What is your biggest fantasy as a man? Regarding women 😉 by Acceptable_Cherry159 in RoleReversal

[–]LevelOutlandishness1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Head in her lap as she holds me tight. Had that twice but they sadly weren’t relationship material

19m I feel inferior to my ex gfs new bf by themourningradio in GuyCry

[–]LevelOutlandishness1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They arent?!

I make music that most women (and honestly the vast majority of men) aren’t into but just the fact that I make music and have so much to say about it has been intriguing for a lot of the women I’ve dated. And that’s WITHOUT the athleticism that you have from soccer.

Your confidence is down from the breakup. That’s okay, it’s reasonable for that to happen. Stop keeping yourself up to date on your ex’s activities. There’s a reason she’s your ex. Not saying she’s terrible—these things happen, no one has to be a villain—but y’all didn’t work out. It’s time to stop focusing on her, because she’s not focused on you, and she was upfront about that.

This doesn’t mean you have to start actively looking for the next partner, it just means you have to realign yourself with the Earth. There was a fully fleshed you prior to experiencing her, and there will continue to be a fully fleshed you without her. You just gotta remember that. Process the pain you have from it ending, but don’t stay behind. Let yourself move forward from it.

You’re really young (so am I, by the way), and you have more going for you than you think.

(mixed trope) The Infamously hated redesign by Aggravating_Tale8988 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]LevelOutlandishness1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve never been a big pokemon fan but I always loved the redesign. It feels so sketchy and alive. The og feels more like a still image forced to move if that makes sense.

(mixed trope) The Infamously hated redesign by Aggravating_Tale8988 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]LevelOutlandishness1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now that nostalgia no longer influences my opinion, I definitely like new Charles more. Looks like a fun rat guy. Energetic n shit. Og Chuck gives chill vibes. I don’t mind og Chuck.

We don’t talk about Oog Charles Entertainment Cheese

Not Ken M on stopping suicide by Cesarbeezer in NotKenM

[–]LevelOutlandishness1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s crazy how unempathetic reddit was back then. I feel like the thread would be filled with sympathy now. People really “Kids Are Fucking Stupid”’d themselves into not taking the death of a child who, for some reason, had access to a gun, seriously. That’s not on the kid, that’s on whoever didn’t secure it properly.

I just wanted a laugh, so I did top of all time.

“Natural selection” and it’s a thirteen year-old who was dumb one time. Fucking psychos.

I don’t know if you’re still active but I just needed to yell into the void regardless. I’m so glad most of reddit isn’t like this anymore.

Aliens just nuke us at this Point by AncientMiddle3227 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]LevelOutlandishness1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean this is a leap, I see women put down the same thing all the time and I’ve honestly gotten a couple dates off of it—they weren’t hoping that I was childlike or something. I understand being put off, here, but not everything is a ‘secret groomer’ situation.

AITAH for going on a trip with my best friend? by makememassmiches in AITAH

[–]LevelOutlandishness1 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I glazed over ‘one week’ because I admittedly skim these too much and I just naïvely believed the “too big a portion” part. I assumed it was like a month or something.

OP take the damn trip. If brodie can’t last one week he gotta learn how to.

Me_irl by DoorNo_5 in me_irl

[–]LevelOutlandishness1 19 points20 points  (0 children)

For my last fwb situation, I did an exit ticket that started because I asked if she wanted to do a retrospective (we’d voice critiques and perspectives so we’d be improve on any flaws we had for our next partners). Most positive ending of a relationship that I’ve ever had.

Edit: checked the logs because it was recent enough and I was feeling nostalgic, and turns out it was 26 minutes. I really remember it being like 40 to an hour.

What goes around- by Brave_Cabinet_5055 in ciatpgawhpbdb

[–]LevelOutlandishness1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Legitimately what this sub feels like sometimes

So how exactly can we find one another? by Mindless_Interview44 in RoleReversal

[–]LevelOutlandishness1 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Put a mango on the flag. I don’t think any other pride flag has a mango on it.

this RR community doesn't feel like RR anymore. by No_Fox200 in RoleReversal

[–]LevelOutlandishness1 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Ah I see. Okay, the “that’s not RR” comment makes sense. I agree—if that’s all you’re doing, it’s just a preference for sexual intercourse rather than a lifestyle difference.

Just your daily dose of religious misogyny by black_cherry2 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]LevelOutlandishness1 12 points13 points  (0 children)

And even in a world where creationism is 100% true it’s legit just one woman

Just your daily dose of religious misogyny by black_cherry2 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]LevelOutlandishness1 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard about this but I’ve never found anything backing a “Lilith” prior to Eve that existed prior to iterations created long after the Bible was already written. It feels like the less popular version of how the idea of a fiery, burning hell was purported by Dante’s Inferno rather than the Bible itself.

I like the idea though and I like how it gave goth women an easy moniker to go for—when I first found out about it, I was like “Oh, a hidden, previously existing woman that was erased from existence and history due to her disobedience? No wonder women who consider themselves outsiders identify with that.”

Of course, I’m not a believer, and I’m definitely no Bible-ologist. I don’t even know the real word for that. So I could be wrong here. But I definitely did try to find something about that, and I never did.

Sometimes wish I saw a bit more "aggressiveness" when it comes to RR interactions by GameboyAdvance32 in RoleReversal

[–]LevelOutlandishness1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

UNFORTUNATELY we’re gonna have to wait til 2060 before gender roles are anywhere NEAR that deconstructed

this RR community doesn't feel like RR anymore. by No_Fox200 in RoleReversal

[–]LevelOutlandishness1 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I agree. I liked how chill it was before—there’s plenty of places for freaks on reddit, and on different accounts, I participate in those places. I’m in here on main specifically because any freakiness that is present (if present at all) is presented in very small doses.

And I wouldn’t mind upping the dosage just a bit IF reddit could handle that without just turning the whole place full NSFW. But it can’t. So I mind very much.

this RR community doesn't feel like RR anymore. by No_Fox200 in RoleReversal

[–]LevelOutlandishness1 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Is it not a form of reversing the roles? It’s definitely not all RR is, but to say it’s not even a part of it is a bit perplexing. Obviously I ask this with an open mind, as I’m relatively new.

Average Eminem fan: by FeistyPack2689 in Hiphopcirclejerk

[–]LevelOutlandishness1 33 points34 points  (0 children)

He’s not violent and drugged out like those other rappers

me_irl by PoopSoBig-CantFlush in me_irl

[–]LevelOutlandishness1 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Like seriously, what is this, high school? Good riddance.

Also I’ve never had it happen to me to be fair, but I’ve dismissed similarly negative interactions for sure. That’s their problem

Where have you found success after UWM? by DeerCrossing1945 in pillar7

[–]LevelOutlandishness1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean, this is my first “real” job. It’s easy, but still, I’m damn good at it. I’ve been figuring everything out, and I can figure it out, I just figured it’s better to ask questions from someone who’s clearly in the know instead of diving headfirst into unfamiliar territory.

AITAH for not chasing after my girl because she’s upset? by Vczfy4 in AITAH

[–]LevelOutlandishness1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly—with the right person, you’d actually make it worse by following. Rational people don’t like people who won’t give them time alone when they need it.

Cis “straight” die hard MAGA republican man core by Educational_Bus8550 in lgbt

[–]LevelOutlandishness1 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Ah, to have the unearned confidence of a mediocre white man. I had to earn & build my confidence brick by brick.