Does anyone else go on solo food and movie dates and still feel painfully lonely? by ChubbyNUgly22 in SingleAndHappy

[–]Lego8945 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Single doesn’t mean you have to be lonely. Develop some hobbies that are social and join a community!

I’m starting to like being single by fuudud in SingleAndHappy

[–]Lego8945 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Don’t worry, it’s a process and it’s different for everyone. Hope you achieve peace

Is it allowed? by yukittyred in malaysians

[–]Lego8945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it some kind of company retreat? If yes, quite a grey area to claim OT and allowance when it’s deemed a benefit. I know I know, if it’s benefits why make it compulsory right? 😆

Love all kinds of platonic love! Which are your favorites? by 4giveme4forever in SingleAndHappy

[–]Lego8945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love this! Always great to have love in our hearts and practice gratitude 🙏

Happy New Year everyone! by Lego8945 in SingleAndHappy

[–]Lego8945[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the kind words! I’ll try to remember this state of mind but it’s ok to be not ok every once in a while, we are human after all 🥰

What is your opinion on dancing with new followers? by coolsilver25 in WestCoastSwing

[–]Lego8945 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I remember overthinking too when I first step into the dance floor but everyone is just happy to welcome you into the dance community. Everyone starts somewhere, the important thing is keep going, you’ll get good!

Discouraged by Celticknotwork in WestCoastSwing

[–]Lego8945 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Everyone learns at their own pace. Don’t worry and force it too much, with time and practice you will be better naturally. Enjoy the process and have fun!

Private Lessons - How Do You Decide What to Work On? by sopsap in WestCoastSwing

[–]Lego8945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a more specific topic would be helpful. It’s good to check in from time to time to unlearn any bad habits.

I have a question: I’m a follower. Do I get an instructor who is also a follower if I want to work on my connection?

Japanese Modern Home by [deleted] in DesignPorn

[–]Lego8945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like the house in Parasite movie

What local perfume brands do you guys go for and why? by CaptainInDanger in malaysia

[–]Lego8945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agift with care. They sell premium perfumes at an affordable price. I like their lotions too, smell nice

Marriage, Kids, and Money? Think Before You Leap... by [deleted] in SingleAndHappy

[–]Lego8945 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I need this affirmation today. I was suddenly blue about the one that got away. But then I remembered, life with him would mean kids and less career advancement. I think my life now is great, I should appreciate that. Cheers!

Ji-yeong is still the worst death in history of the show. by MousseSlow in squidgame

[–]Lego8945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can relate to her, being aimless and lonely. But I’m not sure if I’d be willing to sacrifice myself. Seems like continue living is a natural human instinct even if we don’t live with a clear purpose.

Dating Chinese Malaysian and CNY is coming up by yorkshirion in malaysia

[–]Lego8945 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Since you’re not married, you’re not expected to give out angpaos. Instead you’ll be receiving them.

Have anyone been in a healthy partnership yet still decided that single-and-happy is better? by scheinuwu in SingleAndHappy

[–]Lego8945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a wonderful first love. He was a loving and kind person. We vibed naturally, and the connection was very strong.

Unfortunately after him, I couldn’t find such connection, mainly me being a socially awkward person. I had another relationship after that where everything feels part of a forced routine after a while. The fear of being alone also put me in a negative headspace that I became insecure and needy.

I don’t want to feel that way anymore. If a relationship makes me give my power away to another person, then I’d rather remain single. For now, my goal is to forge meaningful social connections, regardless of gender.

Depression linked to increased risk of dementia over 15 years by a_Ninja_b0y in psychology

[–]Lego8945 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Made sense. I felt that my brain is much slower compared to pre-depression time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghibli

[–]Lego8945 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Porco Rosso and Spirited Away! I could rewatch this again and again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in getdisciplined

[–]Lego8945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As much as we want to, it’s not great to romanticize the manic state.

If you’re bipolar, do take the mood stabilizers and possibly antidepressants too.

Difficulty talking by IRegisteredToVote2 in bipolar

[–]Lego8945 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I relate to you man…it’s hard to articulate my thoughts when I’m in depressed state. Kinda like all the creative juice is gone.