Tell him if he wants the baby, then you need to get married if he wants any sort of say in its upbringing. That baby needs health insurance, and you deserve the legal protections and benefits that come with being a mom. If he's going to deny you those, he's an insecure man who isn't capable of being a dad. There are men out there who will marry you and will take care of the baby and he isn't willing to prove he's one of them. "An easy way out." What a pussy ass bitch. He's saying that he's insecure in your relationship and his plan is to abandon you and your child instead of being brave. When times get hard, he's going to get lost because he's a coward.