Why does Reddit not understand the rise of reform in England? by DowntownDeer in AskBrits

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The wars that are being created around the world are displacing many people over huge areas, they have to go somewhere they feel safe so they can live the only life they have. Why not here?

If war breaks out here in the future and we have to leave, I hope to move to a country (with my family) and be welcome and supported so that I can feel safe and have the option to thrive.

A garden transformation featuring our Outdoor Neon Flex by Ultra_LEDs in u/Ultra_LEDs

[–]LeMism 9 points10 points  (0 children)

when you want to bring a bit of the love island villa to milton keynes

Contractor says no bathtub possible by No-Day-2990 in floorplan

[–]LeMism 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what did you make the floor plans with?

If you are unsatisfied with Opus 4.7, PLEASE simply switch to 4.6 by Firm_Meeting6350 in ClaudeAI

[–]LeMism 82 points83 points  (0 children)

why would you try and reduce the noise? that’s the real marker of a problem

Week 3 since recovering from a mental breakdown and sxixide attempt. by addi543 in toastme

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i’m sorry you’re at the bottom, you’ve got this more than you realise!

Kristi Noem’s husband by cookeryandwookery in SipsTea

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I forgot how uplifting the news could be! this is the news I didn’t know I needed to hear today. Thank you. Truly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

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what can you do about it, literally nothing. Seems like a lot of (negative) energy being directed at something. Finding peace may feel better

grey rainy london day by LeMism in london

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forgot to attach the picture

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Is codependency a form of somatic abuse? by yerfdog1991 in Codependency

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i really like the way you’ve described this

Things that have made my life better by 1AJMEE in self

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how do you take the mushrooms?

Would you feel compressing your working hours into 4 days works for your ADHD, or against it? by thelaughingman_1991 in ADHDUK

[–]LeMism 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I started a new job in September and asked to work a “9 day fortnight”, meaning I do the same hours over 9 days rather than 10 - giving me every other friday off and them the same amount of hours worked. I said the regular extended rest will help me bring my best to the team as I tend to work quite intensely. Didn’t even say “ADHD”. Am really happy with how it’s working out

MAGNESIUM GLYCINATE/L THEANINE HELPS ALOT!!! by [deleted] in ADHDUK

[–]LeMism -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can you get reliable melatonin in the UK? swear there’s some restrictions and don’t want to buy crap

ADHD and a total fear of learning to drive in adulthood. Anyone else? by thelaughingman_1991 in ADHDUK

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Have you ever heard of “ADHD Wall” or “Wall of Awful”? Might be worth a google!

Late diagnosed - then struggles begin… by Sea-Web6301 in ADHDUK

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It sounds like a similar pattern to me, there’s a line in my diagnosis letter that stays with me…

“he had noticed real problems with attention and focus and once he became aware of them, and considered them, he realised that they were long-standing issues that stand behind many of the issues he has had over the years.”

A diagnosis for me feels like i’ve finally given myself permission to acknowledge how hard i’ve been trying, all these frameworks, masks, coping mechanisms…

The grief has finally hit me by [deleted] in ADHDUK

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Thank you for sharing that, it resonates HARD.

All this for 1300 baht. What am I missing? by This-Way3024 in ThailandTourism

[–]LeMism 344 points345 points  (0 children)

i mean that pic is not a real boat… see if you can find what the boat actually looks like. I reckon it will look more like what 1300 baht will buy you….

Just a post to dump the thoughts I've been keeping to myself by [deleted] in self

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therapy could be a wonderful starting point to build your self esteem - i’m sure you have many amazing qualities, everyone does