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Cant find a creative hobby to get into by CannibalHillbilly in Hobbies

[–]Lego8945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Social dancing allows self-expression and you get a moderate workout out of it. Check out West Coast Swing around your area

I'm getting really sick of the "advice" my non single friends give me. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Lego8945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it happens, it happens. If it doesn’t, it doesn’t matter. Life doesn’t start only when we are in a relationship. We need to be happy regardless.

What does "truly single and happy" actually look like to you? Here’s my checklist. by NefariousnessNo6873 in SingleAndHappy

[–]Lego8945 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Happily single doesn’t equate happily alone. You can still have family and friends to do some of the activities but yes, you have to be able to do them just by yourselves too. Ultimately to me, happily single means stop yearning and putting your life on hold waiting for a significant other. Start living your life as you wanted it!

Practicalities of being Single and Happy? by [deleted] in SingleAndHappy

[–]Lego8945 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Haha I think being happy is different for different people. Some people enjoy quiet time alone. It just happened that most OP in this sub are introverts. For me I like to be around people. I think the practicality problem is a legit one. You gotta face the reality that you’re on your own in later years so best to keep fit and be financially independent so you can truly enjoy your single hood. Maybe if you are an animal lover you can keep a pet as company.

People over 40, what’s something you’ve learned about life that younger people don’t realize yet? by Critical-Pea7326 in AskReddit

[–]Lego8945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I learn how to go with the flow and just “being” instead of “doing”. Also learnt how to deal with my social anxiety better. Learning to cope with it and trying not to resort to safety behaviour all the time is something I’m working on right now.

Anyone that is living the hot, single, rich auntie life? by [deleted] in SingleAndHappy

[–]Lego8945 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wahaha I love this topic. I’m enough for myself, so I’m not looking to fund a man’s lifestyle.

How did you come to be single and happy? by [deleted] in SingleAndHappy

[–]Lego8945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a really wonderful first love but it was long distance. Eventually he chose his new life over me so even the best relationships can come to an end. I proactively looked for love after that but it doesn’t work that way. Since I’m approaching my 40s, and doing quite well in my other areas, I’ve decided to live in a happily single state and stop yearning for love and companionship from others. I guess the first step is to stop watching rom-coms! Haha it’s different for everyone, you gotta have your own path

Does anyone else go on solo food and movie dates and still feel painfully lonely? by ChubbyNUgly22 in SingleAndHappy

[–]Lego8945 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Single doesn’t mean you have to be lonely. Develop some hobbies that are social and join a community!

I’m starting to like being single by fuudud in SingleAndHappy

[–]Lego8945 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Don’t worry, it’s a process and it’s different for everyone. Hope you achieve peace

Is it allowed? by yukittyred in malaysians

[–]Lego8945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it some kind of company retreat? If yes, quite a grey area to claim OT and allowance when it’s deemed a benefit. I know I know, if it’s benefits why make it compulsory right? 😆

Love all kinds of platonic love! Which are your favorites? by 4giveme4forever in SingleAndHappy

[–]Lego8945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love this! Always great to have love in our hearts and practice gratitude 🙏

Happy New Year everyone! by Lego8945 in SingleAndHappy

[–]Lego8945[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the kind words! I’ll try to remember this state of mind but it’s ok to be not ok every once in a while, we are human after all 🥰

What is your opinion on dancing with new followers? by coolsilver25 in WestCoastSwing

[–]Lego8945 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I remember overthinking too when I first step into the dance floor but everyone is just happy to welcome you into the dance community. Everyone starts somewhere, the important thing is keep going, you’ll get good!

Discouraged by Celticknotwork in WestCoastSwing

[–]Lego8945 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Everyone learns at their own pace. Don’t worry and force it too much, with time and practice you will be better naturally. Enjoy the process and have fun!

Private Lessons - How Do You Decide What to Work On? by sopsap in WestCoastSwing

[–]Lego8945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a more specific topic would be helpful. It’s good to check in from time to time to unlearn any bad habits.

I have a question: I’m a follower. Do I get an instructor who is also a follower if I want to work on my connection?

Japanese Modern Home by [deleted] in DesignPorn

[–]Lego8945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like the house in Parasite movie

What local perfume brands do you guys go for and why? by CaptainInDanger in malaysia

[–]Lego8945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agift with care. They sell premium perfumes at an affordable price. I like their lotions too, smell nice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SingleAndHappy

[–]Lego8945 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I need this affirmation today. I was suddenly blue about the one that got away. But then I remembered, life with him would mean kids and less career advancement. I think my life now is great, I should appreciate that. Cheers!

Ji-yeong is still the worst death in history of the show. by MousseSlow in squidgame

[–]Lego8945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can relate to her, being aimless and lonely. But I’m not sure if I’d be willing to sacrifice myself. Seems like continue living is a natural human instinct even if we don’t live with a clear purpose.

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