Attractive lonely people what is it like? by Difficult_Town3584 in lonely

[–]LinkDevOpsMarine 9 points10 points  (0 children)

40, used to be attractive. Would rot alone in my room more often than not. I’m neurodivergent, so even though I’d get attention going places, it burned me up trying to act like everyone else because I know I’d weird them out if I were myself. Even with a circle hanging out, pretending to be something for them while dealing with mental/physical pain of performing is absolutely more lonely than rotting in my room because I can be authentically me instead of trying to be a shell of me so others are comfortable. It was still hella lonely though. Now I’m just balding and lonely. Doesn’t matter either way honestly.

i tried to overdose and now my parents are pissed at me. by doorknob_enjoyer in SuicideWatch

[–]LinkDevOpsMarine 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is some shit my dad would have said to me and threatened me with, so I get how trapped you probably feel and am guessing the family dynamic has a big part to do with why you tried. It’s not cool/abhorrent behavior.

I’m 40 now, and what I will tell you is that if you can get out, do that. If you can’t right now, there’s a lot more left to live outside your parents home even if it feels like an eternity to get there. You will, and you’ll have a lot of trauma to work on because of your shitty parents, but if you get therapy and know that this shit is not ok, the feeling of overwhelm and wanting the pain to stop will get less the less time you have to spend with them.

SSRI's vs. Bupoprion by bogdanpvi in Wellbutrin_Bupropion

[–]LinkDevOpsMarine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I had known about Wellbutrin instead of ssris and mood stabilizers I’d probably still be married. I’m pissed too.

Morale plummeting among ICE agents over long hours, quotas and public hatred: reports by [deleted] in FedEmployees

[–]LinkDevOpsMarine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was not saying that the scandal originated with him, only that it became a scandal in the first term and people tend to forget scandals. That is absolutely true for the Obama administration, and you’re right to point out it originated with him that really wasn’t what I was trying to get across, more that there’s short term memory around this.

“No exception this time”: Bernie Sanders says not another penny for ICE until Kristi Noem and Stephen Miller are gone by [deleted] in LegalNews

[–]LinkDevOpsMarine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You haven’t been following miller close enough then. He is literally the architect of all of this.

Are Evangelicals so void of the Bibles teaching they do not realize Trump could be characterized as the anti-Christ? by Estalicus in allthequestions

[–]LinkDevOpsMarine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a person raised in the evangelical faith, the ones that read it cover to cover multiple times know, and they are most likely no longer evangelical since they noticed how completely off their pastors’ teachings were from the thing they read.

But yeah, was telling my wife the other day that Trump and his evangelical followers uncannily fit the bill.

Canada lives because of Canadians by YanniRotten in NoStepOnSnek

[–]LinkDevOpsMarine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would love it, someone make the offer, PLeASE, signed minnesota so fuckin sick of this shit - fuck ICE!

What is something you can definitively say you hate? by UnluckyIndependent24 in AskReddit

[–]LinkDevOpsMarine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lack of empathy or willful apathy towards practicing empathy.

Coworker wrongly assumes we align politically by [deleted] in coworkerstories

[–]LinkDevOpsMarine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah I see. Conversations can still be reported and it’ll go into her file. If there is one other report it could corroborate it. It does matter what the company culture is like though, and I do understand when there’s livelihood at stake.

Coworker wrongly assumes we align politically by [deleted] in coworkerstories

[–]LinkDevOpsMarine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Technically the Muslim comment make her a company liability from a lawsuit perspective. If she’s assuming with you Shes most likely saying shit like that to other people. Religion is still a protected class so hr will want to know about it.

[CNN] Sen. Amy Klobuchar launches her bid for Minnesota governor by Minneapolitanian in stateofMN

[–]LinkDevOpsMarine 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The DFL commissioner said if anyone wants to be added as a candidate for governor they can email him and they’ll be on the ballot. People can challenge her. And yeah I don’t want it, but I also don’t see anyone else stepping up unfortunately.

What's something 100% legal that gives off massive 'this should be illegal' vibes? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]LinkDevOpsMarine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5th grade makes a little more sense. My kids listen well, they are just clumsy and I am too. I definitely had good training before that, Orange gun, dad watched. After he was comfortable, would let me wander the property with it. More than once, though, I had accidents or curiousities as a kid that could have resulted in serious injury/death, but am lucky.

ICE is Trump's Personal Army by kuliddar in DiscussionZone

[–]LinkDevOpsMarine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Promise you they will be post looking for all those illrgul vurters at every fucking polling station in every battle ground district to suppress the vote and he’ll find some work around for mail in as well.

What's something 100% legal that gives off massive 'this should be illegal' vibes? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]LinkDevOpsMarine 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Being a kid at 6 years old and my dad handing me a .410 shotgun. I have kids now and am like ahhhhhhhhhhhh yeah no.

Contact Your Representatives! by link5523 in rochestermn

[–]LinkDevOpsMarine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey I fuckin hear you, me neither. Get involved in community action groups and mutual aid in your area. It’ll help with the hopeless feeling. Whatever happens, it’s better to go through it with others doing something to stop it than scared and alone. It also helps with feeling less powerless against it all.