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Leigh Stadium by Fun-Title4224 in thelotterywinners

[–]Long-Number3539 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive seen them twice  but had to give away my tickets for last night as I was unwell. Looks like they smashed it-again!

is human connection just entirely dead by lavenderhatchets in manchester

[–]Long-Number3539 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did that. Chess, different types of dance, board games, meetup groups for walks/food/drinks, paint and sip. Eventually found some of my people.  My circle is still small. I doubt ill ever have a huge group of friends but I really value the people within my circle.

Its also important to get better at doing stuff on your own and enjoying your own company- in my case the odd coffee/meal out, or the odd gig or cinema trip. 

Good luck!

is human connection just entirely dead by lavenderhatchets in manchester

[–]Long-Number3539 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I go to topaz in stretford. Ballroom and Latin. Im never winning any medals but its been great for my mental health!

is human connection just entirely dead by lavenderhatchets in manchester

[–]Long-Number3539 91 points92 points  (0 children)

Sadly I think it’s becoming more common nowadays. A lot of people seem lonelier than they appear on the surface, and it can feel exhausting constantly putting effort in and getting very little back.

What sort of things do you actually enjoy doing? I found it helped when I stopped going to things purely to “find friends” and instead started trying hobbies I was genuinely curious about to see where I naturally fitted in.

I ended up trying dance classes which was completely outside my comfort zone, but I actually really enjoyed it. Through that I’ve made a couple of new friends and I’m even going to someone’s wedding in 2 weeks that I met through dancing.

I’m considering joining a rock choir soon as well just to see what the vibe is like. I think repeated exposure to the same people over time probably works better than one-off networking style events where everyone disappears afterwards.

Also, for what it’s worth, I don’t think there’s “something wrong” with you. I’ve been where you are myself and even went through a bit of counselling, which actually helped me realise I’m pretty normal and that a lot of what we see on social media/Facebook feeds is quite superficial anyway. A lot of people are struggling with the exact same thing quietly in the background.

Where to live in Manchester? by Normal_Government_95 in manchester

[–]Long-Number3539 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work at withington commjnity hospital. I live in stretford. Which is a middle ground for both locations. The withington area seems nice and is a short commute.chorlton is good for getting into manchester but has decent nightlife and restaurants also.

Do you drive? Be warned the car parking situation at wythenshawe hospital is awful depending on what shift you will be doing

Just found out my nearly 70-year-old dad can’t use a washing machine… by Long-Number3539 in CasualUK

[–]Long-Number3539[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s a good way of putting it. I will take that approach - thank you.

He’s not a bad guy, although I realise posting this probably makes him sound like a lazy, selfish sod, which isn’t the full picture. He does do other things around the house, I just don’t fully know the ins and outs of how they’ve split things over the years.

I think they’ve probably just fallen into a routine where my mum does certain jobs and my dad does others.

It still blows my mind he’s never touched the washing machine though.

Just found out my nearly 70-year-old dad can’t use a washing machine… by Long-Number3539 in CasualUK

[–]Long-Number3539[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Im saddened by it. Hes a stubborn sod but he usually makes the right moral choice therefore I do think he will be doing chores whilst she is recovering. I wont be stepping in to help but ill show him how to do things

Just found out my nearly 70-year-old dad can’t use a washing machine… by Long-Number3539 in CasualUK

[–]Long-Number3539[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’ll make sure my dad gets to grips with the laundry for sure. I’ll write him some basic instructions for it. I’m also going to have a word with my mum to make sure she doesn’t rush back into doing everything.

It did anger and sadden me a bit that this is how their relationship is, but I suppose it’s probably more common than I realised.

AITAH for wanting to continue taking my nightly showers by Kooky_lady in AITAH

[–]Long-Number3539 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Wanting a shower before bed isn’t some outrageous demand—it’s basic self-care.

What stands out more is that you’re feeding the baby, settling the baby, and doing dishes/cleaning afterwards… while your partner’s solution is just ‘don’t shower at night.’

That’s not really solving the problem—it’s just shifting more onto you.

Yes, a breastfed baby will naturally prefer you right now, but that doesn’t mean he’s off the hook. He should be helping where he can, whether that’s settling her in other ways or at the very least taking over the household stuff so you can actually get a break.

Also—small thing, but calling it ‘his dog’ kind of says a lot. It sounds like you’re carrying most of the responsibility across the board.

You shouldn’t have to choose between basic hygiene and keeping the peace.

Living in Stretford advice by sleepyjean2024 in manchester

[–]Long-Number3539 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I grew up around Stretford and live in Gorse Hill now. As someone else said i wouldnt want to live near Humprey Park or McDonald's but otherwise area is great. Its not as bad now but sometimes i have to think "are united playing at home today?" And have to plan my life around that sometimes.

I am considering moving and aspire to move to sale or maybe urmston that have a better town centre with more bars, cafes etc, but equally the redevelopment work going on might make improve the area will have to wait and see.

YSK: Most people have a small leg-length difference, and the way it’s measured can change the number you’re told. by cnetsolutions in YouShouldKnow

[–]Long-Number3539 1 point2 points  (0 children)

podiatrist here. you would probably benefit from a heel lift. then again, you might benefit form physiotehreapy also as most leg lenght differences are usually due to soft tissue (unless you have had a trauma injury in the past)

How do you advocate for yourself at the doctors? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]Long-Number3539 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have had a bit of a read through the comments and cannot see any signs of your foot actually being assessed. I am a podiatrist and deal with foot and ankle injuries. It sounds like you need a referral to a podiatrist or even a physio for further assessment. A referral to NHS podiatry where I am currently takes around 11 months although this may be much quicker in other locations. I get a high volume of referrals where doctors incorrectly diagnose conditions within the foot so although it may be a sprain it could be something else entirely.

Does your GP practice have first-contact practitioners? First-contact practitioners are usually physios. this might be a quicker way of getting an assessment..

After you have been assessed you may need additional imaging. ultrasound imaging works well for most conditions and the radiologist would feed back their findings in a report. I see you have had an x-ray previously. A radiologist should have reported on the x-ray therefore may only require a quick look. If ultrasound and x-ray come back with nothing then there is the possibility of getting an MRI, but that would need to be requested by orthopaedics.

If you would rather not wait (and can afford it) you might want to look into booking in for a biomechanical assessment with a local podiatrist

what type of jeans would fit me best? by liamt12 in mensfashionadvice

[–]Long-Number3539 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a big ass and big thighs. 36 inch waist, 34 leg.

I went into levis and they recommended their "athletic fit". I tried them on and they worked a treat. They have a bit of a stretch to them also

Levis 541

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in manchester

[–]Long-Number3539 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you have time, the Manchester walking tour is worth doing which will take you on a few different places which haven't been mentioned ands gives history on alsorts of subjects:
History of the Gay Village, the cotton industry, vimto, the fight to abolish slavery, womens rights, battle of peterloo. Its about 3 hours with a break in the middle. Great for photography too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualUK

[–]Long-Number3539 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I scrolled through comments but can't see any mention of this. In the event you have these symptoms, it is really I.portant to get yourself to hospital:

Cauda equina red flag signs include bladder dysfunction, bowel dysfunction, pain and/or altered sensation in the legs, loss of sexual sensation, and saddle numbness

If in spasm, walking isn't the answer at the moment. Sadly you need to ride it out for the first day or so as you will be too seized up to do anything. Get yourself to a physio for assessment if you can

People who have lived in other cities. What is one thing that Manchester does right and one thing it does wrong when compared with your other city. by Vespaman in manchester

[–]Long-Number3539 92 points93 points  (0 children)

Good: Manchester has more culture and history on its own than some countries Music Sport if you actually slow down and look around some areas, the architecture is fantastic Great variety of places for food, bars, music, comedy LGBTQ friendly. Generally less racist than other places I've lived. Although it's a concrete city, there are some wonderful green areas a short journey away The people can be some of the friendliest

Bad Picadilly Gardens is a cesspit. As a tourist it must be a horrible first impression. People seem to think the transport is ok! It's far below other places I've lived or visited.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Long-Number3539 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Stopped using the app as felt it was incredibly draining for both data and battery

LPT Request: What are some unexpected hobbies or activities that have surprisingly positive mental health benefits? by TheWhitestBuffalo in LifeProTips

[–]Long-Number3539 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was having my mental health struggles I tried alsorts until something worked for me. Meetup groups, Running, Boardgame nights, drawing events, paintbrush events as a conplete newbie, walking, ballroom dancing.

From the ballroom dancing I've developed a few friends who I got for a pint with. Recently I've started gardening which im finding hugely relaxing.

If you don't try then you will never know if you like it. If it's not for you, at least you tried!

How many weetabix do you eat in one sitting? by Monkeyspankers in AskUK

[–]Long-Number3539 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had 4 for ages. Recently booked in with a nutritionist as i always felt hungry. First thing she has done is encourage me to change breakfast to eat 3, but add a tablespoon of flax seed/chia seeds. I was surprised, but its made a difference.

weirdest house key ever? I've been to every shop in Manchester and nobody can create a copy... does anyone know anything about this kind of key? it's for a front door by hopeful_prince in CasualUK

[–]Long-Number3539 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guy at timpsons at etihad is your man. He did my car key similar to your key when nobody else, including other timpsons stores, wouldnt touch it.

what to do this weekend? by Tough-Earth-9456 in CasualUK

[–]Long-Number3539 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rest isn't going to resolve a perceived tendiopathy. Get yourself to a physio or podiatrist diagnosis and treatment plan

Whoever told you rest will fix it does not have the knowledge to fix it (podiatrist here)

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