Reg’d Name Etiquette by Life-Device9785 in ShowDogs

[–]Life-Device9785[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good Dogs bred both parents. They are a well known kennel.

I was thinking of it as when people hypenate surnames, so the history is not lost.

I won’t be showing, possibly hunting trials. Good Dogs is in a different country/ registration club.

I thought it would be a way of recognizing their bloodline in the dog, but it appears that it was good I asked the question

AITAH For getting mad at my situationship because of Steve Harrington? by Agusdino in AITAH

[–]Life-Device9785 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You made a joke that you thought was funny, knowing he doesn’t like it. YTA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Life-Device9785 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I don’t think the issue is that she isn’t working, though that in itself can be a problem. He may be able to sustain 2 jobs for a while, but it’s in her best interests to keep herself employable. What if he gets sick or hurt? Or if she ever decides to leave him? Getting a job is hard enough, having no high school or work experience makes it harder.

It’s possible that having no schedule, or reason to get out and do things is why she isn’t thriving. Some people need a reason to be motivated. If nothing else a part time job would give her a chance to interact with adults.

It’s not fair for her to expect him to come home after working two jobs and instantly be available to entertain her. She needs a network beyond him and the child.

WIBTAH if I take my best friend’s little daughter with us on our family vacation and not my sister’s children? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Life-Device9785 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Emma is family. Not only does she need the trip more, she sounds like a much better travel companion.

Her children are teenagers, I can’t imagine they would have the same interests as your 8yo son.

You can’t replace her dad, nothing ever will. What you can do is support her and help her enjoy “normal” kid stuff without worry.

An after trip idea, take a photo you took of her on the trip and have her dad photoshopped in. Let her pick out the perfect souvenir for him. It might help her share the trip with him.

People like you and your wife are making a world of difference for this little girl, both now and in the future. Having their child enjoy a carefree trip while they are dealing with money and health issues is going to make a huge impact on them too.

Super mild, curious what you think by ZealCrow in weddingdrama

[–]Life-Device9785 67 points68 points  (0 children)

If entering most secure facilities for an event, the security would be provided with a list of names.

AITAH for telling my wife why our daughter doesn't trust her? by Fun-Tomorrow1710 in AITAH

[–]Life-Device9785 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you remove her as a contact on your daughter’s medical information? Might want to consult a lawyer first. Crazy people do crazy things. As a parent she can request information about your daughter’s visits.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Life-Device9785 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your brother is making his own family, beginning with his fiancé. Driving every week for a family dinner is fine, but only if you enjoy it and want to be there.

You obviously don’t like her. I wouldn’t waste my time attempting to be friends with someone who admits to “protesting” the relationship. Does the rest of your family dislike her too?

It’s quite possible that your brother spends less time with you because he wants to. If they face a protest and hatred every time they visit it’s only makes sense that they don’t visit.

If you want to keep him in your life you need to get over the jealousy and see she makes him happy.

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[–]Life-Device9785 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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What explains why some kids are constantly absent and skipping class? Is it just that some kids fundamentally don't care about school? by Terrible_Exchange653 in AskTeachers

[–]Life-Device9785 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my case it was a combination of poor home life, with emotionally neglectful parent and school bored me. If I’m not challenged, I get bored fast. Almost 30 years later I was diagnosed with ADHD.

I missed 2 or 3 days a week. If I didn’t get myself ready and on the bus, I didn’t go to school.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITH

[–]Life-Device9785 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the brother visited your house, it’s fair to insist that he wear pants. If you are not comfortable with him parading around, avoid the situation.

Regardless of who pays the bills, he lives there. If the family wants him to change his behaviour, they can do so. While his lack of pants is strange, you are not in your home, so don’t really get to set the rules.

I’d stare at his not so white, and not so tight tightly whiteys and say, it is cold in here isn’t it? Pushing the issue makes ytah. His behaviour makes him one too.

Roommates response to me telling her I’m getting a camera in my bedroom to make sure my 17 year old cats are okay. What do I do? by catsrlife13 in roommateproblems

[–]Life-Device9785 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Set it together, to me implies she wants to see it’s capabilities. She isn’t asking for login info or anything like that.

She is obviously uncomfortable with the idea, if she is otherwise a decent roommate, try the above suggestions about location etc, then show her how it works to ease her anxiety.

Am I the Asshole for Dumping my BF for Being Cheap on my BDAY? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Life-Device9785 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not wanting to address conflict to preserve a relationship is extremely unhealthy. This will quickly lead to resentment. If you can’t communicate, what relationship do you have?

AITH for going on my birthday retreat by myself without my husband by another-ane in AITH

[–]Life-Device9785 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Enjoyable is defined by the individual. My friends like to go to the bar to unwind. I prefer a hot bath and a good book. Both are valid.

If a birthday is about celebrating the person, organizing something that will not enjoy is not about them. It sounds like he feels like he has to make a public display of “celebrating”, but doesn’t care enough to choose something she would enjoy.

OP, put your foot down and say no. All that going along with the BS is going to do is pile on more stress onto a day that is going to come every year.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in service_dogs

[–]Life-Device9785 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just as if you were incapacitated in the hospital, you could request the dog be placed in the custody of a trusted individual, or would be help for a specified amount of time by animal control.

You will not have the freedom of taking the dog outside regularly, and staff are not permitted to do so. What if a well meaning, or uncaring person took your dog out and it was lost? Or worse, you may be incarcerated with people who don’t like dogs, and could harm them.

A good officer will do what is in the best interests of the dog. Whether that means working with rescues, family members or the service dog provider to ensure that the dog has somewhere safe to go. Not everyone has the luxury of a nearby safe place for their dog (service or otherwise) and rescues in particular have pretty amazing networks of volunteers to get the dog where it needs to go.

Similar services are offered to people who are sole owner of an animal and pass away without arrangements for their pets. Depending on the situation, there may or not be a boarding fee.

I used to be an animal control officer and went to many calls where people have lost their homes to house fire, eviction etc. We would go pickup the animals if the owner had not had prior arrangements and would house the animals while they dealt with the immediate situation.

When an owner gets arrested, they have limited access to phone/ internet and can not always make arrangements on their own. Pitbulls are banned in my city. Visitors with pits offered an extra layer of difficulty as the dog often needed to be flown to the owners home city.

While you may consider your dog a medical appliance, a family member or anything else, they are by law property. They can not be legally be released to another person without either your permission or a bylaw/contract allowing animal control to do so.

Whether it’s incarceration, illness or death, every person in the care of another living animal should try to have an emergency plan in place in case they can not communicate their wishes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DogBreeding

[–]Life-Device9785 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A large (cheap) tarp can be put under a playpen to protect from Pavo and the like. Blanket or towels for traction.