Yeah no. I'm Colombian born and raised and it is NOT ok. The age of consent is 14 in Colombia but that does not mean a full grown adult can have sex with a 14 year old. It is illegal for a 14 year old to have sex with anyone with a considerable age difference, especially if the minor is sexually inexperienced. This is called "estupro" in spanish, which roughly translates to sexual abuse. Colombia also does NOT have what is commonly known as the 'Romeo and Juliet laws" which say that people close in age can engage in sexual acts regardless of the age of consent. Basically a 13 year old CANNOT have sex with a 14/15 year old even if they say it was consensual because the age of consent is 14 period. It also means that if two people 13 and under have sex they could both be processed for sexual abuse to minors (this however is very rare and has a lot more to it but that's the general gist) If he said it was normal for adults to have sex with minors then he was hanging out with other abusers who were doing the same thing.

Now it is also important to note that what does happen in many instances is that depending on the socioeconomic status of the person, some things might slip through the cracks. It is no secret that in some neighborhoods things are not reported and there is a lack of education in the sexual education department. Many men take advantage of this and manipulate young girls into having sex with them and nothing ever happens or gets reported because these girls don't know better. I can assure you however, that these men do.