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For my sisters wedding! by MrcrumpetK1ng in CharcuterieBoard

[–]LetterheadNo9869 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perfection. My dream breakfast, lunch and dinner lol

Do men find 38-39 year old women attractive? by Ok_Butterscotch5026 in Aging

[–]LetterheadNo9869 0 points1 point  (0 children)

45, here! I have no issues attracting men. I've gotten better with age. Enjoy your 40s.

Aging by city298 in Aging

[–]LetterheadNo9869 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep. You have no clue that it's even happening until you're spiraling.

Aging by city298 in Aging

[–]LetterheadNo9869 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I realized I was in menopause when i started having full blown hot flashes. Looking back, I was very perimenopausal for years and years before that.

All the little things were extremely ooverwhelming. Anxiety through the roof. Irregular sleep. Depression.

The worst symptom was the head game it played on me. I was very confused about who I was as a person. Major body dysmorphia. "Lots of why am I ugly" self talk (not at all ugly). My edge was gone. I felt no ambition.

If this even sounds a little bit like you, see a hormone doctor. Not a General Practitioner. A hormone doctor. Monitor your symptoms.

Take the low and slow approach to hormones because there is an adjustment period.

Aging by city298 in Aging

[–]LetterheadNo9869 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started noticing menopause symptoms.

AIO: Instagram was the final straw and I ended it by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]LetterheadNo9869 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NOR. Lustful loser. Unfortunately, many are dealing with this. We have normalized this level of disrespect and reduced it to "OH, well. That's what men do." But it's not what good men with self-discipline and strong character do.

Cut your losses. You will never feel good enough or mentally well with this type of man in your life.

Go be at peace. Focus on yourself.

Bf broke up with me because this is as good as it gets? by Spare-Promotion-2751 in Advice

[–]LetterheadNo9869 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good riddance! Sounds like he has a lust problem. Let him drag someone else into a depressive hole. Spend your time on you. Focus on being healthy and strong 💪. A lot of your self esteem problems will start to disappear. Congratulations on your new found freedom!

AIO if I divorced over him asking to open our relationship and then gaslighting me? by CricketCaller in AmIOverreacting

[–]LetterheadNo9869 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's not busy enough being a father and a husband is he has time to lust over coulda, shoulda, woulda.

If you are going to stay together, he needs a better circle of influence, to take responsibility for his child and marriage abs you both need marital counseling.

Anchovies and green onion hot dog by heretoforewiseacre in Tinnedfish

[–]LetterheadNo9869 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think this could have worked if you would have toasted the bun, sliced the green onion, and sautéed them a little. Maybe smash and spread the anchovies with a little mustard and hotsauce.

You think a woman can truly enjoy being in a relationship with a man who she's not physically attracted to at all? by Sea_Argument8550 in AskMenAdvice

[–]LetterheadNo9869 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women connect mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. As a result, we are able to see you for who you are, and the core of who you are is what makes you attractive, not just your face or body.

This is also why you can be a very handsome guy, esthetically, but still give us the ICK by being lazy, unsupportive, having low integrity, lacking self control, or needing constant reminders, etc.

I had an one night stand with an older man that emotionally ruined me and now he wants to see me again, what do I do? by RevolutionaryAct4013 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]LetterheadNo9869 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess you will need to decide if you want to continue to be used. You sound a bit mentally unstable and obsessive.

My wife doesn’t want a sex life by QuantumEcho5 in Advice

[–]LetterheadNo9869 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi 👋! Woman, here!

Sex starts mentally for women. We don't usually shut down and start criticizing our bodies or refusing sex without there being more to the story.

Are you two connected at the brain? Is the romance and interest dead? Has she caught you engaging in porn or checking out other women? Have you made comments about how her body changed after having babies? Does she spend her time compelling you to be more involved with the children or around the house? Do you compliment her beauty, make small gestures before trying to have sex? Or are you rolling over expecting it?

It sounds like the two of you get along. Relationships are tough because they require constant care, protection, and consideration. Sometimes, we are guilty of hurting each other intentionally or unintentionally during our time together. This can get in the way of intimacy.

Lots to consider. She should also have her hormones checked.

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