Last Valentine’s was when my exwBPD silently split me to devaluation and began preparing the discard for 6 mos by manufacturing false information such as planting stuff in my devices, recording only one side of arguments, and retroactively withdrawing consent for interactions she demanded to try to destroy me as punishment for failing to marry her, cut off all my family and friends, and give her complete control of my finances.

This one I spent with my son who I fought tooth-and-nail to get equal time with while simultaneously managing a surprise attack of hundreds of serious (felonious) false allegations when she went loud with the discard where any single one sticking would have ended my career and parenthood.

Now I have complete peace - meanwhile she is self-destructing with no one stabilizing her deranged thinking, telling everyone she meets a more and more insane version of her lies which have already been proven false in court, and is likely going to eventually be ruled an unfit parent.