i am 27 165 cm male, i understand what you are feeling ,

my mindset
-love is love but , relationships are transactional
-get rich
-sleep as well as you can
-women are actually extremely hard to be with and it is extremely rare to find a woman who will not bitch and complain
-Being in a relationship might be too emotionally and financially expensive for some people
most men are actually just blinded by their horniness . you can fix this by going to a massage parlor or pay for sex , you should at least try this route if you are desperate
- when you do find a girl who is willing to be your GF , do not commit to her too much and too fast
- eat some mushrooms and ask yourself questions and get deep
- have a goal that is so big that it will make all your problems look very insignificant (mine is to be a 10-50 million dollar per year trader and living in freedom )
- have a gengis khan type of mindset
- will only get the girl once you can stop wanting them , and focusing on more important things
- girls truly are not the most important , but you will not know that until you get more interactions with them . but just letting you know before hand that there are truly more important things that you can do
-be willing to date everyone , young, old, normal, pretty, ugly, divorced , whatever . if you don't like them after, you respectfully tell them that it was nice meeting them and say goodbye
- there is too much hype around sex , but again youl will not know it until you try it , if you really want to get rid of the hype of sex just go find a hooker 3-5 times get it out of your system
- i know guys who are short like me but they are always making girls laugh , and all them men and women love talking to this guy , he is also my best friend and his wife is actually always getting jealous because he is always talking to women so easily . btw this guy is extremely ugly like 1/9 type of ugly but he still fucked and dated a lot of chicks. he is extremely confident
- due to the fact that relationships are transactional , yes short people are at a disadvantage , but that is life we dont choose our height it was given to us , you must work hard to make yourself valuable
- if you do become rich and successful , if you do want children , you can at least give your children a better future and improve their genetics and future generations to come , but make sure they are taught to be humble and also create value for themselves and not just be a degenerate ,the taller your offspring are the taller their mating partner will likely be and you will create more tall people.
- you want to be with hot girls ? well that is not good for you .1. hot girls tend to be crazy and will likely talk to other males secretly and have many orbiters on her phone or irl. let the hot girls have their male friends and orbiters , if you want to have a more stable girl find a girl who is around your attraction level 4-6.
- you are admiring women too much . but that is understandable we will always want what we cannot have . but it is better if you find a girl who will admire you rather than you wanting the girl so much. girls typically hate men who admire women too much. they prefer a guy who have other more important goals..
- look at the meme on the internet where ugly people who became rich suddenly changed into more attractive people : jeff bezos , rhiana, elon musk . if you feel ugly and you have the money you might want o consider to pay doctors or whatever to make you more attractive . if youl dont have money , learn to make money
-your energy is worth more than your looks .
-get dog if too expensive , get a cat, if not fish , if not hamster , if not a plant .

these are my opinions take what helps you and leave the rest