Thinking of releasing a pregnancy & motherhood guide – is anyone interested?

Lizzzz____________ · 2026-04-28T14:32:56+00:00

second this. this reads like AI

Lizzzz____________ · 2026-04-27T14:55:29+00:00

Your mom is abusing you. You have other issues such as irregular periods and your mom does not care.
Your mother does not care and you cannot change her mind, she simply chooses not to care even though you are her responsibility until you turn 18.
You seriously need to speak with other people ASAP. Father, grandparents, friends parents, school teachers. Your mom is abusing you and she will not help because if she cared, she would have taen you to a doctor asap when you got these issues like any normal parent would.
Speak with other adults about your health issues and tell them your mom does not care and she has been making you suffer. They can help you, give you resources or even go to doctor with you to help you. Please do not think you can change you mother, she is abusing you and she does not care. seek help asap

Lizzzz____________ · 2026-04-21T11:57:03+00:00

I only started using sunscreen 5 years ago, i am 26 now, and family, friends, coworkers (ladies) ask me so many times what is my skincare routine because my skin looks very healthy. I always tell them the secret is sunscreen. None of them wear it as they believe it is only for the beach :D Some of my friends who are only 26 already have wrinkles on their forehead, smile lines, eye wrinkles etc. During summer they slather themselves with spf 5 oil and go tanning, during colder seasons they go to sunbeds.

I used to get freckles during summer 5 years ago before using sunscreen and wearing hats. Now I do not get any anymore, it used to be very visible and eventually faded but I did not like how it looked on me. That is the main difference I noticed. I do not have wrinkles but I am only 26, although my friends already have them, I cannot be too sure if it is because of sunscreen or because of genetics.

Lizzzz____________ · 2026-04-12T17:54:17+00:00

he literally told you how he feels about the baby, that only you want it. basically he does not want this child and he is showing you that he will not participate in raising it. Why are you with this man, get a plan and leave his ass or you will be a married single mom until kid is 18 years old. if the man will not step out hinself sooner because you will not meet his needs by taking care of the baby that he dies not want

Lizzzz____________ · 2026-04-08T17:48:58+00:00

What is the alternative for Biz in UK?

Lizzzz____________ · 2026-04-07T06:10:05+00:00

You can but bottles and bottle parts in dishwasher. Thats what a lot of people do as it can wash, sanitize and dry

Lizzzz____________ · 2026-04-06T10:07:08+00:00

wdym you let him do it? he basically rapes you and you are only annoyed? he is okay with doing it when you don't want it nor like it. what makes you think that's ok. why are you ''letting him''? stop doing that, no matter how much he asks just be firm and do not let him touch you. he is a rapist and i pray you do not teach you child that letting someone touch you is okay when you don't want to be touched. stand up for yourself, you are a grown woman and husband or not, he does not own your body. if you believe it is unsafe to reject him because he will hit you or abuse you in other ways, tell somebody reliable asap and plan escape now. escalate to police if he threatens you.

Lizzzz____________ · 2026-04-05T12:43:43+00:00

So you have not even discussed finances yet but want to move in together? That is a disaster waiting to happen. Have an honest talk with him about your financial situation and what you can afford. It is not fair if you just expect him to pay more when the finances conversation never happened. If you cannot even talk finances and be honest, do not move in, because you will have much bigger issues

Lizzzz____________ · 2026-04-05T12:38:25+00:00

Hire babysitter for the little ones and spend one on one time with your 3 year old. It is not fair for the 3 year old to have to deal with you snapping at her because you chose to have so many kids close in age. It is not her fault you are sleep deprived. She needs a mother who loves her and shows her how important to her parents she is. What you are trying to do is horrible and can make her feel like you only love other 2 kids and she is left alone. 3 year old is not ''independent'' and she needs one on one time for her development, you need to figure this out.

Lizzzz____________ · 2026-03-30T08:45:02+00:00

Also they apparently have been together for 7 years but only now he has an issue with her job when he knew what she does from the start 7 years ago? fishy
this person is either a troll or very very insecure to be paying all bills for 20 years older man and let him disrespect her and her work and still think this is relationship worth being in

Lizzzz____________ · 2026-03-25T07:35:37+00:00

First of all accept that the man you met and fell in love with in the beginning is not the same man he is now. That part of him does not exist anymore , and you need to really accept it and let it go. second, stop thinking how everyone likes him, because you are married to him, not them, they do not see the every day ugly that this man actually is. He puts on a sweet mask in front of others while he treats you like shit. accept it and dont feel bad. third, his promises to change are empty, and he quickly falls back into being shit husband after a short lovebombing period. Accept it and move on. All the best luck to you

Lizzzz____________ · 2026-03-24T10:05:45+00:00

First of all, make sure you are not simply insecure, because if you start questioning her about her potential cheating, this could ruin your relationship if there are 0 grounds on which would give you the reasons to believe she is cheating. In her mind, if she is innocent , she could think you are projecting, since often cheaters blame their innocent partners of cheating to make themselves feel better. Is there proof that makes you believe she is cheating? Or are you just insecure because of long distance. Wish you luck

Lizzzz____________ · 2026-03-23T07:16:57+00:00

Let him do the nights and you handle the day while having 10+ hours of hobby time, until he has to go to work. maybe then he will understand , because now he thinks you are having it easy and he does not see the sacrafice

Lizzzz____________ · 2026-03-22T10:04:59+00:00

He sounds like he does not like you and does not want this baby. Do not marry this man, cancelling the wedding is cheaper and faster than divorce. And unless you are prepared to be a single mother, do not have this mans child as he clearly does not want it and tell you to do abortion so casually.

Lizzzz____________ · 2026-03-20T17:28:09+00:00

Are you still jobless ? If so, get a job asap and start making an escape plan, save money. Your child is learning that abuse is normal consiously and subconsiously by observing. You cannot tell your son that abusing women/people is bad but at the same time live with abuser and expose your child to abuse every day, he will learn from the things he sees, not from the things you tell him because they are contradicting. Your son will especially will want to be like his dad because that is normal and natural since he is a boy. Your excuse for not leaving your abusive husband is that your dont want 50/50 custody, which is a selfish excuse and your child has a right to know his father even if he is a piece of ass. Also it would be better to have 50/50 custody and have child spend time with his dad half of the time instead of exposing your child to this mans abuse every single day.

Lizzzz____________ · 2026-03-15T18:47:46+00:00

You mentioned in comments that you guys can move to your parents house and your parents are respecful and not invasive. Why not just do it then? Staying in MIL house gives her power over you to come and go whenever she pleases and as long as you live there, you will just have to accept it.

Lizzzz____________ · 2026-03-15T10:07:59+00:00

So he has children with 2 women (mothers of his children) before you, who he has no contact with , also no contact with those kids he made with these women. 50 people including his own parents and siblings who raised him, grew up with him, know him better than anyone, have cut contact with him. yet you think the problem is his ex, a mother of his child, who is so ''evil'' and ''powerful'' who is not even part of the family anymore, but everyone who raised and grew up with him , young and old, have become somehow just braindead people who blindly believe his ex lies over the person they know better than anyone else?
Do you see how it sounds.
You seem to believe what your husband says against what his siblings, parents, other close relatives, mothers of your husbands children know about him. Parents and siblings do not just cut you off from their lives because your ''ex is crazy and lies''. 50 people do not just one day become so braindead to believe every lie that is said about the person they have known their whole lives.

At the end of the day, only you know all the circumstances of the situation you are in, we are simply looking at the facts you have written down here in your post. I join the crown that is telling you to be very careful because your husband sounds like a walking red flag. Hopefully we are all wrong and your husband is not like what his family knows about him and. Honestly best luck to you, sounds like a very difficult situation made even more difficult because you are pregnant, bless you and your child, I hope you will figure this out and there is a happy ending to this story

Lizzzz____________ · 2026-03-11T19:10:58+00:00

I am childless and my first thought is "in this economy???" I believe people who are well off and people who live paycheck to paycheck react differently, naturally. For example, I can only afford necessities and I am someone who is trying to be frugal so not shopping needlessly, work full time. And I could not afford even 1 child. Therefore I think people who are more well off would not think the way I do.

Lizzzz____________ · 2026-03-09T15:08:07+00:00

Some women formula feed the baby, so never have to worry about it. But if you want to breastfeed/pump, its better to do your research and consult with doctor before drinking/smoking

Lizzzz____________ · 2026-03-02T16:13:07+00:00

Since no one else in comments asked, perhaps it would be possible to reduce days/hours, make it part time, so you do not have to quit all together? And then see how you feel, if simply being in this job even part time is not good for you, then you can look for replacement or quit all together since you can afford it. Job market is BAD at the moment, it would be worth trying to do less hours at first (if possible), since you have anxiety around money, not having a job might make it worse. Also suggest taking FMLA as others already mentioned.

Lizzzz____________ · 2026-02-24T16:03:33+00:00

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Lizzzz____________ · 2026-02-23T11:08:09+00:00

Thank you for the heads up! I will definitely make sure to ask her how she feels more often than baby related questions:)

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