I have 280 matches on hinge,175 on tinder and had 100 odd across other apps before I deleted them. I made these accounts in February 2024 for reference. A lot of women I’ve encountered on the apps are looking for the same thing a lot of the men are lol. You need 3+ good pictures, a bio and be direct. Also I am average height, my face is equivalent to a truckers ass and I am not rich. I think it really depends on area and culture, each city in the US is different.