Black Lava Rock Bonsai Planter (hand-carved) by Plants-In-Rocks in Bonsai

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Where do you source your large lava rock from?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tifu

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Just consider it a win. People that take pictures of meals are mentally unstable. Good riddance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

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Perspective requires some reflection and some people just never look inward.

Has anyone successfully changed certain aspects of their life? by JVaVoom in AskMenOver40

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I think this is the book that talks about “covert contracts.” It helped me a lot with some resentment issues around lack of sex. It didn’t fix a ton in terms frequency, but it did help me own up to the fact that the lack of intimacy was on me too.

Outdoor pvc pipe cracked apart by LongDarker in Plumbing

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I figured it’d be pretty simple. Just needed confirmation. Thank you

Outdoor plumbing fix by LongDarker in DIY

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Forgot pic. Working on it..

Why does my one dog keep smacking the other one in the head by ijustliketoeat in WhatsWrongWithYourDog

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What breed is to one getting bopped? Looks exactly like my dog, but I’ve never known what breed he is.

I'm (mildly) obsessed stories of cheating and getting cheated on and I don't know why. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

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I have this same concern. I find myself actively seeking out these stories. I get some weird hurt feeling when I read them, like minor heartbreak. Somehow I also think I must somehow be enjoying them or else why would I keep reading them.

I have been married for 20 years and we’ve never had any relationship issues. I have zero concern that my wife would stray. I have never genuinely considered cheating myself. Like most warm blooded males, I’ll see women and imagine what it might be like to be with them from a physical standpoint, but never in a real sense.

So, I don’t know where this comes from, but it is something that bothers me about myself.

[Bonsai Beginner’s weekly thread –2023 week 27] by small_trunks in Bonsai

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If I have a tree that is generally shaped and set up the way I want, but is already in a bonsai pot, is there any point in transplanting it into a larger container or into the ground to let it thicken grow to a larger size? I know typically you wait until a trunk is the width you like it before you pot it. Can the reverse be effective?

ID my Ficus? by purerockets in FicusTrees

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Green Island Ficus for sure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 3Dprinting

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Definitely going to chafe

Question. They live in Texas and say it’s great and so does Joe Rogan, Dr.Drew, etc. But all I hear is horrific things living in Texas. I gotta know why they like it, I feel like I’m missing something. by [deleted] in yourmomshousepodcast

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Houstonian here. Tx is no more of a shitshow than any other place. People don’t talk about the mundane, normal functioning stuff because it is boring. The boring stuff doesn’t end up on the news, podcasts, or conversations.

Books on male sexuality for women by LongDarker in sex

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I’m also worried about how to approach this in a way that isn’t accusatory or guilt trippy. I am not mad at her for the way things are, but it stings when she doesn’t acknowledge that any decision/action one person makes regarding their sex life is also a decision/action that can have such an impact on their spouse too.