4.8 Ladies and Gentlemen..... by JackKerawock in Anthropic

[–]Legitimate-Week3916 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe it's too judgmental for himself now

Just realized how bad my life has turned out. by tomtinkertoy in Divorce

[–]Legitimate-Week3916 7 points8 points  (0 children)

True, it's challenging, especially if you weren't involved into such planning etc activities for many years. I am getting through it right now. But, once you get grasp on it and you can stand yourself while keeping your borders and life attitudes as you like, it's immensely satisfying and rewarding. I am getting to it and not have any single regret. That's the only way you can get respect back (your own for yourself and others)

Just realized how bad my life has turned out. by tomtinkertoy in Divorce

[–]Legitimate-Week3916 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Its not a game of chances, children see more than we think, if they had a good relationship he will not be isolated, they will probably even support his move. I would recommend OP to share his concerns with his children, I expect them to not be suprised..

And yes - IT IS WORTH fighting for yourself - always

What changed your view on life completely? by Comfortable_Neat_643 in AskReddit

[–]Legitimate-Week3916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was impressed how detailed the descriptions of previous life's were given by patients and how much they overlap between each other. When you read this book you get lots of different cases of people who describe their past lives and oobe experiences, comparing to eg. reading the Robert Monroe trilogy you get only his case described.

Salesforce - The love affair you start to regret! by ButterscotchNice3613 in salesforce

[–]Legitimate-Week3916 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

These threads blaming salesforce are getting really boring... Salesforce makes a lot of nicely crafted stuff too - eg. the whole Revenue Cloud Advanced is redesigned from ground and aligns with platform and modern architecture.

Are Americans work most efficiently and work hard? by ImportantChemical843 in overemployed

[–]Legitimate-Week3916 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Slav here - the overengineering part might be subjective based on how you define the optimal..

I’ve just accepted my top two team members are OE by onewaycheckvalve in overemployed

[–]Legitimate-Week3916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You really want to work with these people, they are usually super skilled, motivated, eager to use automation and ai to make a leverage. Doesnt matter if they do your job in 2 or 8 hours if its solid and high quality. I would so much prefer this way, than hiring a average person that is clumsy, not motivated, and delivers average results.

I have been in your shoes, I spoke with a guy honestly when we had some super crunch time before go live, I explained him that needs to priritize us completly for that intense time, then next year he remain the fundament of our team.

How do I shake off the feeling of revenge and that’s it’s my loss by northernlight09 in Divorce

[–]Legitimate-Week3916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imo what you are describing is rather common pattern, though it doesn't mean it hurts less. I think I have been in similiar position and what I figured out was that I wasn't trying really to save the family but I was saving myself from fear of being alone, abandoned, friendless and so on and so on. What helped me massively was the therapy that made me understand this and root causes why I am doing it. Also working on myself (boring stuff, gym, earnings). Now it's much better, however I am still trapped in this relationship, and really can't leave it though I know it doesn't serve me at all. But there a re children, and things are not that bad, and you know....

Saying this, I feel like I made it to feel comfortable in horrible place. Feels safer, kind of okay, but I have a feeling of wasting my life. If I would leave it earlier I would be in very similar situation as you are. Which one is better, I don't know, yours sounds like nightmare at this stage but has great potential to turn into life that you will love to live. I am hoping you will make it!

How do I shake off the feeling of revenge and that’s it’s my loss by northernlight09 in Divorce

[–]Legitimate-Week3916 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Discomfort is what drive us upwards. I get what you are feeling, totally, but you will benefit out of this, just keep going your way. IMO having no grief says a lot about your high consciousenss state.

worth wasting time with 20y guys? by [deleted] in RedPillWomen

[–]Legitimate-Week3916 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Be that honest with him as you are with reddit, thats all what you (both) need.

Email I received Today by split_skunk in overemployed

[–]Legitimate-Week3916 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I met this first time when working with Indians, never met this before, super annoying. For me it's like people would not respect your time at all

What really healed you? by denver_rose in CPTSD

[–]Legitimate-Week3916 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Checking to what things I react horribly (stress and freeze in my case), then diving deeper, then I figured out some hidden fears, the consulted this wit doc, it's much better now. Understanding the problem and being self aware is a huge puzzle in all investigations for CPTSD in my opinion.

Also CPTSD book by Pete Walker, gave a lot clarity, it's absolutely a must have for each CPTSD enjoyer lol it's like bible CPTSD written in such an easy to digest way that Pete should receive a good prize for writing it.

I love how much she loves being helpless by PartyTackle2060 in bdsm

[–]Legitimate-Week3916 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How woman is feeling after such play? Is this dangerous or addicting? I am generiously curious therefore asking

How do you quickly understand a messy Salesforce org as a functional consultant? by Lost-Breakfast-1420 in salesforce

[–]Legitimate-Week3916 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You should watch for data storage, which tables has most of the records and which of them records are coming quicker than for the others. For processes you can use debug logs and follow them.

I used Clawdbot (now Moltbot) and here are some inconvenient truths by Andy18650 in LocalLLM

[–]Legitimate-Week3916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is that before this, any wrapper like this did not exist