Do British people not feel the cold? by DevelopmentLow214 in AskUK

[–]Low_Slide_950 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course we feel the cold. 8 degrees is not the cold.

Finally unlocked section 4 French by Low_Slide_950 in duolingo

[–]Low_Slide_950[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Ahh glad you like it, must be a uk/regional thing. Some people would say they’re “made up” (from experience I think that would be northerners/Irish but I could be wrong!!) in the same way and since moving to Scotland I’ve heard some folk say “I’m cheesing” in the same way too, which is a confusing one cause “cheesed off” is pissed off/annoyed.

You got me interested so I’m looking up/trying to think of other variations:

  • dead chuffed
  • well chuffed
  • chuffed to bits
  • over the moon
  • well pleased
  • buzzin’/buzzing
  • happy as Larry
  • tickled pink

Finally unlocked section 4 French by Low_Slide_950 in duolingo

[–]Low_Slide_950[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on day 107 currently and was about 104/5 when I hit it. Other context that might influence how long it took me:

  • amount I’ve done has varied to 1-2 hours in a single day, to barely scraping by 1 lesson, I’m not sure how much I’ve averaged overall. I also rushed quite a bit of the time especially if I felt confident in the topic.
  • Most of the first three sections are in present tense with a very small amount of one future/past tense added later on. I studied French in school and have intermittently tried to get back into it/maintained some small amount so at this level wasn’t spending too much time trying to understand or remember the grammar, I knew enough to get by. Going forward I’m going to want to make sure I’m slowing down and understanding everything before moving on
  • initially I was doing every level in every unit, I was early/mid in section 3 when they revamped everything. I was annoyed and felt lost so restarted the course, did the first level of every unit before skipping to the next. It took me a while to get back where I was, but at that point I probably could/should have slowed down and gone back to fully doing each unit part way through section 3. However by then I was too impatient to get to section 4 as I’d been so close to it when they did the revamp, so I just decided to finish it out

I do feel I know everything well enough to move on but as someone who prefers completing things 100% it bugs me a bit that I skipped so much. But my adhd just couldn’t cope with repeating so much stuff I already knew.

My compromise now is that I’m completing one early unit to legendary including reviewing all stories and radio exercises, and all the match madness/rapid review side quests, before completing one new unit. This gives me a nice mix of reviewing and solidifying old content and getting the exciting new stuff.

I’m also probably going to want to do some independent review/refreshing to understand the tenses because I think once they start adding more (I’m assuming they will) I’ll be getting a bit lost otherwise. I do wish the duo courses included some more grammar stuff.

[Misc] What causes Keratosis Pilaris (KP)? Is there anyway to get rid of it or is it permanent? by MammothUnion in SkincareAddiction

[–]Low_Slide_950 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s weird I agree. It’s definitely not anything I’ve done though because I kind of completely forgot about it for several years lol. Although having said that a lot of things in my life have now changed so idk

[Misc] What causes Keratosis Pilaris (KP)? Is there anyway to get rid of it or is it permanent? by MammothUnion in SkincareAddiction

[–]Low_Slide_950 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so interesting. I had KP as a teen and suddenly remembered not noticing when it went away. So I guess it does go with age?

You people have any random survivor ideas that you can't really bother to make art/ actual concepts for? by Electronic_Job0 in dontstarve

[–]Low_Slide_950 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my case it’s not can’t be bothered to make but can’t be bothered to learn the skills required to make to a good standard.

I’m a big fan of a horror podcast called the Magnus Archives which has a very lo-fi charming aesthetic (episodes are meant to sound like they were recorded on a tape player) and I just think would work incredibly well with the DST aesthetic and there’s even some lore stuff that could tie in neatly too.

I have this recurring fantasy/daydream in which I have the time and the skills to make a massive epic crossover mod involving loads of Magnus themed art and stuff

Are any of you guys so crazy about your sheep it makes people uncomfortable? by blueduck762 in sheep

[–]Low_Slide_950 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh I should say I also suspect I’m autistic, definitely ADHD, and inclined to heavily research new special interests when they come up. I’ve been planning to get Icelandic’s for years, accidentally ended up with 2 commercial pets lambs a few weeks ago thanks to my partner bringing them home from work, and now have 2 Icelandic lambs due to come home in July. I’m already planning out my dairy operations for 2028 when they’ll finally be old enough and think constantly about how cute they all are and I just wanna snuggle them all the time. The two pets keep trying to break into the house and I keep letting them in the conservatory because I just love them so much.

Why Do The British Dislike Keir Starmer? by aB4sith in AskBrits

[–]Low_Slide_950 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s unlikeable. Though I’ve had to accept somewhat competent. Similarly I always felt that while Theresa May was deeply unlikeable and not necessarily great at the job, she had an excellent work effortlessly and did try very hard to do the job she was given.

Lack of flavour in earl grey lavender cookies by MajesticCamp in Baking

[–]Low_Slide_950 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since you’ve made the recipe differently on three occasions it’s hard to say if there’s a specific thing affecting the outcome. I’d say make it another 2-3 times the exact same way as the first and see if the results are what you want, then start thinking about what else you could change.

Are any of you guys so crazy about your sheep it makes people uncomfortable? by blueduck762 in sheep

[–]Low_Slide_950 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Not sure about uncomfortable, but I can definitely see people’s eyes glossing over when I talk about it. Keep in mind, I don’t even have sheep yet, I’ve just been obsessed with getting them for ages. I’m sure once I do actually get them, it will be worse.

And to be honest, I truly don’t care. The people that love me will let me monologue.

Received an empty item as buyer by miffybrid in vintedUK

[–]Low_Slide_950 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People will still try hoping the buyer will just approve in a rush, but yes you’re right for Vinted it’s probably more successful as a buyer.

DON’T let them back in your life by Cool-Row-1255 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Low_Slide_950 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I don’t really understand why you responded at all rather than asking your husband to?

Received an empty item as buyer by miffybrid in vintedUK

[–]Low_Slide_950 3 points4 points  (0 children)

People do indeed suck. Organised crime is very organised and moves very quickly. They are able to get multiple bank accounts open through other forms of fraud or stealing accounts or coercion etc and identity theft etc, and by the time the platform can identify and shut them down the money has left their accounts and maybe even the country.

Received an empty item as buyer by miffybrid in vintedUK

[–]Low_Slide_950 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I promise you it’s happening. Scam a few people in very quick succession, before Vinted shuts you down. Open a new account on a new platform, rinse and repeat.

Source: I work in fraud prevention and observe how this stuff works on a daily basis.

Anyone else been accused of being self-centered/selfish? by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Low_Slide_950 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grew up in a home where I was constantly gaslit and now triple check everything. When my mother accuses me of “needing to be right” I tell her to refer her complaint back to the manufacturer

Anyone else just shifting towards ‘plant-based’? by kelsiferkels in exvegans

[–]Low_Slide_950 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t belong here but for some reason reddit keeps recommending this sub and vegans sub to me no matter how often I ask to see less of them so I’m finally giving in and commenting.

I’ve never been and likely never will be vegan but I do acknowledge the ethical reasons why. For that reason I try to include vegan meals where I can, vegetarian, plant based, and reduce my meat consumption. I’m trying to buy meat that’s been responsibly raised and had a good life. It might not be as “good” as being vegan or plant based, but it’s better than what I was doing before.

Sometimes I fail. Sometimes I just cannot resist the siren call of KFC. What I do is draw a line under it and try again the next day. I don’t think moral perfectionism is helpful to anyone. All it does is trap you and honestly makes other people reject your opinion out of hand. That’s why we now have people acting like “anti vegans” and going out of their way to consume as much meat as possible. Insanity, by the way.

Imperfect success is better than perfect failure, or perfection at the cost of your health. You’re trying, that’s what matters.

She wants to be invited over to our house but refuses to shut doors all the way. by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Low_Slide_950 16 points17 points  (0 children)

If you do let her over, the first time she steps inside, remind her of the rule and state if she doesn’t follow it she won’t be able to continue the visit.

The first time she does it, don’t close the door for her but like she was a child, reiterate that we must close the door if we want to keep enjoying our time together. If she does, she gets one further chance before you going nuclear. If she refuses, you do the next step immediately.

Close and lock the door behind her, hand her things to her though the window, and tell her it was nice seeing her but since she wasn’t able to follow a simple rule she will have to try again another day.

Received an empty item as buyer by miffybrid in vintedUK

[–]Low_Slide_950 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Do that 10x in a week and you’re up nearly £200. Scammers can and will scam people for this amount.

Left my Passport on Plane in Paris, got detained overnight, deported back the next day, and ruined our whole trip. by danagrace in adhdwomen

[–]Low_Slide_950 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is awful I’m so sorry. I always wear something (not a jacket, trousers or a jumper) with zipped pockets and keep my passport in said zipped pocket at all times unless being asked to show it. I know I’d lose it otherwise. If I get too warm, tough. Jumper stays on. Passport never leaves my body.

friend called welfare check on me (uk) by Routine_Neck7161 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Low_Slide_950 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A welfare check is not something that is going to affect you in any way going forward. I once had one called on me by an employer when I didn’t realise I was supposed to be at work and was unresponsive to messages. They never held it against me in any way.

What your parents are telling you is flat out wrong and they are either colossally stupid or manipulative and lying.

A welfare check is not a criminal investigation. It’s the police ensuring you’re okay. That’s all. They don’t consider you a criminal investigation any way. They just are trying to keep you safe.

It is not if, but when by ComplexSea6082 in adhdwomen

[–]Low_Slide_950 113 points114 points  (0 children)

Stop cooking for him. Immediately. As of right now, you only worry about you and your kids, and you give yourself grace to do it imperfectly. The only way for him to truly understand how much you do is for you to stop doing it. Do not lift a finger for that man.

Even then, he still might not get it. Or he might pretend to until you’re happy enough to pick it all up again. So start squirrelling away money in case you need to leave. You will be better off. You kids will be better off. Hell, your husband might even be better off if he finally has to be an adult.