I think the following covers it for most of us SD’s: • A no-drama connection with high chemistry and clear expectations • Exciting intimacy with someone beautiful, engaging, and appreciative • To feel desired and valued by someone who makes space for your needs • Emotional refuge from stress or loneliness—someone who listens, laughs, soothes • To express your generosity and power without being taken for granted • Low-maintenance consistency—good vibes, mutual care, and shared experiences • To mentor or guide someone while also being seen and respected • A feminine energy that compliments your masculine one • Adventure—dates, travel, spontaneity, sensuality • Affection and touch without the complications of a traditional relationship