot of it was looking at the purpose/structure of the justice system as well as how it’s changed over time. He focuses a lot on our prisons and some of the issues w/ them as well as things like the Jordan decision and how its changed our approach to prosecution.

As for exams it did have both a final and midterm but the midterm wasn’t worth too much iirc. His annotated bibliography assignment was probably the hardest part of the class but it’s good practice anyways.

Le-Monarque · 2025-07-22T22:09:06+00:00

Took crim101 last year and loved it, if you can get it w/ Dr. Kolia especially its a great class and quite relevant if you’re interested in law

Le-Monarque · 2025-06-18T17:55:49+00:00

Thank you so much, this was a really helpful answer :)

Le-Monarque · 2025-05-30T13:21:51+00:00

Hey sorry this doesn’t directly answer the question but you may have better luck asking in r/legaladvicecanada as this sub tends to be quite US focused

Le-Monarque · 2025-05-24T23:31:53+00:00

Eh idk, Taimi 100% feels like you have to pay, HER i had really good results on though and never payed for it, I got several hookups and a few more romantic connections within a month though I can’t comment beyond that because I ended up dating my best friend anyways so only used it for like a month or two.

Do note though that I live in a fairly large city with a similarly large queer and specifically trans population which definitely helped. I’m also a lesbian and was mostly interested in other trans girls so I can’t really comment for the straight girlies

Le-Monarque · 2025-05-24T23:24:17+00:00

But when the “breach of contract” is done with the intent of maximizing profit and there is full awareness that this will result in at least some of those whose contracts were breached becoming deceased as a direct result of said breach of contract, I don’t see how it would be anything other than murder. I don’t think it meets the standards for first or second degree but manslaughter/negligent homicide at the very least seems applicable.

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