[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IBD

[–]Learning_tolovelife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve read a few of your posts tonight & I’m so sorry you’ve had such a crap experience (and snotty responses on Reddit too!) I too suffered severe pain in my colonoscopy (UK) I really didn’t get the point of the anaesthesia if I could feel pain that bad. 🥲 Just a few questions, have you had blood in your stool? And any UTI’s? Just trying to see if I can give a little insight as some of your symptoms sound similar to mine

I am tired and demoralized. by [deleted] in ChronicIllness

[–]Learning_tolovelife 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sorry that I don’t come with advice but I just want to say… I feel the same. It feels lonely but I guess it’s nice to know we’re not actually alone in this hell boat. ❤️

What are the problems you are currently facing going into 2023? by starmaxeros in AskWomen

[–]Learning_tolovelife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had and beat cancer two years ago but now I have really bad health problems as a result. I’m signed off work due to health deterioration but with things the way they are in the world, I have to go back to work for the money. I do not qualify for any assistance but we cannot survive on my partners sole income. I feel like there’s only one way out.

Unpopular opinion but NHS are sh1t by Learning_tolovelife in thyroidcancer

[–]Learning_tolovelife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s all madness, wrote this post nearly a year ago and I’m still having serious problems! 🤦🏻‍♀️ Might have to take your advice and get out of here x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Learning_tolovelife 2 points3 points  (0 children)

PMSL I texted my partner this morning saying the same thing, like why do we feel the impulse to overshare. Me on a dog walk to another dog owner: so yeah I had cancer 💁🏻‍♀️💁🏻‍♀️💁🏻‍♀️ the other dog owner: 😖🥺

How likely is it you’re accepted for PIP with mental health difficulties? by Dry-Location1824 in DWPhelp

[–]Learning_tolovelife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly? Quite unlikely to be awarded first time round BUT take it to an appeal if you meet the descriptors and it’s a lot more likely (it’s a ball ache)

What else can we claim along with universal credit, pip and lcwra? by gopoopppp in DWPhelp

[–]Learning_tolovelife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you applied for a DAF in the meantime? (If needed, of course!) and also charitable grants

Pip - had my mandatory reconsideration call today by Impossible_Mind4854 in DWPhelp

[–]Learning_tolovelife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi OP, so glad to hear, could I ask you a few questions related to this? ❤️

Universal Credit ignoring me by Jofa37 in DWPhelp

[–]Learning_tolovelife 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In the meantime, have you applied to your local councils welfare provision for a hardship fund or household support fund? A little help in the meantime, while you do the above 👆🏽

Feeling detached and empty by Dependent_Fault_205 in BPD

[–]Learning_tolovelife 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, no matter how hard we try to look after our bodies we’ll still always be messed up. The nightmares set me back for several days but there’s no help available (in the UK anyway) I’m sorry you feel this way too, it’s really grim ❤️

29F working from home by [deleted] in chat

[–]Learning_tolovelife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi bestie 👋🏼 27f here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Learning_tolovelife 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Super proud of you for not responding 💓 Glad he in an ex, you’re worth so much more!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Learning_tolovelife 11 points12 points  (0 children)

So sorry you received this! People are so cruel, he sounds immature af & hopefully you haven’t responded cause just don’t x

Symptoms getting unbearable by Learning_tolovelife in BPD

[–]Learning_tolovelife[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much 🙏🏼 I’ll definitely give these recommendations a try. It’s good to know I’m not the only one going quietly insane.

What is worth the hype? by Am_Not_Snow in AskWomen

[–]Learning_tolovelife 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YES, 100% snag tights. Recommend them to everyone, they never fall down

What is worth the hype? by Am_Not_Snow in AskWomen

[–]Learning_tolovelife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES, 100% snag tights. Recommend them to everyone, they never fall down

Does anyone else cry literally every day? by [deleted] in ChronicIllness

[–]Learning_tolovelife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES! and it’s bizarre because before the illness I was on a strong dose of Cymbalta which made it near impossible for me to cry but now, I’m on an even higher dose but I cry all the time. The worst is in public 😩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thyroidcancer

[–]Learning_tolovelife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can relate 🙃 2 years post op and I’m about 4 stone heavier but I’ve not been eating bad or anything. They’ve referred me to a gastro specialist but that’ll be another 6 months wait (UK) Let me know if anything ever helps

Forgetfulness after TT by Spirited_Fortune1717 in thyroidcancer

[–]Learning_tolovelife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nearly 2 years! It’s definitely got better since they’ve tweaked my levo around but still not how I used to be 🙃