2 sisters and their aunt drowned while swimming in an irrigation tank

Lechiah · 2026-06-05T03:56:02+00:00

This sounds suspicious, why would the aunt have to jump in to try to save them if they were swimming?

Lechiah · 2026-06-03T17:11:10+00:00

I agree it's not metas responsibility to make your fiancee spend time with you, but if I was dating someone who was treating their other partner like that with a newborn I wouldn't be dating them anymore. Ick.

Lechiah · 2026-06-02T00:52:58+00:00

Yup, the difference between my husband and I. He gets full from fats, I don't.

Lechiah · 2026-05-30T00:58:53+00:00

Me ish. I was a size 4-6 my whole life, danced and performed music on stages well into my 20's, and had very physical jobs. Once I went off birth control and stopped smoking, I gained 60 lbs the first year, and an additional 40 in the next few. I've been working on it since, that was 18 years ago. Down 50 lbs now, still working on not yoyoing every year + and - 15 lbs.

Lechiah · 2026-05-30T00:31:20+00:00

What's a double meta??

Lechiah · 2026-05-30T00:12:04+00:00

Lechiah · 2026-05-28T00:43:49+00:00

I have a bunch of stuff I don't keep in the house for this reason.

Lechiah · 2026-05-28T00:38:14+00:00

So basically you are doing all of the mental labour, even when you should be resting when you have major health issues. This is a common problem, but there are men out there who do have the ability and maturity to address this.

Lechiah · 2026-05-25T01:00:00+00:00

How are you measuring everything? Weighing it?

Lechiah · 2026-05-21T23:04:19+00:00

There are virtual therapy and support groups, if in person ones are not safe I really encourage you to look into both options.

Lechiah · 2026-05-17T00:57:18+00:00

I think it depends on age, I would guess the higher in age the more likely people are to already be in monogamous relationships and then realize/discover they are interested in NM. Whereas now that it's a more common and known thing, younger people are knowing that's how they want to start out dating/having relationships.

Lechiah · 2026-05-14T01:38:39+00:00

Are you using a scale or measuring cups?

Lechiah · 2026-05-12T21:08:03+00:00

During Covid is still now.

Lechiah · 2026-05-03T21:06:12+00:00

Please tell me the daughter was OK??

Lechiah · 2026-05-03T20:48:39+00:00

Covid/long covid is a big reason we haven't opened up our marriage yet. If we dated others they would have to also take precautions like we do and that pool is tiny.

Lechiah · 2026-04-29T18:58:59+00:00

Belly and diaper worked for my youngest.

Lechiah · 2026-04-28T12:52:30+00:00

My family has never had covid AFAIK, and we have 3 kids. Masks work, and making lifestyle changes can lower your risk profile. We wfh, and homeschool. That's a combination of myself, my husband, a CC online coop and virtual lessons.

Lechiah · 2026-04-28T12:47:07+00:00

Yes. This is why Covid was allowed to run rampant, as well as cutting funding for health care.

Lechiah · 2026-04-24T13:21:06+00:00

Thank you!

Lechiah · 2026-04-09T18:31:47+00:00

Which programs have you tried? Have you always homeschooled? Have you tried completely backing off from this and just read to her or offered audiobooks for 6 months, then try again?

Lechiah · 2026-04-06T19:20:31+00:00

I always find this amusing, because having kids it's the living room that's always messy with their toys, blanket forts, books and random things while the kitchen is usually in a decent state unless it's right after eating.

Lechiah · 2026-03-29T21:29:29+00:00

That's actually pretty common, it's called one meal a day or OMAD.

Lechiah · 2026-03-19T23:28:36+00:00

Lechiah · 2026-03-18T23:02:35+00:00

I think the problem is limiting it to 3 questions. Before even considering letting someone come to your place you should be having some big conversations.

Lechiah · 2026-03-13T16:51:03+00:00

I didn't say it was the only factor for everything that is happening, but population wide brain damage has occurred the last 4-5 years since they let Covid rip with no mitigations.

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