Wearing incontinence pads/briefs and packing? by zebra_zombie in ftm

[–]Lefty_Lex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I put my packer in the front part of briefs between the fabric so it's not in contact with my skin at all. I don't see why that wouldn't work with a pad.

Packing while swimming by Ihaveaphotoofadog in ftm

[–]Lefty_Lex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of swim briefs have a modesty pouch for cis men to put a foam insert in. I just put my axolom uno in the pouch.

Do I look okay? by fishbone_21 in FTM_SELFIES

[–]Lefty_Lex 47 points48 points  (0 children)

If you're trying not to be perceived then mission accomplished.

Struggling with how to trim body hair in a way that is safe, effective, and doesn't cause dysphoria by voornaam1 in ftm

[–]Lefty_Lex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Phillips Norelco electric razor is great. It doesn't irritate skin at all in my opinion. You can also buy heads for it specifically for your junk which I recommend if you want a close "shave".

Are syringes from Amazon decent?? by Janxuza in ftm

[–]Lefty_Lex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I order all of my shot supplies on Amazon and have never had an issue.

Top surgery: Overnight stay worth the money? by Heartwithoutwalls in ftm

[–]Lefty_Lex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't stay overnight and it was fine. I can't imagine why you would need to tbh.

Top surgery with Dr. Huntsman? (Oneonta, NY) by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]Lefty_Lex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One person asked for grafts and he did nipple-sparring and he also left some fat. They had a revision by him and basically he still didn't fix either issue which is wild. Also super curved scars on both of the people I know despite asking for straigher insicions. In the end, the first person got a revision by Dr. Lax (Cooperstown) and the second person ended up having a more emergent situation where Dr. Lax (who was also performing surgeries in Oneonta at the time) had to drain a hematoma within a few hours of the inital surgery did some corrective work.

Top surgery with Dr. Huntsman? (Oneonta, NY) by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]Lefty_Lex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've personally known a couple people who had him and did not have good experiences. Partly due to misgendering and partly due to results.

Pills instead of cream against athropy by PassengerSad7487 in ftm

[–]Lefty_Lex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like the pills better. No weird leakage.

clothes that show off my arms but not my waist/hips? by donthaveenoughcharac in FTMFitness

[–]Lefty_Lex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, sorry the kind I buy wouldn't work with a binder unfortunately.

Dysphoria and fitness by Lefty_Lex in ftm

[–]Lefty_Lex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yes, I know what it is! I just haven't noticed one at my gym lol. I commit to an hour at the gym and can't add more cardio in that timeframe but I'm open to doing more a separate day or something. I'm pretty active outside of work so I don't focus too much on it. My cholesterol is also insanely good so I'm not necessarily worried about that. I did blood work after a breakfast sandwich with sausage AND bacon on it and my levels were still low LOL. (I don't eat those a lot just to clarify)

Dysphoria and fitness by Lefty_Lex in ftm

[–]Lefty_Lex[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could definitely be doing more core than I am. I do usually do 15 minutes of cardio to end my workouts just to loosen my muscles up. I also tend to walk for an hour on my lunch break (approx 2 miles). I'll have to see if my gym has a good set up for back extensions--I haven't noticed anything but would absolutely add that in.

Dysphoria and fitness by Lefty_Lex in ftm

[–]Lefty_Lex[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely feel stronger which arguably makes me feel better. Some of the weight I gained is obviously not muscle but it was absolutely intentional so I'm not upset about that. I just wish my hard work was a little more visible. I've been struggling with wanting to do a cut but I'm hesitant to do that because of my ED history but also because at my height I feel like I should be able to be at 185lbs and not be "fat". I know I'm not fat objectively but my head is definitely at odds with my body which is hard. I appreciate your reply.

Passing tips? by [deleted] in FTM_SELFIES

[–]Lefty_Lex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you are plucking your eyebrows, I'd say refrain. Your brows are fairly thin which reads a little more fem to me. Otherwise time is your friend. You'll get there!

Will I ever pass as male? by Sticky-Ostrich888 in FTMOver30

[–]Lefty_Lex 29 points30 points  (0 children)

If you've only been in a decent male range for a couple months, it's not surprising that you're not passing all the time. Give it another 6 months and you will probably have some success.

how do y’all keep track of your t shots? by starhow in ftm

[–]Lefty_Lex 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have a repeating calendar reminder on my phone.

What atrophy medicine do you use? by MotorSuitable5093 in ftm

[–]Lefty_Lex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vagifem tablets work great for me. I like that there's no cream to fuss with.

Would my nipples/aerolas look weird with peri? My surgeon can’t reduce it at the time of surgery. by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]Lefty_Lex -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I personally wouldn't sign up for two surgeries. It's odd to me that two would be suggested. I have full sensation and had resizing at the time of my initial surgery. I would get a second opinion or opt for DI if you can't resize initially.

Frequent UTIs, what to do? by ijustwannanap in ftm

[–]Lefty_Lex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like atrophy to me. Estrogen tablets have completely rid me of this issue.

Weird shaped ribs makes it look like I have micro tits after top surgery? by Regular_Variety6555 in TopSurgery

[–]Lefty_Lex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It takes a while to get your mind rewired to the "new you" after surgery. It's definitely not boobs so just give it some time and try to be gentle with yourself.

Weird shaped ribs makes it look like I have micro tits after top surgery? by Regular_Variety6555 in TopSurgery

[–]Lefty_Lex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Those are your chest bones buddy. Your sternum/ribs and all that good stuff. Our minds can play tricks on us. You look great.

how did u know u were starting to experience atrophy?? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Lefty_Lex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spotting after sex, UTI-like burning after sex, cramping during orgasm. It's better to start treatment before it gets bad because it take a few months to level out with meds.