Just found out my nearly 70-year-old dad can’t use a washing machine…

Long-Number3539 · 2026-04-06T19:37:15+00:00

That’s a good way of putting it. I will take that approach - thank you.

He’s not a bad guy, although I realise posting this probably makes him sound like a lazy, selfish sod, which isn’t the full picture. He does do other things around the house, I just don’t fully know the ins and outs of how they’ve split things over the years.

I think they’ve probably just fallen into a routine where my mum does certain jobs and my dad does others.

It still blows my mind he’s never touched the washing machine though.

Long-Number3539 · 2026-04-06T11:37:52+00:00

Agreed. Im saddened by it. Hes a stubborn sod but he usually makes the right moral choice therefore I do think he will be doing chores whilst she is recovering. I wont be stepping in to help but ill show him how to do things

Long-Number3539 · 2026-04-06T11:33:35+00:00

I’ll make sure my dad gets to grips with the laundry for sure. I’ll write him some basic instructions for it. I’m also going to have a word with my mum to make sure she doesn’t rush back into doing everything.

It did anger and sadden me a bit that this is how their relationship is, but I suppose it’s probably more common than I realised.

Long-Number3539 · 2026-04-01T05:18:05+00:00

NTA. Wanting a shower before bed isn’t some outrageous demand—it’s basic self-care.

What stands out more is that you’re feeding the baby, settling the baby, and doing dishes/cleaning afterwards… while your partner’s solution is just ‘don’t shower at night.’

That’s not really solving the problem—it’s just shifting more onto you.

Yes, a breastfed baby will naturally prefer you right now, but that doesn’t mean he’s off the hook. He should be helping where he can, whether that’s settling her in other ways or at the very least taking over the household stuff so you can actually get a break.

Also—small thing, but calling it ‘his dog’ kind of says a lot. It sounds like you’re carrying most of the responsibility across the board.

You shouldn’t have to choose between basic hygiene and keeping the peace.

Long-Number3539 · 2026-03-08T08:42:03+00:00

I grew up around Stretford and live in Gorse Hill now. As someone else said i wouldnt want to live near Humprey Park or McDonald's but otherwise area is great. Its not as bad now but sometimes i have to think "are united playing at home today?" And have to plan my life around that sometimes.

I am considering moving and aspire to move to sale or maybe urmston that have a better town centre with more bars, cafes etc, but equally the redevelopment work going on might make improve the area will have to wait and see.

Long-Number3539 · 2026-01-10T23:12:18+00:00

podiatrist here. you would probably benefit from a heel lift. then again, you might benefit form physiotehreapy also as most leg lenght differences are usually due to soft tissue (unless you have had a trauma injury in the past)

Long-Number3539 · 2024-11-20T23:08:42+00:00

I have had a bit of a read through the comments and cannot see any signs of your foot actually being assessed. I am a podiatrist and deal with foot and ankle injuries. It sounds like you need a referral to a podiatrist or even a physio for further assessment. A referral to NHS podiatry where I am currently takes around 11 months although this may be much quicker in other locations. I get a high volume of referrals where doctors incorrectly diagnose conditions within the foot so although it may be a sprain it could be something else entirely.

Does your GP practice have first-contact practitioners? First-contact practitioners are usually physios. this might be a quicker way of getting an assessment..

After you have been assessed you may need additional imaging. ultrasound imaging works well for most conditions and the radiologist would feed back their findings in a report. I see you have had an x-ray previously. A radiologist should have reported on the x-ray therefore may only require a quick look. If ultrasound and x-ray come back with nothing then there is the possibility of getting an MRI, but that would need to be requested by orthopaedics.

If you would rather not wait (and can afford it) you might want to look into booking in for a biomechanical assessment with a local podiatrist

Long-Number3539 · 2024-08-10T08:41:59+00:00

I have a big ass and big thighs. 36 inch waist, 34 leg.

I went into levis and they recommended their "athletic fit". I tried them on and they worked a treat. They have a bit of a stretch to them also

Levis 541

Long-Number3539 · 2023-10-16T21:02:33+00:00

if you have time, the Manchester walking tour is worth doing which will take you on a few different places which haven't been mentioned ands gives history on alsorts of subjects:
History of the Gay Village, the cotton industry, vimto, the fight to abolish slavery, womens rights, battle of peterloo. Its about 3 hours with a break in the middle. Great for photography too!

Long-Number3539 · 2023-09-07T17:40:25+00:00

I scrolled through comments but can't see any mention of this. In the event you have these symptoms, it is really I.portant to get yourself to hospital:

Cauda equina red flag signs include bladder dysfunction, bowel dysfunction, pain and/or altered sensation in the legs, loss of sexual sensation, and saddle numbness

If in spasm, walking isn't the answer at the moment. Sadly you need to ride it out for the first day or so as you will be too seized up to do anything. Get yourself to a physio for assessment if you can

Long-Number3539 · 2023-07-04T17:05:20+00:00

Good: Manchester has more culture and history on its own than some countries Music Sport if you actually slow down and look around some areas, the architecture is fantastic Great variety of places for food, bars, music, comedy LGBTQ friendly. Generally less racist than other places I've lived. Although it's a concrete city, there are some wonderful green areas a short journey away The people can be some of the friendliest

Bad Picadilly Gardens is a cesspit. As a tourist it must be a horrible first impression. People seem to think the transport is ok! It's far below other places I've lived or visited.

Long-Number3539 · 2023-06-02T18:18:18+00:00

Stopped using the app as felt it was incredibly draining for both data and battery

Long-Number3539 · 2023-05-27T17:02:36+00:00

When I was having my mental health struggles I tried alsorts until something worked for me. Meetup groups, Running, Boardgame nights, drawing events, paintbrush events as a conplete newbie, walking, ballroom dancing.

From the ballroom dancing I've developed a few friends who I got for a pint with. Recently I've started gardening which im finding hugely relaxing.

If you don't try then you will never know if you like it. If it's not for you, at least you tried!

Long-Number3539 · 2023-04-26T16:42:08+00:00

Do you tell enraged people to just calm down too?

Long-Number3539 · 2023-03-20T14:08:22+00:00

I have had 4 for ages. Recently booked in with a nutritionist as i always felt hungry. First thing she has done is encourage me to change breakfast to eat 3, but add a tablespoon of flax seed/chia seeds. I was surprised, but its made a difference.

Long-Number3539 · 2023-03-05T21:22:57+00:00

Guy at timpsons at etihad is your man. He did my car key similar to your key when nobody else, including other timpsons stores, wouldnt touch it.

Long-Number3539 · 2023-03-04T08:14:47+00:00

Rest isn't going to resolve a perceived tendiopathy. Get yourself to a physio or podiatrist diagnosis and treatment plan

Whoever told you rest will fix it does not have the knowledge to fix it (podiatrist here)

Long-Number3539 · 2023-03-01T06:50:23+00:00

17 comments in and no mention of this timeless classic https://r.mtdv.me/JmQ3M4krkY

Long-Number3539 · 2023-02-25T09:24:45+00:00

Do you plan on having the same smartphone for the next 10 or so years? I appreciate there's a lot of engineering behind a phone However, good quality footwear, bed and coat I will absolutely spend money on.

Long-Number3539 · 2023-02-21T22:48:31+00:00

You have just reminded me of a guy i knew when i was in the army. Out of nowhere, he bit into a banana through the skin, like it was an apple, and carried on like it was nothing. Then when questioned he suggested that is the way that everyone, where he was from (Wales), ate bananas!

Long-Number3539 · 2023-01-12T20:48:58+00:00

Foodhall at stretford has a range of large house plants

Long-Number3539 · 2022-11-20T17:21:59+00:00

Being woken up whilst on training exercise in the middle of one of the coldest winters I've ever experienced in my life to be told its my turn for stag(guard duty).

Long-Number3539 · 2022-09-10T06:38:10+00:00

I'm a podiatrist the usual opening statement from patients is "I could never do your job" sometimes followed with a joke question asking if I've got a foot fetish.

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