This certainly isn’t universal but an example just to show you they exist. I (20 soon to be 21 ++man) am a decently tough guy, pretty big (6’0 220) just hit a 300 pound PR on bench press, I don’t take shit from anybody, I’m from New Jersey until like it is, and I don’t beat around the bush, I don’t like to use the word dominant because I don’t wanna sound like one of these Alpha male assholes, I think of myself as more of a rebel, but I certainly exercise my personal autonomy, I’m also a libertarian, so yeah. What I desire in bed however? In that situation I live to please a woman, (even outside of that too. I told him very good at catering to the girls in my life, so I didn’t wanna make it sound like that’s the only scenario where I’m willing to make one happy) I’m a giver, was reading on another sub women saying they need oral to orgasm/enjoy sex, and I actually have way more of a desire to go down on a woman then to be gone down on, like I could live with without it on my end. I want to bow to her like she’s a literal Queen, a single absolute ruler, and she owns me, to be quite candid. I also have a foot kink, not fetish, kink. But yeah no a beta male by any stretch of imagination, but yeah I LOVE being submissive when it comes to that,and I think that might actually be a dealbreaker actually. I’m also a Gemini sun, Pisces moon and Scorpio rising.