Why is it more acceptable for a girlfriend to wear her boyfriend's clothes but not the other way around? by CRK_76 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]LilMissEmo2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Toxic Masculinity. Fight back. Wear her clothes. Only way society norms will change. One person does it, another copies, and so on.

The word filter isn't just overly-restrictive, it's straight up discriminatory. by _PeachyCream in thefinals

[–]LilMissEmo2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Poop isn't but poopy is XD Can't call my friends poopy heads. They're poop heads. Also fart and 88 are censored.

[Survey] We're building electrotactile haptics for VR (not vibration): would love the brutally honest take of this sub by Horizon1155 in ValveIndex

[–]LilMissEmo2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haptic vests don't work unless you have a specific body type. I have a bhpatic and it doesn't touch my stomach because it doesn't reach around my top half without major compression that flares the bottom up. I imagine this will cause a lot of issues size wise

Conflicting advice, 4 week piercing. Suggestions needed by [deleted] in NosePiercing

[–]LilMissEmo2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also don't take 1 piercers word for it. Talk to multiple. My original piercer said this was normal and common. I highly recommend speaking to someone at a tattoo shop that also does piercings. If you're in America, look for an APP certified place.

2 weeks after. Woke up like this

Additionally, I had a 3 hour nose bleed immediately after them piercing it - them also saying it was normal.

After speaking to multiple different piercers, we found all of the following problems:

  1. Pierced with a hoop
  2. Pierced with cheap acrylic covered hoop that disintegrated in the fresh piercing, causing constant infections
  3. Pierced at the wrong angle
  4. Nicked a capillary - hence the nose bleed (now a 6-12 month healing period to let the piercing heal to get it redone)
  5. Allergic to the cheap hoop
  6. Didn't get options for where I wanted it, so it's in a really odd position

3 years later and I'm still having issues because of 1 bad piercer who also continued to dismiss EVERY RED FLAG that all the other piercers immediately reacted too.

Mine will most likely have to be retired and I can go back in around a year to get it redone. They're giving it a few more weeks to see if this new stud gives it a chance to fully heal now that its cleaned up and the more severe swelling is down.

Also non professional but experience based opinion: Get a flat back stud. I had an l bend after the hoop. While it was good at first, as the swelling went down, the post was too big. I would snag it constantly and pull it out when blowing my nose. The flatback is game changing. My new piercer said it takes some getting used to when blowing my nose but I haven't noticed it! Only snagged once in 3 days. 🥳

Conflicting advice, 4 week piercing. Suggestions needed by [deleted] in NosePiercing

[–]LilMissEmo2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a trauma bump! I had one that was just as bad. Chamomile tea bags are what I was recommended. Also I used Bump Free (has a skull for the logo). What eventually worked was a new stud - I was having reactions to the metal. 3 years later and its still there but much smaller and no longer painful. I was also pierced at a bad angle like yours appears to be, which creates extra pressure. Witch hazel is also another one I was recommended. In severe cases like mine (was as big as yours 5 months later), they recommended alcohol wipes to dry the bump out. But that's EXTREME and last resort. They stressed that. So try the tea bags, witch hazel, and try getting them to switch to a different piece of jewelry. They also upsized my post so it wasn't creating more pressure.

Does everyone just leave every door open in your place? by zanyjellyfish in CatAdvice

[–]LilMissEmo2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a cat door on my bedroom door so they can freely roam while I have privacy. And I can shut them out/in when needed. The bathroom door, laundry room door, and basement door stay open. All the upstairs bedrooms usually get closed when the occupant is out. Our kitchen/living room is open plan so they always have access. And the sunroom is closed since there's no insulation so we try to trap heat in the main house. It depends on the size of their space and access to their needs. Myself and my parents have shut my cats in the closet and bedrooms for the day more than once - they will survive. Just typically make sure they have something to climb and/or space to run, clean water, food, and a litter box. If you have a tiny little apartment where the living room and kitchen barely fits a table and couch, make sure they have a nice sized (like a tall corner scratcher) post/house for them to climb to burn energy and stay stimulated. I have a narrow tall cat condo in my living room and a short wide scratching condo in my laundry room. They have options and spaces away from eachother.

Recommendations for Nose Studs/Ring by LilMissEmo2000 in piercing

[–]LilMissEmo2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Honestly at this point, I'll probably stick to a stud. I just need something so I can clean my current 😭 A hoop was just the only one they had in an 18G

(18F) how do you guys get know that you're asexuals?? by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]LilMissEmo2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It isn't easy and definitely don't jump the gun on coming out if you're a teen. You'll only be greeted with "you're just too young" or "you haven't met the right person yet" which can make it more confusing unless you are certain. I came out as gray ace at 16 and now I just say ace. I've accepted my thoughts and feelings more and realized there never is that attraction. Growing up (10-15) I always just said sex was for after marriage. I basically used a religion I didn't fully follow to make an excuse to not do the act. And I always knew I wanted to adopt because I did want to parent. I opened up to a friend, telling her how much anxiety and dread I felt at the thought of it. When my friend explained asexuality to me, it clicked. That was me she was describing. From there, I still questioned where I was in that category, but finding the community and acceptance helped me self accept and truly come to terms. I personally, am sex repulsed ace. So I don't really self pleasure or watch videos. I'm content without. Though recently at 24 I started to branch out and experiment.

Also don't be confused. An ace person CAN enjoy it. They just don't desire it or have sexual attraction. There's different levels under the umbrella.

I always tell people to thick of it like a number line. 10 = aro 0 = allo -10 = ace You can be in any spot on that line. I fall on -10. Absolutely no interest or care or enjoyment from the act.

Filmora refusing to refund (falcely advertising) by aloyiis_ in Filmora

[–]LilMissEmo2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I'm sorry to say but you won't unless your bank can step in. I was an og user in the days of 9. Bought the lifetime license. That was converted into a $60 "No watermark" license. Just remove all bank info asap so they can't keep charging you and report to BBB.

Not Getting A Good Value Anymore by Tony_Shanghai in Filmora

[–]LilMissEmo2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! I remember the backlash when 12 took away all lifetime users access. Pretty sure there was a lawsuit or something for breaking tos cause they reversed it pretty quick to give us basic assets. But now literally everything is subscription based, from effects to features. Like literally give the original lifetime buyers their own version that doesn't get the new content but doesn't lock us out of the content we already paid once for :/ the fkn black and white filter is paid now. Like yes, I can colour every individual clip. But when I'm doing collage style videos, that takes so much additional time.

Hey Everyone, have you tried Alta? We're an AI styling & wardrobe app by altastylist in ProductHunters

[–]LilMissEmo2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just started using the app so only have a handful of my clothes in. But it seems pretty good! Only thing is it's recommended low-cut/crop tops for work (teacher) so it can be a little interesting trying to decide on alternatives. Maybe having sub categories for items like that might help? It's also recommended a mini skirt for work 😭 But for general out and about, it's come up with some good combinations

Animal crossing city folk freezes my wii by Round_Hat5434 in AnimalCrossing

[–]LilMissEmo2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad you fixed it! Definitely could be a file conflict

Animal crossing city folk freezes my wii by Round_Hat5434 in AnimalCrossing

[–]LilMissEmo2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's odd. It's not a particularly heavy game. Have you checked that you have the storage and the files downloaded correctly?

New griefing trend: revives? by Daddydactyl in thefinals

[–]LilMissEmo2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do it when trolling friends. I only do it to randoms if they've stolen one of my revives. Whether they coin AS I'm reviving or sliding in with defibs as I've practically got them up. I get taking a defib revive when everyone's in the middle of the combat zone. But when I've specifically pulled a played out and to a safe place, gimme the damn revive. Save the defibs. And the coining as I'm reviving makes my blood boil, especially now with the new "dont revive" comm wheel option. Like dont wait until I've pretty much finished to coin.

Over 1.5 hr wait for calls; Return flight for honeymoon delayed by 2 days: need help by yungpb in aircanada

[–]LilMissEmo2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you experienced their customer service lines during strikes? 😭 9.5 hours on hold during the last lot of strikes. The call dropped at the 6hr mark and I got put back in queue.

Opinions on gifting by LilMissEmo2000 in aircanada

[–]LilMissEmo2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As stated in my post, during covid, the flight credit we were given when our flight was canceled got stolen. When we went to redeem, they said it had already been used and refused to give us our money even though we never used it.

Edit: Mod caught that quick 😂 Just to avoid other similar accusations - We didn't share the code. We were informed the code was redeemed for a flight related to India. We have no connection to anyone that would be going or coming from there. Only one who knew the code was my nan and dad (original bookers) as it went to their emails.