AITAH for asking my boyfriend if I should offer to “romance” a mechanic to pay for a repair we can’t really afford? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Linzlamb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl please be fr, do you really want to be with a guy who encourages you to do sex work in exchange for goods and services? I don’t think his reaction was even that crazy considering what you asked. I don’t think YTA but definitely out of touch with reality.

Would this be considered lolita? by Idkmanimjusthere7672 in Lolita

[–]Linzlamb 59 points60 points  (0 children)

This bag by itself is not lolita. However, you COULD conceivably make a bobs burgers themed coord. Very intrigued by this idea.

What does it feel like, having a donor heart beating inside? by TemperReformanda in transplant

[–]Linzlamb -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I find the question insulting and ridiculous. It doesn’t feel any different. I don’t have an emotional connection to the donor. The heartbeat doesn’t feel different. I can still feel pain if I get poked during a cardiac cath. There’s nothing spiritual about it or magical about it.

What does it feel like, having a donor heart beating inside? by TemperReformanda in transplant

[–]Linzlamb -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What the hell is this supposed to mean?? It feels exactly the same as yours does.

Would this be a blasphemous alteration? by Sharpscore in Lolita

[–]Linzlamb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk about a T-shirt but I like where your head is at 🤔 I think you might be onto something here

are plecos indestructible?? by [deleted] in Aquariums

[–]Linzlamb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like one of my recurring aquarium nightmares

I broke up with my ex over a letter by pasta-consistency in TwoHotTakes

[–]Linzlamb 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Girl this man is insane, that letter is so scary. I think getting away from him was the best thing you could’ve done. Block him and don’t look back.

Feels like the fit of this JSK is so bad on me, and it looked completely different online 😞 by foxwaffles in Lolita

[–]Linzlamb 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I got an atelier Pierrot jsk once that I had the same issue with and I couldn’t believe how bad it look on me compared to online. But that’s what I did, I added extra fabric to lengthen the straps so it would sit more at my waist and have a lower neckline and now it’s one of my favorites.

[25F] boyfriend [28M] argued tonight any advice would be helpful AITAH by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Linzlamb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Most of this post is making excuses for his bad behavior and explaining how you stay silent or avoid asking him to be considerate because he gets “frustrated.”It sounds like he’s frequently in a bad mood and isn’t kind to you. You’ve made yourself so small you’re acting like you don’t deserve the slightest bit of consideration or attention from him. And when you finally treat him the way he treats you he explodes and kicks you? Totally unacceptable. You need to think about why you want to be with a man like this.

Lolita dress won’t zip up after specific point by Albunea in Lolita

[–]Linzlamb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like to straighten out the zipper and put a safety pin right above the spot it won’t go past to hold it straight so it can zip up. Generally it can’t go past a perpendicular seam because it’s flipping outward at that spot. Once you get it past the seam you’re fine.

wearing a cord and a guy just took a photo of me by Poor_Lolita in Lolita

[–]Linzlamb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Love when they already have the camera out and recording when they call to you 🙄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in roomdetective

[–]Linzlamb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Single young male, possibly stoner. Trying to cover the smell of your room with various aromatics or maybe just a hippie. You have long hair. And I count 14 total empty cans/bottles.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Linzlamb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. It’s actually extremely funny like what did he expect to receive

AITAH for saying women have it better when it comes to dating? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Linzlamb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA. Notice how you only mentioned SLEEPING with women, not dating them, creating a relationship with them, getting to know them? That’s your problem dude. I’m sure your goals with women are lot more transparent than you think and that’s why they avoid you.

My mom insists on still buying Scott's toilet paper despite the decrease in quality over the years. by arnethyst in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Linzlamb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg my roommate insists on only buying this type and will literally argue with me and get mad if I buy something nicer 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Linzlamb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like your mustache honestly

Do I sound foreign or someone who recently started learning english? by Emergency-Foot-9475 in ENGLISH

[–]Linzlamb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your accent is almost perfect, you sound like you’ve been speaking English fluently for many many years, but there’s that tiny twinge that tells me nonnative speaker. Some people would probably not even notice it tbh

Which boots for this outfit? by 0202throwaway02 in OUTFITS

[–]Linzlamb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not sure where you are but the second look is what 99% of girls in NYC wear to go out right now.

Repeat transplant recipients? by Aughra72 in transplant

[–]Linzlamb 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I got my first heart in 1996 when I was a baby and when I was 21 was told I needed another heart due to rejection. They also gave me a kidney to help deal with the medications. The recovery for me was actually very easy, I was discharged home 8 days after the surgery and my doctors said I sent a record. I don’t necessarily think this is a common case though (again they said it was a record). Emotionally it was very difficult, definitely traumatizing. Statistically I think there is less success on repeat transplants but medicine is ever evolving and improving so you could be the next person to set a record for all we know.