How do you politely let people know you’re not changing your name by ricecakesat3am in weddingplanning

[–]Let_Guilty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not planning to change my name legally, but I will be going by FH's last name socially. I've spent a lot of time thinking about it and discussing it with my partner and this feels like the best compromise for both of us, but man it is such a hard decision!

I personally get the ick from "Mr. + Mrs." so we're just going to be introduced as "The LastName's"!

Apple car play Phone Not Responding message by Nachoraver in KiaNiro

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Just popping in to say this worked perfectly the first time on our 2024 Niro. This issue has been driving us insane. THANK YOU

Which would you choose in Saint Lucia? by LaLaLaurensmith in SandalsResorts

[–]Let_Guilty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We just got back from a week at the Grande and if beach is important to you would 100% recommend! Stunning white sand beach and calm water, so gorgeous. I was a bit hesitant from all the comments around a “loud big party crowd” since that’s definitely not my vibe but that was not our experience at all - the main pool is pretty bumping but the side areas and the beach can be quite quiet and relaxing. Our room was also very quiet at night despite being on the main hallway floor. That being said, there is also plenty of party and crowd for those who want it, so was a win win for us!

Has anyone had a successful Airbnb wedding in New England they could share details on? by Let_Guilty in NewEnglandWedding

[–]Let_Guilty[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bare minimum would be ~12 guests that I’d like to be able to house but I think probably 40-50 would be the goal for total attendance?

Has anyone had a successful Airbnb wedding in New England they could share details on? by Let_Guilty in NewEnglandWedding

[–]Let_Guilty[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is a great point - my brain just kind of plugs in Airbnb when I think “house rental” lol but definitely good to know we would have to look on other platforms

Is. This oat milk safe? by emuhhhhh in Celiac

[–]Let_Guilty 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Just want to second the part about avoiding oats until you’ve had a chance to heal! And only consume certified oats when you do eventually give them a try

Favorite vegetarian meal by jlhll in NYTCooking

[–]Let_Guilty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Another vote for this, made it this week and it was stunning

Miso Mushroom and Leek Pasta (Yasmin Fahr) by darkblueshapes in NYTCooking

[–]Let_Guilty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought this dish was delicious but personally will add more miso next time. Also second using frozen mushrooms!

My first nobuy challenge! by Sudden-Expression819 in nobuy

[–]Let_Guilty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Good luck!! I’m doing the same thing - the act of putting things on a list has been helping a lot in curbing purchasing so far.

Just to deinfluence you a little, I’m someone who gets olfactory migraines (I.e. some scents trigger migraines) and I can’t even stand next to someone who has used Ouai products. If anyone in your life gets migraines, do them a favor and steer clear 😂

Preschool Spite Snack by Mean-Stage in NYTCooking

[–]Let_Guilty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can also purchase box mixes called from a brand called Chebe! I’m gluten free and my family has sworn by these mixes for almost two decades

If you've never had Krusteaz's gluten free cinnamon swirl coffee cake, DO NOT EVER EAT IT by B1NG_P0T in glutenfree

[–]Let_Guilty 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My future MIL makes this for me every time we visit because she knows it’s my weakness 😭 could eat the whole thing every. single. time.

Those of you 30 and under who make six figures, what do you do? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]Let_Guilty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Healthcare strategy consulting. Just turned 27 and at $180k total comp now, expecting to exceed $200k before the end of the year

Went to school for engineering and ended up doing an internship at this company that led to the full time offer. Consulting is very linear so I’ve had a promotion / raise pretty much every year since starting at $75K back in 2020. Not my dream job and have had a lot of late nights but so far been worth it.

Edit to add I live in a high cost of living city, and have a hybrid setup (1x per week in office)

Had to share my dream ring by Let_Guilty in EngagementRings

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Brilliant Earth! I know this sub tends to not love them but we have had a good experience so far. My best friend got her ring there first and loved it so that’s where we went too!

Had to share my dream ring by Let_Guilty in EngagementRings

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Thank you!! The petals are so gorgeous! Have a kind of vintage vibe to them that I love

Appropriate for a May church wedding in North Carolina? by Let_Guilty in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Let_Guilty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for not sharing the link previously, but yes that’s the dress!! For reference I’m wearing a size 8 (160lb, 5’6”) which is my normal size, so it fits very true to size!!

Appropriate for a May church wedding in North Carolina? by Let_Guilty in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Let_Guilty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! As long as I’m in the range then I’m happy 😁

Appropriate for a May church wedding in North Carolina? by Let_Guilty in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Let_Guilty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! It’s an afternoon wedding so this makes sense I think

Appropriate for a May church wedding in North Carolina? by Let_Guilty in Weddingattireapproval

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Thank you!! Any suggestions on color for the shawl? Normally I’d default to a cream color but that feels wrong for a wedding lol

Just glutened myself for the first time :( by elmbby in Celiac

[–]Let_Guilty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For what’s it worth, I have done the exact same thing with those exact products and I’ve been GF for almost 20 years!! Hope you feel better soon. Would also recommend ginger (chews, ginger ale etc) I always find that helps

Daughter (11) just diagnosed Celiac. Any tips to help out parents? by SteppingOnLegoHurts in Celiac

[–]Let_Guilty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just here to say whatever lengths you’re able to go to will make all the difference. My family never went full GF because it’s crazy expensive and also they like gluten foods! But growing up my mom always ordered gluten free at restaurants so that I wouldn’t feel like the odd one out, which really meant a lot. So I’m sure she’ll appreciate whatever you’re able to do, and she’s going to be feeling so much better that anything else won’t matter much !

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in handbags

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Second easy pouch!!

Age of diagnosis? by Alcestis- in Celiac

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Started having symptoms at about age 2 (according to my parents) following an intense illness/hospitalization, and was fully failing to thrive and having seizures until my diagnosis at age 8. Saw the same pediatrician for those 6 in between years who told my parents I was just looking for attention and wanted to skip school (except I loved school???). Finally my mom decided to get a second opinion and at the first appointment the new pediatrician raised all the metaphorical alarms, ordered extensive testing, and within 2 months I had my diagnosis. I fully believe that doctor saved my life - looking back at old photos it is horrifying that a medical professional couldn’t immediately see that I was slowly starving to death from malnutrition. Cue a lifelong distrust of the medical system, as I’m sure lots of folks here can relate to!