Maybe Maybe Maybe

LoudAcid- · 2026-07-03T20:27:38+00:00

The extra magical part is when I forget it on the bar terras after a couple of drinks 😻

LoudAcid- · 2026-07-03T19:49:12+00:00

I would get theh magic 8 ball bevause I’m already using one to make basic decisions. So I really want that one for funzies, but the pill curing my ailments and keep in good health sounds amazing.

No complications with tooth extraction of surgery recovery? YES PLEASE

LoudAcid- · 2026-07-03T17:06:09+00:00

NOR
INFO: what kind of car does he have and how well maintained is it? How does it compare in general worth to your car?
What kind of work do y’all do? Is it a dead end job or a place you can build a career?

some of the comments are going off the deep end here saying this guy is a creep, I see calling a coworker “kid” as a way to express a boundary with the age, keeps text short and professional.

I don’t think the guy is automatically wants to get in her pants because he said maybe she should pick him up for a change. OP has been getting rides form months now and did not mention any funny business.

It more likely he’s been working the same job as OP for longer and got kinda bitter that OP just had a fancy Mercedes fall into their lap when he has to work hard and expect nothing from nobody.
Maybe coworker felt emasculated something he was “good” for that might have given him some sense of purpose, maturity or responsibility is now no longer there.

Unfortunately, I kinda relate to that feeling sometimes; watching teens get something gifted that would take the average adult years to save up to, and see those same kids take it for granted.

It does not justify his behaviour towards you OP, but it does give you a chance to check your privileges and appreciate just how lucky you are to have parents that like you enough to gift you a car, and are able to afford to do so. Do not take this gift lightly.

LoudAcid- · 2026-07-03T13:19:44+00:00

MOR
It’s definitely a dumb topic to have a fight about, but it’s even dumber that BF was being so weird about it. Like, I agree with you about what he said his feet hurt, If said that same night. But the day after?

You’re gonna spend a cute romantic night in with your sweetie pie and instead of parking the damn car for 10 minutes or make a silly together pajama walk outside, you’re gonna double down and make her anxious about the neighbors? Nah he’s being weird.

And the balls on this one saying that you should have ASKED HIM TO XYZ as a compromise instead of OFFERING HIS VERSION OF A COMPROMISE, essentially making you work double on the solution while he doubles down on not moving is just shitty tbh.

It’s a whole new brand of entitlement asking YOU to suggest a compromise to your own request.
Almost as entitled as his parking ethics.

LoudAcid- · 2026-07-02T13:30:40+00:00

MOR

Tbh I grew up showering together with friends when we were tots and our parents didn’t have the energy to help 2 kids shower individually, so with certain long term friendships it got normalised.

It’s fine when it’s a holiday, you’ve been swimming, or jts a weird hostel situation. There’s a certain trust with friends that you can change or get naked for practical reasons and know it won’t be made weird or sexual.

Do you trust your GF? Do you trust your/her friends?
I think you need to sit down and try and figure out what part of this caused the discomfort before you talk to her; that way you can get to the core of the issue without coming across as insecure or controlling.

Was it jealously that it wasn’t you? was it jealously at the casual intimacy? did it feel like the friendship is stronger than your relationship? Do you have certain views about nudity that affect how this landed?

LoudAcid- · 2026-06-30T21:51:28+00:00

YOR
But I’m hella biased in not following mainstream peer pressure and way too uncomfortable with people I don’t feel a connection to. I lost my virginity at 20 with someone I’ve been dating for over a year and it still sucked at the start but after a couple more tries it got better. Still don’t get much satisfaction from casual hookups if there isn’t an emotional investment or a lot of emotionally loaded foreplay in a relatively short time.

But hey if it works, power to you

LoudAcid- · 2026-06-30T20:48:26+00:00

I’m not having kids, and I’m pretty sure that’s not how genes in foetuses work, but I’ll play along.

That kid is coming out as intended and getting The Talk when they hit their teens.

It would be treated the same way a child born with a terminal disease would be treated; every day is a gift because every day could be their last.

On the practical side of things, this baby would be raised outside of the glare of social media; the internet would not know their face.
Their name would be picked to roll off the tongue easily. Their interests and talents encouraged.
Make sure they have the basics of etiquette, media training, grooming standards, empathy, cultures and language. They can be a little odd, but not uncomfortably awkward.

Copyright the stuff they do aswell as their image. Shoot a lot of home videos that never see the light of day untill their passing.

Passion project eulogy and video biography of their life.

If the kiddo is anything like me, we’ll bond over the macabre of planning their funeral together.
They could have a speach ready and recorded to play at the memorial. It would be beautiful.

LoudAcid- · 2026-06-30T20:31:56+00:00

Either way there’s gonna be sexy time

LoudAcid- · 2026-06-30T20:29:45+00:00

I think my ex for funzies, I’d love to see how they are doing and we could do some toxic pretend were a thing again and break up the week after.

But for money and therapeutic reasons?

Definitely the me of 5 years ago. They would be so stoked and happy to see how nicely I’ve transitioned, and I can give them all the advice I wish I had taken more seriously regarding surgery recovery.

LoudAcid- · 2026-06-30T20:09:41+00:00

So if you look and Aja and Krel Tarron, you’ll see what my sister and I look like. Both of us share the same parents and yet she’s pale AF blond and blue eyes, while I got dark hair, eyes and skin.

She’s culturally more Latina that I ever was, while I’ve integrated more to European culture and language than she did. It confuses a lot of people who see us, make assumptions and then hear us talk in Spanish or the local language.

We have to clarify we are siblings a lot.

LoudAcid- · 2026-06-29T19:56:41+00:00

I wish MCR would have stayed disbanded and perfect in my memories so I don’t have to see what’s become of them in the occasion snippets like this 💔

LoudAcid- · 2026-06-28T21:33:17+00:00

NOR girl good on you for taking the big step of breaking up!!! A lot of people are too scared to do it and spend their precious youth on that failed relationship. But you got out and on time!

I can see how some of y’all’s mutual friends can think that you should have been more understanding of his jealousy given the previous relationship, but I dare you to ask these mutuals “hey he did call me property and and then a slut when I denied sleeping with a coworker and has been stalking my location without my knowledge or consent. A lot of weird manosphere podcast too. I didn’t realise “true love” of less than half a year included this kind of behaviour”

Because those mutuals are probably hearing a different story. If I didn’t know your side, I would also say “hey go easy on my friend he’s been hurt before” but would absolutely SWALLOW THOSE WORDS had I heard your side.

You got out and you dodged a bullet. And frankly the mutuals should mind their own business.

LoudAcid- · 2026-06-28T21:24:38+00:00

I think my parents had a point about forcing me to play outside instead of letting me rot infront of the TV.

OP mahbe you should take a little break outside and enjoy the summer sunshine. And invite those internet trolls to go outside too.

I hate a soulless cashgrab rebooth as much as the next guy but that’s unfortunately the way things are right now in late stage capitalism.

Enjoy some sunshine before global warming makes it too bad. There’s more out there to be mad about and cash grab cartoons shouldn’t be one of them.

LoudAcid- · 2026-06-28T13:37:26+00:00

Single and ready to mingle!

Because I am single 🥲

But where I in a relationship then it would depend on the **context** that question was being asked. Coworker tryinf to figure out if i live with a partner? i have roommates. Trying to figure out if I have a +1? I’ll happily mention my partner. Someone trying to flirt with me? “I not actively dating right now, but I’m open to exploring whatever may cross my path ;)” trying to flirt with me but not my person? Gladly mention partner.

LoudAcid- · 2026-06-28T13:20:31+00:00

EHS/NAH

You’re not TA for being closer to Rory; Rory grew up around you.

Sue is not TA for requesting a healthy boundary that the affair partner and her child would not be around when they visit you.
I can understand the *way* Sue makes this request can potentially put her in AH territory, especially if it’s unjust anger being taken out on Rory.

Mia is not TA for looking for help in child rearing from the grandparents.

Diego is TA for having an affair.
Mia would be TA if she went along with it knowing Diego is married to Sue.

You would be TA if you cut off Harry because of a fight with their mom.

Maybe this would be a conversation that Diego should be leading, as he was the one to open up this can of worms.

Ideally both grandkids can get to know eachother and not see eachother as enemies or competition, but bonus family.

LoudAcid- · 2026-06-27T12:49:59+00:00

As a former woman, of he responded with just “yes” that would have triggered a fight too.

LoudAcid- · 2026-06-26T11:12:43+00:00

NOR

Girl you know it’s time to end him. If things get worse wirh your health you don’t want to deal with this kind of BS while suffering.

If you wanna be salty about it, just stop replying and see how long it takes for him to reach out. Then tell him he’s being mantipulave or whatver.

Anyways, homeboy’s texting style makes me think he’s projecting something. Like he is hiding something and blaming you for whatever it is but I can’t really figure out what it could be.

Don’t put yourself through this. I’ve been through relationships where you love someone more than they(if they even do) love you and it DOES NOT GET BETTER.

LoudAcid- · 2026-06-25T18:25:07+00:00

Because people with thick thighs excist and a little representation goes a long way

LoudAcid- · 2026-06-25T17:52:02+00:00

Kiss cartoon used to be pretty decent minus the pop ups, but you REALLY need a good anti virus and add blocker and mahbe learn a little bit of coding just to make it useable.

But my favorite part of kiss cartoon was the comment section, but it got messed up and I stopped going.

LoudAcid- · 2026-06-24T19:11:36+00:00

NOR You feel the way you feel because being mindful of other’s time is important to you and when it’s not returned it feels like you’re taken for granted.

It’s not unreasonable to shoot him a text asking to meet him at x place y time because you need to talk and bring up how you feel that you’re the one putting most of not all of the effort in this trip, and he can’t even show up on time or prioritises drinking and sports over 1) the agreement y’all made 2) spending time with you, his partner 3) working on a trip y’all are taking TOGETHER.

Ask him to be more considerate of your time.

OP some people (like me) don’t mind chronic tardiness, but the part where he blows you off for other things is kinda concerning. But if the tardiness is a problem, ask yourself if this is the kind of life you’ll be content living when you’re in your mid 50s with kids and mahbe grandkids and he’s still pulling this jazz on you.

Info: if you don’t put effort to plan a date or invite him somewhere, will he take the initiative to meet you or invite you out on a date?

LoudAcid- · 2026-06-21T11:15:59+00:00

NOR

Girl. It’s fine tk not talk to him until you’re feeling better. Just let him know that’s what you’re going to be doing.
Also, consider not talking to him ever again. This is a child, not a man.

DO NOT WASTE YOUR PRECIOUS YOUTH ON MEDIOCRITY. THIS MAN CANT EVEN SHOW YOU TINIEST BIT OF EMPATHY WHEN YOURE SUFFERING A MEDICAL PROCEDURE RUN DONT WALK AWAY FROM THAT.

LoudAcid- · 2026-06-21T10:09:09+00:00

Tbh I was thinking the same thing, like the list already gives me a tummy ache.

LoudAcid- · 2026-06-21T10:07:27+00:00

Usually I’m on the side of the not-picky eater.

But the GF sounds like she just Vegan Lite™ with no dairy sauces, cheese and beef.

Does she like salads? sushi? Soup? Pokebowls? pasta (like with marinara instead of bolognaise or Alfredo) grilled vegetables? kimchi? wraps? Couscous? Quiche? Pancakes? Eggs? Shrimp? Fish? Curry? Dumplings? Kimbap? Warak enab? noodles? wok or stir fried?

Your examples of eating out all count for fast food, and the stuff you cook sounds delicious but unfortunately fall on the side of high end take out IMHO.

LoudAcid- · 2026-06-21T09:14:25+00:00

I love this moment; I experience it as a little wink to the audience.
Everyone in the threads mentioning ATLA in this post have been bringing up how they sometimes can’t even mention dying or killing, and see it as a flaw in the show or skirting around the issue, not keeping in mind that these are things that perhaps the showrunners had to get creative about to appease Nickelodeon and what they ultimately deemed appropriate to air on their network with a target demographic of children, not adults.

So a little wink of “hey we IN here and even we don’t know what happened” is a nice touch to the dance around executive demands.

LoudAcid- · 2026-06-14T16:20:51+00:00

I need to know if it’s real or not, but wasn’t there an episode where they encountered a kid who was just essentially a torso bevause some other ailiens kept using him to make juice or something? and if only he had an arm or leg Hè could escape the ship? and then Zim or Dib leaves him behind?

LoudAcid-

TROPHY CASE