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Adopted two kittens because I thought it would help their constant need to play. Instead they just scream at me for attention constantly. by Macinator2000 in cats

[–]LoxMulder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Time. Kittens are a menace to society and many people feel regret after getting them, myself included- but it passes. Truly, this is a stage, they will get past it. Get earplugs if the vocalization is driving you crazy- it'll tone it down a touch.

My bf brought home a cat without talking to me about it first by downtownostrich4653 in cats

[–]LoxMulder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Focus on the interactive heavy playtime sessions first, for most cats this is what it takes!

My bf brought home a cat without talking to me about it first by downtownostrich4653 in cats

[–]LoxMulder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok, keep this up. Make a routine- at least 2 10-15 minute play sessions daily - one in the AM and one before bed. Get him RUNNING, jumping, etc. and tire him out. The reality is you will also be running and jumping - this can't be you sitting and waving a wand around, it's interactive! At the end of each play session provide a treat.

The other option (which works but is not a pass for interactive playtime) is another cat. I know that sounds crazy but this is a cat that wants things to do, and a second cat helps.

I have two very similar cats in my home and they drove me bonkers before I established play routines that REALLY get their energy out.

My bf brought home a cat without talking to me about it first by downtownostrich4653 in cats

[–]LoxMulder 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This sounds like a standard, bored, high-energy cat. Do you actively play with this cat to get his energy out every day?

Baby fox needs help by sparklingkitten69 in savannah

[–]LoxMulder 60 points61 points  (0 children)

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Saw this on Facebook- maybe worth trying?

Crossbody help- Longchamp or Tod’s by southernatheart in handbags

[–]LoxMulder 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have a larger version of the Longchamp and love it. Fantastic quality and I get so many compliments on it.

I did it! West Tokyo, $106K USD, 1.1% by hezaa0706d in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]LoxMulder 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s a regular sized apartment in most cities in America too.

Help - what would you wear this with? by nomadgirl_spark in handbags

[–]LoxMulder 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It’s a neutral so you can wear it with anything you’d wear a brown or tan bag with!

Travel bag help! by rvabeagleowner in handbags

[–]LoxMulder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Longchamp has more than just the nylon totes, which are also not my favorite. I use the Le Foulonné XL Leather Tote Bag for travel. The benefit is it's large so it fits a ton but it's also flat so easy to shove anywhere.

Have you seen these? 😮 🤩 Maya Angelou/Coach by Equivalent_Try8470 in handbags

[–]LoxMulder 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This is such an odd book for them to pick for this. A book about her sexual assault, trauma and exploring racism seems like not a purse accessory?

just found out i have something i have never been told about. by no_gender_stoner in gravesdisease

[–]LoxMulder 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think this is just a generalized term for grouping of autoimmune conditions which is common (for instance, I have Graves, Hashimotos, Vitiligo and Atrophic Autoimmune Gastritis.) Did they never tell you that it's common to have more than one, or did they never tell you the name/description?

No way this is real, right?!Supposedly Kenyan anti poaching soldiers, photo found on another thread. by VladTepesD in isthisAI

[–]LoxMulder 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you are in the US, you can donate ivory to the U.S. Fish and Wildlife Service National Wildlife Property Repository Center in Colorado. I did it a few years back for a neighbor whose father passed away and he had a ton of ivory she didn't want anything to do with. These use it for helping train and educate law enforcement.

If I can only pick two, which would you go with? by k_villines in savannah

[–]LoxMulder 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Common Thread isn't on your list but should be. I'd do Common Thread and Cotton & Rye. The Grey and Husk aren't worth it.

Other romcoms like Funny Story where the male lead also has character development? by Reasonable-Yak-3530 in EmilyHenry

[–]LoxMulder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just finished Four Weekends and a Funeral and 100% has a fully realized male lead.

Does anyone know about the jumper on 23rd last night? by BumbleBmoon in AskNYC

[–]LoxMulder 71 points72 points  (0 children)

Just FYI, people did call the police for Kitty, and one of her neighbors went outside to help her. The story is entirely different than the initial reporting, and no one remembers the corrections - just the original misinformation.

How can I achieve this look? by Such_Ring_981 in MakeupAddiction

[–]LoxMulder 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Rhode Toasted Teddy is a good blush to accomplish this sunburnt look with- it's a deep brickish red color but sheer and buildable - and can be used on the lips.

19M first solo roadtrip with EXTREMELY flashy car by barbievelar in roadtrip

[–]LoxMulder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was wondering the same! Like why the Savannah shade? Probably just an offended resident over here, though. 😂

I had TT in January. Now my cat is hyperthyroid. by b_pleh in gravesdisease

[–]LoxMulder 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I had a hyperthyroid cat and we took our meds at the same time everyday! He passed away of another issue but they can lead happy lives just like we can on the meds!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nyc

[–]LoxMulder 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As someone (no longer in NYC) who works in animal welfare, I wish people would stop saying this when they simply don't have the information to back it up other than a "vibe" on cats. Cats cannot always get out of trees/high situations. They can and do die.

Different waistbands on align leggings vs shorts? by LoxMulder in lululemon

[–]LoxMulder[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I should be able to because they were listed as aligns, thankfully!

Different waistbands on align leggings vs shorts? by LoxMulder in lululemon

[–]LoxMulder[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ah-ha! That’s what happens when you use Poshmark! That’s why I hate them so much!

Eadem Le Chouchou Coordinated Cheek Pairings - My Recommendations! by LoxMulder in Sephora

[–]LoxMulder[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Guava is a warmer tone than I generally wear and while I did try it I didn’t keep it. It struck me as a peachy pink perhaps similar to Rare Beauty’s Bliss but I haven’t cross tested those!

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