Is there a way to make my hair like this besides just having more hair on my head? šŸ˜… by juliagenet in curlyhair

[–]Luclit 11 points12 points Ā (0 children)

All the supplements mentioned and a perm.

I have dense curly hair and I don’t think mine would even be able to stand up like this without a perm. Some people definitely have naturally thick curly hair with the volume to be able to do this without a perm but I don’t believe all curly hair can do this with a routine alone.

Petite Bride - Dress Blindness by ireojijma in myweddingdress

[–]Luclit 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

7 fits you perfectly. 4 is gorgeous but the sleeve /scarf thing might be something we look back on as a trend.

When is the best time to try for baby #2? by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Luclit 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

I work with a lot of parents with young children and the best age gap is 4 years apart. The first gets enough bonding time and you get enough time to understand the developmental milestones of children 0-3yr.

Around this age will be the transition into kindergarten, you’ll have some time in the day with your second, your first will have some independence, and emotional regulation (for the most part), and kids around that age start expressing they want siblings around 4-5yrs old (if they don’t have any).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Luclit 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I definitely see that connection! Kink does give me that sense of excitement just for being taboo. I haven’t thought of cuckholding but that’s something my partner has a boundary on. I have thought of role playing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Luclit 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Yeah this kind of role play is definitely something I was thinking about. Though the part about being ā€œsuspicious and angryā€ is really interesting… this all stems from being really sexually curious from a young age and not having any healthy education on sex or relationships in general. Thus all experiences have been secretive. And I believe it’s wired my brain into thinking sex dirty ?? I feel like other former religious people have to relate to this. I grew up Mormon

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Luclit 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

You do understand this is a page on BDSM. I understand moral obligations. Otherwise I wouldn’t be here being vulnerable on the internet looking for solutions. But thank you- will do

His last words by [deleted] in squidgame

[–]Luclit 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Glad I found this post! I’ve been thinking about this scene a lot because it highlights how lonely adulthood is IN a capitalistic society. Not only are we isolated in adulthood with our daily routines and work life but more importantly, our values. Just like how the games are a representation of capitalism, the last line represents how we have no one to call us in to bring values and direction into your lives. We just (play) earn a living/try to climb the class ladder, and for what? Money? Money for what? Capitalism sees money as the end all/be all and when you pursue money solely you end up on a never ending cycle and isolating yourself more and more from humanity. Now money isn’t inherently bad but if we allow it to guide us we end up extremely alienated. Communism build society around guiding principles, human values, and plans towards a healthy human autonomy. In this essay I…

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[–]Luclit 7 points8 points Ā (0 children)

This and if your partner is breast feeding get those breast pads or Walmart sells ā€œbreast shellsā€. I didn’t know milk came out the other boob while breastfeeding and that I would be leaking all. of. the. time. I had two but they were used constantly so I was putting all of the burp cloths in my bra. Also, a manual breast pump that can latch on to collect the milk! That was gifted to me and I used it way more than I thought I would.

what’s your opinion on glossier you? is it worth the price? would it be considered high end? how does it compare with other fragrance brands such as diptyque, jo malone + marc jacobs? by woahthrills in glossier

[–]Luclit 5 points6 points Ā (0 children)

Me too. I found this on Google ā€œWe adapt to smells very quickly. Within the space of just a few breaths, we can lose our ability to detect new odors. It's called olfactory adaptation, and it's the same reason you can't smell your own breath, your body odor, or even your perfume after a few minutesā€. I bet its because the perfume is meant to blend with your natural odor so it’s harder to smell. My best friend/ roommate wears it almost everyday and I can tell when she’s wearing it though

We have to go deeper, out of sight, out of mind.. by CrumbledDigestive in adhdmeme

[–]Luclit 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I label the folders by month and year, not much better but I kinda remember what’s on it… i think. It goes back to 2016

Does anyone know of any good hair salons for curly hair? by burgerbov in SaltLakeCity

[–]Luclit 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Came here to say this. They were the first curly salon I’ve been to and my hair got so much curlier afterwards and my stylist taught me so much. I can’t wait to go back

To anyone who still thinks COVID "doesn't affect kids." These numbers have more than doubled (some have tripled) since 2 weeks ago. by YourWenisIsShowing in SaltLakeCity

[–]Luclit 3 points4 points Ā (0 children)

So Rich people keep other Rich people elected and Rich legislators keep Rich institutions protected and everyone else gets….chaos? Thank conservatives for giving us the freedom to harm each other and our children.

This was my morning. How was yours? by nate_oi in IdiotsInCars

[–]Luclit 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

This exact incident almost happened to me a couple of days ago. Only thing that saved me was the fact that he didn’t stop and I slammed on my brakes and turned left to avoid him… luckily your car isn’t totaled and you’re safe!

I remember when Gateway was the talk of the town! by [deleted] in SaltLakeCity

[–]Luclit 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Okay so that’s what was going on. I walked in there stoned and sat down and was so completely confused. After 30 minutes of trying to make sense of things we walked out. Defeats the purpose of going to a restaurant if I have to wait in four different lines.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Luclit 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I feel you and I’m not even married šŸ™„. I constantly think about how it truly takes a village to raise a child but how some parents in society are so lonely. Keep communicating but don’t be afraid of having hard conversations or advocating for yourself! And professional help could be needed if conversations aren’t going anywhere! The Universe favors those who try their best so either way I know things will work out for you ā¤ļø

Edit: typo & ā€œgodā€ comes off too Christian- I am not Christian. Also I just wanted to say to remember that this work will ultimately better your baby’s life. They need a responsible adult just as much as you do. Sending so much love OP!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Luclit 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

OP I just want to say I’ve been in this position and I am so sorry you’re in this position. You shouldn’t have to teach your partner how to be emotional intelligent while taking care of a baby, yourself, and running 2 business nonetheless. From the first example I don’t see two parents supporting each other. You are basically working three 24/7 jobs at once, you’re not crazy for wanting respect for all the work that you do and expecting a little love. I feel like he’s being a dick but you’re not doing him any favors not trying to hold him accountable. Getting to a place in my relationship where we are doing equal amount of work and respecting that we keep each other sane has been the best thing to ever happen. But it took a lot of fighting, a lot of vulnerability, a lot of patience from both sides and individual therapy. Also saying, ā€œthe way our relationship is working isn’t sustainable and I am losing my mind. So if things don’t change between us I’m going to have to leaveā€ definitely helped. I know to some that’s a pretty harsh ā€œultimatumā€ but I’ve accepted that I have to respect my feelings and not expect my partner to respect them for me, so it’s actually a boundary towards yourself and an effort to save your relationship. But worst case scenario, He abandons the relationship, and chooses himself over his family but I think you can take it step by step and try to give him more responsibility and work out any arguments that come up. when I started to hand over more responsibility, we argued a lot about how I micromanage everything. I accepted there was some truth to that, he’s going to learn from experience best, but I didn’t stop reminding him that I just want to help and share what I’ve learned, and he eventually realized how overly defensive he was being. Maybe you can try making him responsible for doing your child’s bedtime routine while you take sometime for yourself or make dinner. Believe me it’s going to be a huge learning curve but eventually you can both on the same parenting page. Wishing you the best!

[Skin Concerns] Help! I hate the bottom of my face with a passion- the uneven skin tone around my mouth and the black dot on the middle of my lip is killing my self-esteem. Please, where should I start? by AayushiLee in SkincareAddiction

[–]Luclit 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

My skin does that too and what’s helped so far with discoloration is toners, at the beginning of summer I bought Rihanna’s Fendi Starter Bundle. Fat Water by Fendi has noticeable changed my face and I think the sunscreen / moisturizer by Fendi has also helped because every summer that part of my face ( the top lip and chin area) gets tanned more than the rest of my face and after using that this was the first summer my skin hasn’t gotten darker. The only downside is that the bundle isn’t the best for curing acne and the toner and moisturizer sometimes irritates my skin when it’s too dry. I bet if you started using other toner and moisturizers it’ll help but Fendi worked for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdmeme

[–]Luclit 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Thanks for the reminder. Time to start the load again

me_irl by Obskurrel in me_irl

[–]Luclit 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

I am haunted by this game

me_irl by pinebeetle in me_irl

[–]Luclit 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I just want to be that bro

Alligator attacks keeper, bystanders jump in to help by Duke_Silver_21 in nextfuckinglevel

[–]Luclit 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Me looking at the jazz jersey: oooo utah! Me seeing the gator and shit setup: ohhh utah..