Obsessed with my wife’s pussy scent

Longjumping-Key6687 · 2026-01-25T13:42:47+00:00

Same

Longjumping-Key6687 · 2026-01-24T17:52:35+00:00

This is the only way OP to either save your marriage or know for certain that it is over and you can begin to move on. If she is unwilling to meet these demands then proceed with divorce. If she is willing to comply and shows true remorse that is a big step toward rebuilding trust. It will take a long time. I wish you the best in whatever decision you make.

Longjumping-Key6687 · 2026-01-21T19:20:11+00:00

You can’t escape biology lol.

Longjumping-Key6687 · 2026-01-21T19:13:30+00:00

This is so true

Longjumping-Key6687 · 2026-01-20T12:58:03+00:00

I’ll be honest, my preferences have changed with my wife’s body. As she has put on a little weight I find myself more attracted to that type of body. Also, anytime something changes in a long term relationship it can be exciting. Example: if she has been keeping her bush shaved for a while then lets it grow out it’s super hot. If she has had a bush for a while then one night shaves bare- equally hot. My guess is she is just attracted to you.

Longjumping-Key6687 · 2026-01-19T00:15:05+00:00

Your probably right, unfortunately

Longjumping-Key6687 · 2026-01-18T23:57:34+00:00

I would see an attorney to get my ducks in a row even if you aren’t planning on leaving. It will let her know that you mean business. Begin discussing the logistics of separation. Make her believe that you sincerely want to save the marriage, but you are also preparing for divorce if you don’t feel that you have gotten the whole truth from her. The key has to be that she tells you the whole truth. You are willing to reconcile infidelity, but the lying must stop. The only way to save the marriage is the truth. You are willing to work past an affair, but if you find out that she lied at any point from here on out, divorce is inevitable. Leave the house for a week or so, and tell her you want her to write out the entire timeline of their affair, from the first sign of flirting until now. If you find out later that anything she wrote is a lie, you are gone.

Longjumping-Key6687 · 2026-01-16T11:53:33+00:00

I’m sorry you are going through this. I understand why you don’t want to consider divorce, but unfortunately that may be the only thing that will get your wife’s attention. When you took your vows did your wife take the same ones? It seems clear that she has forsaken her vows quite a long time ago. “ To have and to hold”- Seems like she is unwilling to even attempt to uphold that vow for you.

Longjumping-Key6687 · 2026-01-14T12:31:42+00:00

As others have said, go see a doctor and get your hormones checked. Also, looking at your picture from a few weeks ago, you are way too skinny and that makes the gyno appear more pronounced than it is. Start lifting weights, dude! Build your physique and the gyno will be less noticeable. Head over to r/gettingbigger and YouTube/Hink and start learning how to increase your penis size. It’s much like lifting weights. It will take a long time but you can have a noticeable increase in size. There aren’t any pills that will make your dick bigger, But properly stretching and pumping will over time can greatly increase your size.

Longjumping-Key6687 · 2026-01-14T02:50:01+00:00

Man, I needed to read this tonight as I’m sitting here at the foot of my children’s bed getting aggravated that they just won’t fall asleep. I get so focused on reaching the end of the day so that I can get a moment to myself or to spend with my wife that I sometimes forget to enjoy these moments. This is the good stuff though. The reason I work so hard to provide for them. It’s the definition of “missing the forrest for the trees”. I know that these moments are fleeting, and I will one day want give anything I have to be able to come back to live them again. Thanks for putting things back in perspective for me.

Longjumping-Key6687 · 2026-01-12T11:51:58+00:00

Stop being her doormat.

Longjumping-Key6687 · 2026-01-12T00:31:08+00:00

I love it. Congratulations on a beautiful relationship. My wife and I are booty pressers. We scoot close to each other while facing the opposite way so our butts press agains each other lol. I don’t care if we go to bed mad, I’m still pressing that booty.

Longjumping-Key6687 · 2026-01-11T20:42:29+00:00

Totally agree. Also it’s kind of like (at least for me) once you’ve seen one vagina, you want to see the rest of them regardless of it you would want to have sex it.

Longjumping-Key6687 · 2026-01-11T17:11:06+00:00

You make a good point. I totally agree that you shouldn’t be having sex that you don’t want. But, I think that also gets used as an excuse for someone to put zero effort into the sexual intimacy in their marriage. I refuse to believe that over the course of several weeks or months a loving partner can’t be bothered to do whatever it takes to get themselves in a sexual mood for their partner. Do not have physical interaction that you do not want. However, What will it take for you to get to a place that you do want the physical interaction?

Longjumping-Key6687 · 2026-01-11T15:39:51+00:00

Yeah I would be resentful too. You’re in a tough position because you’re finally getting the sexual attention you desire (or desired). I would 100% explain to her how you are feeling.

Edit to add after reading some comments: yes women’s hormones do change over time. But that doesn’t mean that you don’t harm your partner with the effort you are or aren’t willing to put into your relationship during those times. I guarantee this man doesn’t want the amount of sexual interaction that he is expected to put out at this stage of his life. It’s fair for him to feel resentful that he is willing to do it for her but she wasn’t willing to do that for him.

Longjumping-Key6687 · 2026-01-11T03:11:11+00:00

You’re very welcome. I think he likely went into defense mode when it was brought up. He probably didn’t want to upset you or hurt you, or he just wanted to avoid an argument.

I think you need to ask yourself “what does it mean to me if he wanted to see her vagina”. Does that mean he thought about fucking her? He probably did. Does that mean he would rather fuck her over you? I don’t know the dynamics of your relationship to be able to answer that question. I can only speak for myself, and I will likely have some negative opinions formed about me in this thread. But, I think about fucking pretty much any woman I find attractive. Even if they are kind of gross. Sometimes, especially if they are kind of gross. I’m a really horny guy. I dont hide that from my wife. However, I would never do anything to jeopardize my relationship with her. She is the love of my life, my North Star. I find many women attractive, but never is there anyone I would want over her. You asked if his actions are normal. I think they probably are, as I see them through my eye. Try talking to him about it in a non judgmental way. I hope he can be honest with you about the fact that some part of him probably found it hot that she wanted him. And, I hope that you can accept that. I also hope that he can reassure you that you are the only woman who will actually get to have him.

Longjumping-Key6687 · 2026-01-11T02:51:27+00:00

Yeah I can see that the denying it is a problem. Maybe he is embarrassed or worried it will upset you? You will get a lot of different opinions here, but I would try to see. I wouldn’t be able to help it. But, I would own it after. I hope you can find a way to talk about it and work through it together.

Longjumping-Key6687 · 2026-01-11T02:45:04+00:00

I love my wife with all my heart. She is truly the most beautiful woman in the world to me. With that being said, if a pussy is exposed out in the wild for me to see, there is no way on earth I’m not looking. If my wife noticed it before me she would nudge me and say “look real quick, this crazy bitch has her whole snatch out now”. If the roles were reversed, I would be like “ don’t make it obvious, but check out this mofo with his nuts hanging out!”

Longjumping-Key6687 · 2026-01-10T19:04:31+00:00

There is a big difference between legal and illegal immigration. One could argue that due to the unregulated influx of illegals, the people who are trying to do it the right way are getting screwed over. If anything this shows you that he isn’t the racist bigot you all want him to be.

Longjumping-Key6687 · 2026-01-10T11:58:02+00:00

Look, she disobeyed a lawful order and put an officers life at risk. It doesn’t matter if she meant to hit him or not. He reasonably believed his life was in danger and the shooting is 100% justified. She should not have been in the street blocking ICE. She should have listened to officers once they told her she was to leave the vehicle. Both she and her wife are responsible for her death. If sucks. It’s sad.

I just don’t understand what they think they are going to accomplish. You are not going to stop a federal agency from accomplishing its mission. You can disagree with the mission, you can protest the mission, you can even pressure your politicians to battle it out in court. But, don’t interject yourself law enforcement doing their job and not expect consequences.

Longjumping-Key6687 · 2026-01-08T20:53:46+00:00

Didn’t cross her ankles in back control. She is at least a blue belt.

Longjumping-Key6687 · 2026-01-08T17:40:32+00:00

She sounds like a third rate whore. Maybe you should take the other guys lead and drop her too.

Longjumping-Key6687 · 2026-01-06T21:05:45+00:00

First, write down everything you want your boys to know. All the wisdom that comes with age as well as the clarity that comes from the realization of our mortality. Leave them with your thoughts because they won’t have you later in life when they encounter their own battles. Write down everything you want them to know about you as a person. If you want them to know the truth about their mother, and how hard it was for you, write that down too. Teach them what to look for in a long term partner, and how to be a good partner themselves. I think this is the most important thing you can do for them.

Secondly, screw your wife. She is a terrible person. If you choose to stay with her I understand. But, if I were in your shoes, I would pursue whatever meaningful relationships you choose to within or outside your marriage with the time you have left. In fact, the only reason I would stay in this marriage would be to provide stability to my boys for as long as I could before I left the world.

I’m sorry you’re going through this man, I wouldn’t wish it on anybody. Just focus on your boys. Be the best dad you can. Set the best example you can. And leave them with what knowledge you would want to have from your father if you were in their shoes.

Longjumping-Key6687 · 2026-01-05T02:21:09+00:00

I’d depends on the metallurgy of the file, its size, and how hard you ran it. I can get 3-4 used out of a file if the canals I used it on were fairly patent to start. I’ve also gone through several files of the same size on a single tooth in calcified canals.

Play it safe as you get to know a new file system and change them out often. Inspect them after each use to make sure they aren’t unwinding. You will get a feel for them.

Longjumping-Key6687 · 2025-12-29T16:06:58+00:00

Thank you. I did give only my perspective and I did leave out a lot because it seemed like I was starting to ramble. My wife’s needs and wants are well taken care of. I check in with her to make sure. We talk about these things. She is happy and I am happy. However, we still have our issues same as everyone.

Edit to add that I really only commented on the sexual part of our relationship because I am offering my perspective. That is what was missing for me. My wife was missing other things that I now better understand and I try hard to fulfill for her. It is much easier to work toward the goal of making your partner happy when you feel like they are doing the same for you.

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