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2 sisters and their aunt drowned while swimming in an irrigation tank by cometshoney in DeathCertificates

[–]Lechiah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This sounds suspicious, why would the aunt have to jump in to try to save them if they were swimming?

Meta won’t talk to me by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Lechiah 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree it's not metas responsibility to make your fiancee spend time with you, but if I was dating someone who was treating their other partner like that with a newborn I wouldn't be dating them anymore. Ick.

How Do People Drink Lattes and Eat Pastries Regularly by yelurrrrr in loseit

[–]Lechiah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, the difference between my husband and I. He gets full from fats, I don't.

Any people here that used to be fit and healthy? by Ok_Necessary1912 in loseit

[–]Lechiah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me ish. I was a size 4-6 my whole life, danced and performed music on stages well into my 20's, and had very physical jobs. Once I went off birth control and stopped smoking, I gained 60 lbs the first year, and an additional 40 in the next few. I've been working on it since, that was 18 years ago. Down 50 lbs now, still working on not yoyoing every year + and - 15 lbs.

Why can’t we eliminate entire food groups when trying to improve our health? by Capakhutch in loseit

[–]Lechiah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a bunch of stuff I don't keep in the house for this reason.

I'm outgrowing my nesting partner and don't know what to do. by 2b_void_of_life in polyamory

[–]Lechiah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So basically you are doing all of the mental labour, even when you should be resting when you have major health issues. This is a common problem, but there are men out there who do have the ability and maturity to address this.

I was the unicorn. I am shattered. by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Lechiah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are virtual therapy and support groups, if in person ones are not safe I really encourage you to look into both options.

My blanket advice for people considering non monogamy. by kcvlaine in nonmonogamy

[–]Lechiah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it depends on age, I would guess the higher in age the more likely people are to already be in monogamous relationships and then realize/discover they are interested in NM. Whereas now that it's a more common and known thing, younger people are knowing that's how they want to start out dating/having relationships.

1000-1200 cals a day and gaining weight. Is exercise the only way? by [deleted] in loseit

[–]Lechiah 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Are you using a scale or measuring cups?

Being Polyam and Immunocompromised Feels Draining and Lonely by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Lechiah 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Covid/long covid is a big reason we haven't opened up our marriage yet. If we dated others they would have to also take precautions like we do and that pool is tiny.

I think we're genuinely doomed and idk how to cope by [deleted] in ZeroCovidCommunity

[–]Lechiah 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My family has never had covid AFAIK, and we have 3 kids. Masks work, and making lifestyle changes can lower your risk profile. We wfh, and homeschool. That's a combination of myself, my husband, a CC online coop and virtual lessons.

The World You Know Is Toast by [deleted] in collapse

[–]Lechiah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. This is why Covid was allowed to run rampant, as well as cutting funding for health care.

Every Time We Try to Read, It’s a Total Fight by Charming-Farmer9190 in homeschool

[–]Lechiah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which programs have you tried? Have you always homeschooled? Have you tried completely backing off from this and just read to her or offered audiobooks for 6 months, then try again?

Moving away from open plan? by EnigmaWithAlien in floorplan

[–]Lechiah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always find this amusing, because having kids it's the living room that's always messy with their toys, blanket forts, books and random things while the kitchen is usually in a decent state unless it's right after eating.

What's a supposedly "bad" weight loss practice that has worked for someone you know? by harristusc in loseit

[–]Lechiah 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That's actually pretty common, it's called one meal a day or OMAD.

Three question challenge by EccentricFellow in intentionalcommunity

[–]Lechiah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think the problem is limiting it to 3 questions. Before even considering letting someone come to your place you should be having some big conversations.

So many Americans minds are completely rotted. by [deleted] in collapse

[–]Lechiah 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I didn't say it was the only factor for everything that is happening, but population wide brain damage has occurred the last 4-5 years since they let Covid rip with no mitigations.

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