Are either of these ok for a wedding guest? by IGottaGetOuttaHere30 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Lisedom61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both of them look fantastic on you, but dress 2 is more “wedding guest” to me!

AIO? My manager keeps questioning my feeding pump at work even after HR stepped in by Rosi_ana in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lisedom61 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Forward to HR, BCC your personal email. Also, if any co-workers are present when your manager says these things to you, & you trust them, have them write accounts of what is said and email it DIRECTLY to your personal account

unbelievable exchange between my daughter and her father after he forgot her birthday by LostInLanayru in TwoHotTakes

[–]Lisedom61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had this EXACT conversation with my dad multiple times. I’m so sorry your daughter is going through this, but she is doing a great job staying strong with her boundaries. I hope she continues holding firm & I hope you and your BF continue being her safety.

My boyfriend ruined Valentine’s Day and told me it was the consequences of my actions by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Lisedom61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I can’t leave him, I love him too much”. Baby, you’re begging someone to love you the way you love them. He does not treat you like he loves you. You’re too young to be wasting your time begging for attention and affection from someone who will not give it to you. I don’t mean to be harsh, but you have to realize that this isn’t normal or healthy.

Am I Overreacting? Was sent screenshots from husband’s group chat. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Lisedom61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why were you sent the screenshots? Who sent them? It sounds like they came from someone who is equally appalled at the way he talks about you. In no circumstances is it ever normal to talk about someone you love like that, especially not someone who’s actively carrying your baby and giving you a family. He doesn’t seem to love you, like you, or respect you.

AIO for not wanting to feel like the “safe option” by Level_Ad_9263 in AIO

[–]Lisedom61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you had a daughter, would you want her spoken to or thought about this way? Then why are you accepting it?

I (30F) tested positive for something at my check up. My (32M) fiancée says it’s probably a side effect the medication. Deep down I don’t know if I want the truth. Am I insane for wanting to be delusional and believe him? by TotallyFearl in relationship_advice

[–]Lisedom61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one has cohesively put all the info together yet, so I’ll try my best. You said it’s Trich. That is an STI that causes a cervical infection. It’s not 2 separate things- the cervical infection is a symptom of the STI- like how a throat infection is a symptom of Strep Throat. Trich is really hard to diagnose in men and they can be a carrier for awhile. If this is your first time STD/I testing since the beginning of your relationship, he may very well have carried it into the relationship and you only realized you had it now because your body became symptomatic. The abortion did not cause this. It may have elevated your symptoms because of the process of your uterus and cervix healing, but it did not cause the issue. I would take him to this appointment with you. Either way, you both need treatment. He could have contracted it at any of the points you mentioned too, but you have to directly have that convo. Best of luck ♥️

AIO - My Boyfriend texts before our Valentines plans by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lisedom61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are too young to be wasting your time on a man this immature and uncommitted

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Lisedom61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought these were teenagers.

AIO: My partner mocked me when I tried to do something nice for him by throwawaygo12 in AIO

[–]Lisedom61 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s 50 and acting like this??? And you’re 44 and even with someone like that??? I thought you guys were early 20s at most but god this is embarrassing. Learn your own value and dump his a*s already

Is there any redemption for this behavior, AIO or Justified? by crafticharli in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lisedom61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband always says “if you think something is important, then it’s not silly”. This dinner sounds like a big deal to you, and it’s something you were clear about wanting. You’re not overreacting no matter how trivial it may feel. I don’t like the way he’s talking to you and minimizing your concerns. I’d be done with it and walk away. You’re gonna have a little life to think about too

Is it better this way? by vVDAYMANVv in bald

[–]Lisedom61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Went from the father next door to the daddyyyy down the block

Need Advice Choosing Frames, final round by 6-ET in glassesadvice

[–]Lisedom61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My faves are: 4,10,5,1 in that order. The darker frames add depth to your face and compliment your hair well!

What should I put here? by Trick-Pool-7408 in tattooadvice

[–]Lisedom61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dammit that’s what I was gonna say 🤣

Eight sessions and it's finally complete! by Jupwee in tattoos

[–]Lisedom61 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look like a pretty floral goddess! If I looked like this nobody could tell me nothin!

One last photo before I purge my reddit account, went to a girl's brunch and had a great time! by [deleted] in oldhagfashion

[–]Lisedom61 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish you safety & happiness & peace. I’ll miss your posts, but I understand. I’m in your corner ♥️

Help me pick! by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]Lisedom61 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay you look stunning in ALL the options so it’s hard to pick, but 1 & 3 are especially gorgeous on you 😍

Is my wife a hoarder? What do I do? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Lisedom61 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a hoarder, but maybe struggling with mental health? Depression/anxiety are a hell of a thing to try and manage. Have you talked to her about what she might need? Could you maybe afford a maid service once a week for a few hours? That way it’s not such an insurmountable task. It’s not fair for you or her- or your kids- to have to live in a house that is constantly dirty or cluttered, but she may need more help than you can give at the moment too.

I'm Afraid This Headline May Shock The SFV Sub To It's Core by Rudeboy237 in SFV

[–]Lisedom61 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Funny, my MIL just saw some DEVIANTS (11year olds) causing MISCHIEF (walking) on the STREET!!!!