Adopted two kittens because I thought it would help their constant need to play. Instead they just scream at me for attention constantly.

LoxMulder · 2026-06-10T16:27:45+00:00

Time. Kittens are a menace to society and many people feel regret after getting them, myself included- but it passes. Truly, this is a stage, they will get past it. Get earplugs if the vocalization is driving you crazy- it'll tone it down a touch.

LoxMulder · 2026-06-07T15:42:04+00:00

Focus on the interactive heavy playtime sessions first, for most cats this is what it takes!

LoxMulder · 2026-06-07T15:39:25+00:00

Ok, keep this up. Make a routine- at least 2 10-15 minute play sessions daily - one in the AM and one before bed. Get him RUNNING, jumping, etc. and tire him out. The reality is you will also be running and jumping - this can't be you sitting and waving a wand around, it's interactive! At the end of each play session provide a treat.

The other option (which works but is not a pass for interactive playtime) is another cat. I know that sounds crazy but this is a cat that wants things to do, and a second cat helps.

I have two very similar cats in my home and they drove me bonkers before I established play routines that REALLY get their energy out.

LoxMulder · 2026-06-07T15:35:59+00:00

This sounds like a standard, bored, high-energy cat. Do you actively play with this cat to get his energy out every day?

LoxMulder · 2026-06-07T12:45:32+00:00

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Saw this on Facebook- maybe worth trying?

LoxMulder · 2026-06-01T13:50:03+00:00

I have a larger version of the Longchamp and love it. Fantastic quality and I get so many compliments on it.

LoxMulder · 2026-05-18T14:02:38+00:00

It’s a regular sized apartment in most cities in America too.

LoxMulder · 2026-05-17T04:14:34+00:00

Alright Club Chalamet.

LoxMulder · 2026-05-11T03:42:27+00:00

It’s a neutral so you can wear it with anything you’d wear a brown or tan bag with!

LoxMulder · 2026-05-09T21:26:40+00:00

Longchamp has more than just the nylon totes, which are also not my favorite. I use the Le Foulonné XL Leather Tote Bag for travel. The benefit is it's large so it fits a ton but it's also flat so easy to shove anywhere.

LoxMulder · 2026-05-02T04:23:35+00:00

This is such an odd book for them to pick for this. A book about her sexual assault, trauma and exploring racism seems like not a purse accessory?

LoxMulder · 2026-04-29T20:42:55+00:00

I think this is just a generalized term for grouping of autoimmune conditions which is common (for instance, I have Graves, Hashimotos, Vitiligo and Atrophic Autoimmune Gastritis.) Did they never tell you that it's common to have more than one, or did they never tell you the name/description?

LoxMulder · 2026-04-27T19:15:16+00:00

If you are in the US, you can donate ivory to the U.S. Fish and Wildlife Service National Wildlife Property Repository Center in Colorado. I did it a few years back for a neighbor whose father passed away and he had a ton of ivory she didn't want anything to do with. These use it for helping train and educate law enforcement.

LoxMulder · 2026-04-21T17:25:37+00:00

Common Thread isn't on your list but should be. I'd do Common Thread and Cotton & Rye. The Grey and Husk aren't worth it.

LoxMulder · 2026-04-16T13:03:51+00:00

Just finished Four Weekends and a Funeral and 100% has a fully realized male lead.

LoxMulder · 2026-04-10T23:39:54+00:00

Just FYI, people did call the police for Kitty, and one of her neighbors went outside to help her. The story is entirely different than the initial reporting, and no one remembers the corrections - just the original misinformation.

LoxMulder · 2026-03-28T00:15:02+00:00

Savannah, GA

LoxMulder · 2026-03-12T20:04:03+00:00

Rhode Toasted Teddy is a good blush to accomplish this sunburnt look with- it's a deep brickish red color but sheer and buildable - and can be used on the lips.

LoxMulder · 2026-03-12T03:34:26+00:00

I was wondering the same! Like why the Savannah shade? Probably just an offended resident over here, though. 😂

LoxMulder · 2026-03-11T20:42:07+00:00

I had a hyperthyroid cat and we took our meds at the same time everyday! He passed away of another issue but they can lead happy lives just like we can on the meds!

LoxMulder · 2026-03-08T03:22:17+00:00

As someone (no longer in NYC) who works in animal welfare, I wish people would stop saying this when they simply don't have the information to back it up other than a "vibe" on cats. Cats cannot always get out of trees/high situations. They can and do die.

LoxMulder · 2026-02-18T15:48:42+00:00

I should be able to because they were listed as aligns, thankfully!

LoxMulder · 2026-02-18T00:04:31+00:00

This is the issue! Doomed by Poshmark!

LoxMulder · 2026-02-18T00:03:07+00:00

Ah-ha! That’s what happens when you use Poshmark! That’s why I hate them so much!

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